Disappointed and disgusted but not surprised.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Dear CVs,

It's more than fine to show harsh realities of life, go for it! But don't start majorly regressing your characters for it.

At the start of the show and throughout Kashmir it was BLATANTLY obvious Kabeer was attracted to and held softer feelings towards Zara. And now he's an unfeeling robot who uses his wife as a vessel to fulfill his husbandly duty?!
Yuck!

It would've been fine had you shown hik unfeeling and COMPLETELY rigid and having no attraction towards Zara from the BEGINNING.

Bye bye to the decent show I'd watched for the first two or three weeks 😆 Yahaan toh ek lead bohot jaldi butcher hogaya 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I totally understand your POV and I agree with you but I think you need to understand Kabir here.
He is so blinded by his Muslim faith that he cannot see that what he is doing is wrong. The show has just started. You cannot expect him to change overnight.

The whole point of the show is how Zara will SLOWLY change him.

If you notice, CVs are very good at showing parallels.

For example, Kabir would never eat on the dining table but Zara changed him.

I think in the future, Kabir will consummate the marriage because he wants to. He will initiate all the romantic moments, like Zara is doing now.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think you are over reacting...
First time I am watching something normal on Indian tele and its tryely amazing for me.

He was attracted to her...yes completely agreed..and they went ahead in Kashmir...

Coming back to home, he made it clear that as everything is going fine, let's focus on my work.kabir was like this from start..never saw him making first move and finally he conveyed that to Zara..

Zara bibi shukar khwab s Bahar ayngi ...its not 24/7 love ...you have to make him love you...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshian14

I totally understand your POV and I agree with you but I think you need to understand Kabir here.

He is so blinded by his Muslim faith that he cannot see that what he is doing is wrong. The show has just started. You cannot expect him to change overnight.

The whole point of the show is how Zara will SLOWLY change him.

If you notice, CVs are very good at showing parallels.

For example, Kabir would never eat on the dining table but Zara changed him.

I think in the future, Kabir will consummate the marriage because he wants to. He will initiate all the romantic moments, like Zara is doing now.


I am not expecting him to change overnight. I just pointed out the regression in his character - a regression which had NO obvious trigger imo. That's literally it. All of last week I've been saying the same thing and getting the same response, that 'Kabeer needs time'. Lmao I get it ffs my only issue is they have shown him from being attracted to his wife to being completely unfeeling towards her within the matter of MINUTES. THAT is my issue. Not his nazariya not his character etc. JUST the regression. It's that simple.


His attitude changed after they consummated their relationship in Kashmir. Was the sex bad? At least that would be an explanation for his behavioral change towards her. Do you see my point?


Sorry if I sound pissed, know that I'm not! Just tired of having to explain what I have an issue with since last week lol. Cheers! :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: attiya1.3

I think you are over reacting...

First time I am watching something normal on Indian tele and its tryely amazing for me.

He was attracted to her...yes completely agreed..and they went ahead in Kashmir...

Coming back to home, he made it clear that as everything is going fine, let's focus on my work.kabir was like this from start..never saw him making first move and finally he conveyed that to Zara..

Zara bibi shukar khwab s Bahar ayngi ...its not 24/7 love ...you have to make him love you...


I'm overreacting. Alright 😆


If you haven't been able to notice how majorly his attitude has changed due to no obvious trigger, then I guess we've got nothing more to discuss. To each their own.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This post is bang on. I totally get what you are trying to say.

I have a problem with the complete 180 Kabeer's character has taken.
I'm not married so don't know the reality but from what i have heard,stuff like this does happen in real life. Reality isn't a fairytale. I even appreciate the CV's for showing something which i doubt has been ever shown on TV.
But the point in all this is that Kabeer doesn't seem consistent. If Kabeer is so hell bent on his usool's and if he firmly believes the marriage and everything related to it is a "farz" then why even show all that crying in the Kashmir track. Obviously he would try and find her when she was kidnapped but if he had no romantic feelings for her and didn't feel for her on a deeper level then why show all the crying with her clothes scenes? WHY? I can't come in terms with that.

Had they shown him to be this rigid since the beginning it would have not been a problem(i would still have hated Kabeer, still feel bad for Zara) but his character would have been CONSISTENT.
I don't know... but i find them to be two different Kabeer's and that's why i find it difficult to conncect to the show aajkal.

Lets see where this is heading... I don't watch the episodes anyways, WU padhna hi kaphi hai. Maybe Miraj's entry and the Ramdan track are interesting...? Though i doubt it.
Right now,I just want to see a separation track where Zara is least bothered by him or his advances... He will get a dose of his medicine then.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nandini Iove you so much yaar
Same feelings here.

Yes I'm disappoint and a hella disgusted. WHAT FARZ IS THIS??

Telling your wife that 'oh I don't love you because you don't agree with eveything I Say' I'm pretty sure Islam says you should respect and love your wife. Pyaar ka farz b nibhao kabeer.

I'm not going to watch it anymore. Might watch their dance in the MS but until kabeer returns from this robotic state, I can't bear to see zara in this pain.


These lyrics from the song calm after the storm sum up zara for me today

'Livin' in the heartache
Was never something I pursued
I can't keep on chasing
What I can't be for you'

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta


I am not expecting him to change overnight. I just pointed out the regression in his character - a regression which had NO obvious trigger imo. That's literally it. All of last week I've been saying the same thing and getting the same response, that 'Kabeer needs time'. Lmao I get it ffs my only issue is they have shown him from being attracted to his wife to being completely unfeeling towards her within the matter of MINUTES. THAT is my issue. Not his nazariya not his character etc. JUST the regression. It's that simple.


His attitude changed after they consummated their relationship in Kashmir. Was the sex bad? At least that would be an explanation for his behavioral change towards her. Do you see my point?


Sorry if I sound pissed, know that I'm not! Just tired of having to explain what I have an issue with since last week lol. Cheers! :)


Haha lol "was the sex bad?" That is pretty hilarious. I don't think it has anything to do with their sex life. Zara is interfering too much with his work. Let him breathe. Why must she force herself into his project? She can start her own project or get more involved in Sharia board. Now, it makes sense that she is forcing herself in because she doesn't trust Ruksar and Miraj.

It didn't make sense when she started interfering the second he told her about his project. Its HIS project. HIS dream.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta


I'm overreacting. Alright 😆


If you haven't been able to notice how majorly his attitude has changed due to no obvious trigger, then I guess we've got nothing more to discuss. To each their own.

Its just happening becoz people expected both parties to madly love..

When kabir saved Zara...it was farz.
Sex...farZ..
Back home duties...farz..

We never think that we will be questionable to someone for if we love him or not...usually its all about duties as you can't force him to love...

Cheers😃


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Still don't understand his behavior post Kashmir and i it was so random
but gawd😳 i'm loving the reality check the cvs are showing here! i'm impressed that they actually have the Guts to show, this Reality!


Now Zara got to know Kabeer's feeling. Kabeer's behavior is awful but some Marriage start just like this! sigh...

😊

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