Suspicion always haunts the guilty mind !!!

The mind is a powerful force. It can enslave us or empower us. It can plunge us into the depths if misery or take us to the heights of ecstasy. Learn to use the power wisely. When suspicion or doubt creeps in, peace of mind goes for a walk...and ruins relationships.

At the gate where suspicion enters, love goes out. A suspicious mind always looks on the black side of things. It takes years to build up trust and it only takes suspicion, proof, to destroy it.

The proof of love is trust. In a relationship, trust is more important than love. It will enhance your love. Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundation principle that holds all relationships.

Trust is like glass...once broken it will never be the same again. A healthy relationship is built on unwavering trust. The foundation of a relationship is trust. When you trust someone without a doubt, you finally get two results...A person for life or a lesson for life.

Deception may give us what we want for the present, but it will always take it away in the end. Foundation built on lies and deceit will never stand the test of time. A single lie discovered is enough to create doubt in every truth expressed. Pretty words are not always true, and true words are not always pretty. Don't fear the enemy who attacks you , fear the fake friend who hugs you.

Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud. Insecurities can destroy a perfect relationship and a friendship. Insecurity kills all that is beautiful. Sometimes our thoughts are backed by so much insecurity, that they create lies we believe.

Don't let insecurity destroy you. Good relationships don't just happen. They need time, patience and two people who truly want to be together. So stop allowing your own insecurities to color the way you interpret someone else's intention.

Kamini has always been insecure in her life. Her relationship with Viplav is built on lies and deceit. She has deceived Viplav to get married to her, she may have achieved what she wanted but its only temporarily. When Viplav got to know the truth he is no longer allowing her anymore inher life and heis going to punish her for the sins n crimes she has committed all this while.

There has never been any trust in Kamini and Viplav's relationship. The foundation of their relationship is weak in itself like Parshiya pointed it out to her. He was right in pointing out that she needs to learn from Dhani how to maintain trust and a relationship.

In certain issues Dhani was wrong herself by hiding the fact that Viplav is Vidha's father from the child. She should have mentioned it to her, as here as well the foundation of their relationship needs to be built on truth and trust.

Dhani and Viplav had created their relationship based on trust, but one suspicion could separate them for five long years. Had Dhani confirmed the matter later even though after five years, they would have resolved their issues.

Be it insecurity or suspicion it is so dangerous that it can destroy a relationship. In any relationship there should no space for such things, instead it should be replaced with trust, truth and belief in each other. It takes years to build and maintain any relationship but a few matter of seconds to destroy it...how we decide to maintain it depends on us alone.

Do share your views.😊

Originally posted by: pearl100

Hello Zad 😃 good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your wonderful view...For the initial paragraph you are so right, mind can either be controlled by ourselves or by some one else. If we can try to control our emotions, we can have control over our mind else anyone can find a weak spot, take advantage of it and they shall try to control us.

Yes the greed for the power DT has been shown n he can go to any extent to retain the power. His total disrespect towards the widows is only coz as you rightly pointed due to the fact that they are poor and he feels they do not belong to their status level. He has misused his power n controlled people's minds and they have blindly followed his words to be the truth. He has had a lavish life by cheating the public.

Yes I agree, that every person has some or the other negative emotions at one or the other point of time, it entirely depends on us whether we can control those emotions or let those emotions control us. Kamini has been controlled by those emotions hence she leads a very destructive life and not only that due to these negative emotions she has been dangerous to people around her as well.

Yes DT did play cat n mouse games with Viplav and Dhani so many times, but finally glad that Dhani herself saw his true colors and never fell for his words later on. The love is an integral part of this show, which is interlinked with trust. The trust which was broken needs some time to be rebuilt and yes the truth always wins in the end. No Zad this is a lovely POV I learnt and understood so much from your reply...Thank you for coming and always being a constant support...Till then take care.

Originally posted by: zajedno

I knew you'd all understand why I wrote so much. play someone else's mind sometimes can be interesting if it's all in the normal range. I always play with someone. just depends on whether this misuse or good faith of some directing. directing and giving some advice is in some way and playing with the mind, because if a man accepts the advice means that you have reached his mind and thus can not change, and his opinion. bit morbid but it is so. all of us play.