Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through expectation. When you release expectations, you are free to enjoy things for what they are instead of what you think they should be. Don't expect things to happen. It's better to feel surprised, than be disappointed. Expectation is the root of all heartache. So we create our own heartbreaks. Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold. Attachments lead to expectations and expectations leads to disappointments. So don't have too much of expectation, just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens.
False hopes are more dangerous than fears. False hope is sometimes mistaken for true love. Don't rush into something until you're sure it actually exists. False hope is sometimes much worse and sometimes much better than no hope. Better to know the quick pain of truth than the ongoing pain of a long held false hope. Never allow yourself to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. Letting go of someone is hard. But holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is harder.
The reason why we can't let go of someone is because deep inside we still have hope. It's so hard to be strong when you're so broken. A person that truly loves you will never let you go, no matter how hard the situation is. Never get too attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you. The root of suffering is attachment. Things are as they are, we suffer because we imagined different.
To be free from suffering, free yourself from attachments. You can only lose what you cling to. The worst thing in life is attachment, it hurts when you lose it. The best thing in life is loneliness, it teaches you everything and when you lose it, you get everything. Once you get attached to someone everything they do affects you. Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.
Missing someone is the worst feeling in the world. Distance means so little when someone means so much. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. Missing someone is a part of loving them. If you're never apart, you'll never really know how strong your love is. When someone you love becomes a memory, then the memory becomes a treasure.
Both Parshiya and Viplav have hopes to win back Dhani's heart one day. In order to avoid facing the truth dhani unintentionally gives false hopes to Parshiya and he does have some expectations from her. She is avoiding Viplav n hurting him, at the same time it gives all false expectations and hopes to Parshiya. Both the men are suffering in this process. Had Dhani cleared up the differences things wouldn't have to come to such a point. Viplav misses being close to Dhani n he is so close to her yet she seems so far away from him. Deep inside her heart she knows his feelings as well as hers, but she doesn't admit to them.
Parshiya on the other hand has an attachment towards Dhani n her family from the past five years. So he does have a fear of losing her. His love for Dhani is unrequited and too many expectations can lead to disappointments for him. In the case of Anshuman , hemisses his family a lot, after being separated from him. Viplav and Anshuman are in a similar situation who had to through the painful experience of being away from their family.
While Dulari had some expectations from her husband who haven't searched for her, in their case no one was at fault just that Misunderstanding have drifted them apart. So is in Viplav's case. But Viplav doesn't wish to give up unless and until he unties Dhani's family so that they receive the well deserved and awaiting happiness in their lives.
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This is the combination of the past few episodes.
Veer Hanuman
Anupamaa
