Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#12 Lo aaj main kehta hoon - Page 68

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Expectations are always there. 😆

Parents ke bhi hote hain toh life partner se toh honge hi😆

not overpowering expectations and blame games

Originally posted by: esprit_00

I think Ahaan will make Ishqi get up or get down beside her ... don’t write him off just yet.

Can someone please take that ill-fitting Tight sherwani off him!!

Haww you want him to take off his sherwani in the middle of the road? Baniyaan mein ghoomega woh toh what will happen to his khaandaan ki izzat?🤣

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Series hi dekh lo. If Ishqaan is driving you crazy.. IPKKND is another level. atleast 10 saal tak iska bukhar sawar rahega 😆

Originally posted by: war_is_peace

i dont want to compare who has it worse but i want to say that when you are in a strong headspace things dont feel worse vs when you are in a weak headspace.

emotionally ishqi is strong because she has always done what she wanted to and she has that self faith. isliye she will always be the one to handle the situation.

while ahaan is emotionally weak. he has never got the love one needs to feel liberated. he had no idea about anything until ishqi entered his life. he doesnt have that self faith that is needed to navigate through life. but what he has is financial stability.

this relationship is an exchange of emotional stability and financial stability.

I see it has internal struggle vs external struggle.

Ishqi has external struggles like financial problems, taking care of mausi etc. but inside her head she is all sorted. She doesn’t give shit about what others think of her, she knows what is right and wrong. She is survivor and fighter.

Ahaan has internal struggles. His life is full of roses from outside. No financial struggle, good family, siblings. But internally he is lost, he doesn’t know who is he. He has identity issue, he himself doesn’t know what is wrong what is right, what to believe. He constantly struggles with himself.

At the end of the day Ishqi can sleep peacefully as she knows she is right but Ahaan will get nightmares.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I still think it is more torture for Ahaan than Ishqi. Ishqi did not have to beg dadi, it was her choice but for Ahaan it is very different. He doesn’t have escape form dadi. The way she threaten himof suicide, the way she tells him that he will become orphan again if he does this or that, the way she constantly abuse his mother in front of him is nothing but mental toruture. Dadi is very evil and she hurt this guy everyday with her words.

He said dadi until now he did everything she has been saying but in case of ishqi he has to listen to himself. That’s the only one thing he wants for himself as he feels liberated with her. The sense of liberation which he never felt for these years in malhotra house.

I agree. And bold^^ --it is upsetting to think how desperately he wants Daadi to be okay with it. Daadi is the only parent he has known and her validation means a lot, so he deals with all the indirect mental abuse and manipulation by Daadi (this woman has no conscience). She is his family and he can't really have a life without her. What bothers me is Ishqi, by association, has to deal with this mess because of Ahaan. Bechari raste se jaa rahi thi bhelpuri kha rahi thi minding her own business and yeh gale pad gaya😆

Originally posted by: SuMod

I really do want to, but kya karen timeee. Ishqaan ke liye barely time nikal pati hun multitasking karke.

Me feeling dissatisfied with ishqaan ; I watch IPKKND and Arnav Khushi to feel better 😆

Originally posted by: rubys07

I agree. And bold^^ --it is upsetting to think how desperately he wants Daadi to be okay with it. Daadi is the only parent he has known and her validation means a lot, so he deals with all the indirect mental abuse and manipulation by Daadi (this woman has no conscience). She is his family and he can't really have a life without her. What bothers me is Ishqi, by association, has to deal with this mess because of Ahaan. Bechari raste se jaa rahi thi bhelpuri kha rahi thi minding her own business and yeh gale pad gaya😆

🤣 As Param said Ahaan needs psychiatrist. I do hope ishqi gets him a counselor as a wedding gift 😆. I think thoda practically sochke jao relationship me and try to get experts help.
Listen to Ahaan ishqi, jat situarion ko akele handle karne ki zid nai karni chahiye 😆

Originally posted by: esprit_00

So poignant.

I agree completely ... and that ishqi monologue was foreshadowing this. She knows AVM will shatter in pieces with this hate n love. I mean for once the guy wanted to follow his heart - just once and look at the outcome.

To be honest, I think Ahaan doesn’t know how to hate - he is passionate but not hateful - he does these horrid things as form of self destruction and self-loathe. He has abandonment issues because of his mom leaving and shows how much he hates her & such women. But the moment he sees her, his heart will start melting and start questioning ... if anything he always wants to know “why” anyone did what they did and that is an important question to ask.

Great point! I feel that Ahaan is incapable of hating anyone who is somehow connected to him, through lineage or emotions. This guy is a family fanboy, family is his be all and end all so I don't think he could ever hold a grudge against anyone who is a part of his life somehow. Remember Chachi also told Daadi that Ahaan forgave Ishqi after knowing the truth, that means he deserves to know Savitri's truth too (but Daadi shut her up). Even if whatever happened was somehow Savy's fault, I don't see AVM torturing or abusing her, he'd probably turn into that little boy who needed answers and lived his whole life without ever getting them.

Originally posted by: rubys07

I agree. And bold^^ --it is upsetting to think how desperately he wants Daadi to be okay with it. Daadi is the only parent he has known and her validation means a lot, so he deals with all the indirect mental abuse and manipulation by Daadi (this woman has no conscience). She is his family and he can't really have a life without her. What bothers me is Ishqi, by association, has to deal with this mess because of Ahaan. Bechari raste se jaa rahi thi bhelpuri kha rahi thi minding her own business and yeh gale pad gaya😆

That’s a common theme in tv shows with good reason. Happens a lot in life . That’s why girls prefer guys who stay away from parents. Even if they aren’t evil, adjustment can be very difficult for girls. People have such higher expectations from Bahus. And no matter how much you do; the MIL can’t be your mother. It happens very rarely. First few years are really difficult for most.

In real life, the harsh and stern MIL won’t even have a shady past, that can come out in the future. She can just be sadistic.

While we hate women pulling women down on TV. That happens a lot in reality. Women are just jealous of one another.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

🤣 As Param said Ahaan needs psychiatrist. I do hope ishqi gets him a counselor as a wedding gift 😆. I think thoda practically sochke jao relationship me and try to get experts help.
Listen to Ahaan ishqi, jat situarion ko akele handle karne ki zid nai karni chahiye 😆

I wish ITV ever showed couples going for therapy or just individuals seeking expert help. Seriously adhe se zyada siyappe toh aise hi solve ho jayenge😆