Wow Makers!! I am Impressed👏 - Page 20

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

as someone who grew up with a depressed mother who took out all her unresolved traumas and heartbreaks on me, i can’t even explain in words to you what it does to a child when their mother (in Cheeni’s case, mother figure), the one person jiske bharose they come into the world, is emotionally and mentally unavailable to them and the fear, agony, and deep trauma that it instills in them probably for the rest of their lives. so i’m incredibly proud and in awe of Imlie for showing the kind of mammoth strength it takes to set aside her own personal pain and trauma for Cheeni (even when she’s not her own flesh and blood), putting on a wide (albeit false) smile and stepping up like a true parent. she is the mother i needed as a child. she is the mother every child in the world deserves. but does that mean she isn’t in pain? no. in fact, she’s in much more pain. the deeper in pain one is, the lesser they tend to display it. one can neither find the right words to explain what you feel inside (even when people offer a listening ear), nor does acting on it make it go away even for a moment. because they have internalised the pain as a state of their being. i can attest to this from my own life.

My id is gaya84. Sorry to hear what you gone through. Hope God always bless you with more strength and surround with love from your loved ones. Like I said I never had offense with kid and she is here for a reason. Regarding imlie, she is a giver not a taker so I am not surprised how she took care of gudiya, even though she have her own personal loss and pain.. she also equally love Aryan but CVS not showing her suffering, mourning and pain so that audience can connect with her more. We need to assume ourselves whatever you mentioned above which some audience will do but not everyone. Issue is cvs execution, don't know Why CVS always run instead hold a break and write SS equally for everyone.

Originally posted by: gaya84

My id is gaya84. Sorry to hear what you gone through. Hope God always bless you with more strength and surround with love from your loved ones. Like I said I never had offense with kid and she is here for a reason. Regarding imlie, she is a giver not a taker so I am not surprised how she took care of gudiya, even though she have her own personal loss and pain.. she also equally love Aryan but CVS not showing her suffering, mourning and pain so that audience can connect with her more. We need to assume ourselves whatever you mentioned above which some audience will do but not everyone. Issue is cvs execution, don't know Why CVS always run instead hold a break and write SS equally for everyone.

edit: i’m so sorry i forgot to reply to this! thank you for your blessings. i wish the same for you too. ❤️

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

i get what you’re saying. but everyone should keep in mind that the point the story is at right now is not the next day after the accident, but 5 years ahead of it (even if it doesn’t feel like it). this is a really long time by the end of which she was probably all cried out over the loss of her child and husband. it‘s obvious that internally, she’s still in mourning. but she’s mostly done wallowing in her pain. Aryan is still wallowing in his pain because he’s lost his purpose in life and his family members as we saw, are constantly talking to him about Imlie and the past, rehashing his memory of them. whereas in Imlie’s case, she had to forcefully pull herself together and get her act cleaned up for Cheeni’s sake. and neither of her family members are shown bringing up Aryan or the past, which is why her mind stays distracted away from active thoughts of them. notwithstanding the differences of their individual circumstances, they’re both in just as much pain as the other. but can she break down/cry more over Aryan and their loss child? yes. will she? no. why? she has responsibilities, and she’s made those the purpose of her life now. Aryan does too, but whether he chooses to fulfill them/find another purpose in life/continue wallowing in his pain are all his own decisions that have nothing to do with Imlie. as far as execution goes, maybe it’s not the most ideal, but i think the idea is to show two vastly different personalities dealing with the same personal tragedy in two vastly different ways.

Well written!

No two person will react in same way even if they are twin.So I think people should stop expecting similar reaction from Imlie.

Second, its 5years, which is really a long time to have same reaction that one may have during initial few months or in first year after a loss.

And third, Imlie has taken a responsibility on herself and those who are mothers will clearly acknowledge that as a mother/guardian, one needs to hide own pain and create a happy environment for a growing child.

And she also need to set a good example for child by having a real meaningful purpose in life.

Aaryan has always been too sensitive and not able to handle loss. He had stopped living a normal life after his jeeju sudden death. He told Imlie he feels dead after loss of cheeku and after Imlie departure he lost his world and purpose.

Cheeni may bring a purpose back in his life similar to like she brought in Imlie's life.

And love for cheeni will bring both of them back together again.

Originally posted by: anabh

Well written!

No two person will react in same way even if they are twin.So I think people should stop expecting similar reaction from Imlie.

Second, its 5years, which is really a long time to have same reaction that one may have during initial few months or in first year after a loss.

And third, Imlie has taken a responsibility on herself and those who are mothers will clearly acknowledge that as a mother/guardian, one needs to hide own pain and create a happy environment for a growing child.

And she also need to set a good example for child by having a real meaningful purpose in life.

Aaryan has always been too sensitive and not able to handle loss. He had stopped living a normal life after his jeeju sudden death. He told Imlie he feels dead after loss of cheeku and after Imlie departure he lost his world and purpose.

Cheeni may bring a purpose back in his life similar to like she brought in Imlie's life.

And love for cheeni will bring both of them back together again.

U know yaar what's the shocking thing here, my case has turned completely opposite now

I am unable to understand Aryan at all post leap

Like yes he goes to get beaten by Street fighters & wishes for death to come to him but in today's episode he is declaring he will go to any lengths to fight for his people? Abhi wasn't it just an episode before he wanted to die all of a sudden he is a warrior charging in the battlefield such change???

Ok & just bcz we got a dream sequence from Aryan's side how does that make his POV clear? Like what is he feeling? Is it guilt? Is it anger? Is it hate? What's going on his mind? And why are the CVs expecting from us to decode his feelings, this is a ITV show right? Shouldn't they show it all to us, mein apne dimag ke ghode kyu daudau for a fictional character??

Originally posted by: wasra

U know yaar what's the shocking thing here, my case has turned completely opposite now

I am unable to understand Aryan at all post leap

Like yes he goes to get beaten by Street fighters & wishes for death to come to him but in today's episode he is declaring he will go to any lengths to fight for his people? Abhi wasn't it just an episode before he wanted to die all of a sudden he is a warrior charging in the battlefield such change???

Ok & just bcz we got a dream sequence from Aryan's side how does that make his POV clear? Like what is he feeling? Is it guilt? Is it anger? Is it hate? What's going on his mind? And why are the CVs expecting from us to decode his feelings, this is a ITV show right? Shouldn't they show it all to us, mein apne dimag ke ghode kyu daudau for a fictional character??

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

okay from the dream sequence, i got the idea that he feels guilt (?) since he imagined Imlie saying “sab kuch beker ke chain se so rahe ho?”. since that was his imagination, his vision of Imlie was playing his conscience imo. but then, he was also forcing himself to avoid the fact that he was missing her by saying out aloud that he doesn’t want to think about/speak to her. the thing i don’t get though, is his hate for her. i could understand it if it was a normal amount, but it’s like super hate.

@bold: And I am super confused Shalu ki bhai khud ki feelings sort karlo fir hume ek acha sa monolog do ki tumhe chahiye kya😆😁🤣🤣

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold: And I am super confused Shalu ki bhai khud ki feelings sort karlo fir hume ek acha sa monolog do ki tumhe chahiye kya😆😁🤣🤣

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

okay from the dream sequence, i got the idea that he feels guilt (?) since he imagined Imlie saying “sab kuch beker ke chain se so rahe ho?”. since that was his imagination, his vision of Imlie was playing his conscience imo. but then, he was also forcing himself to avoid the fact that he was missing her by saying out aloud that he doesn’t want to think about/speak to her. the thing i don’t get though, is his hate for her. i could understand it if it was a normal amount, but it’s like super hate.

Actually I think its a mixed feeling.

He is hurt that Imlie didnt trust him to take care of gudiya. But at very next instance he couldnt keep his other promise of protecting imlie.

Yes it is also guilt of not being able to protect his family, saving imlie when she was falling down. Some people transfer their feelings on to other person " transferance" instead of coping it themselves or facing own demon.....here he is blaming imlie but also feeling equally responsible that yet another time he was not able to fulfil his promise or protect his loved one......

He doesnt want to face imlie because Imlie will make him realize what he failed to do but imlie is subconsciously on his mind and so to numb his senses he gets himself inflicted with so many injuries that he wants physical pain to overtake his emotional trauma.

Sometimes you need a wakening call to forget your pain. Imlie found hers 5 years ago. He did now. For him BT is a place which Imlie worships so he wants to protect it at any cost even if he is angry at her.

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold: And I am super confused Shalu ki bhai khud ki feelings sort karlo fir hume ek acha sa monolog do ki tumhe chahiye kya😆😁🤣🤣

Is there another Shalu here. 👀👀👀

Originally posted by: shalu79

Is there another Shalu here. 👀👀👀

Yes there is, actually her name is Shalini, i made that Shalu❤ tagging her for u😆