Wow Makers!! I am Impressed👏 - Page 16

Originally posted by: wasra

Aaj Aarthi is throwing truth bombs😎💣💣

Je Fireeee girl🥳 I love u❤

The only thing i dnt like in today's epi was cheeni taking mobile with her and Imlie allowing it.. that to during her exams

Originally posted by: wasra

Hello Dear,

I am glad that u decided to share ur own pain to make us all realise here what actually it would feel for someone who has gone through that kind of trauma & yet has emerged stronger out of it & all i am going to say is more power to u girl & more power to every person out there who has seen a situation like that in their life and still have emerged stronger out of it.

Ok, i never wanted to reveal this but since i read ur post decided i should. How many of u while going through my posts or having an interaction with me could guess that I lost my father to covid last year. Ofcrs we all are just a display name to each other but let me tell u i m exactly like the way i have been in my interactions in real life.

All u could guess from my posts was she is maybe someone fun loving who has this funny bone in her, makes u laugh & it's kind of easy to have a convo with her. U would never see me bawling my eyes out thinking ye kya hogaya mere saath when he was very close to me & i was just 23. Don't be more surprised bcz my mother & father both had been fighting against covid a year ago together while my mother could emerge out, my father couldn't. So, i was this close to being an orphan with the responsibility of a younger brother of 18 yrs.

It has been a year now, my mother & brother end up in tears remembering him once in every week but my brain handled the same grief in a very different manner all together. As I said, i was closest to him in the family, for a person like that I should be crying almost daily missing him right? But no, 20 days past his death I got the offer for my 1st interview, cleared it, achieved the job, then became a complete workaholic, i took care of all responsibilities after his death, the results of my brother's 12th was announced & he was the school topper, we celebrated. Got my brother admitted in the top clg of the city here, my mother completely devoted herself to her music grp (she is M.A Music) & classes.

But I never ever sat down to cry for the biggest loss of my life. Once in a few months, the grief strikes me & it strikes me hard, i m just unable to stop my tears, it just keeps flowing, so i end up crying for hours & eventually falling asleep due to crying. But when I wakeup I feel light & completely at peace than it goes on just like before as if nothing happened. Just bcz my body's way of dealing with grief is different that does not mean I didn't love my father. For an outsider, i know it would put up an image that the girl was not close to her father like her other family members but my family knows what i lost. And for those outsiders i give a damn bcz they will never ever understand.

When people were saying Imlie has moved on, she never ever loved Aryan like the way he did i was laughing my heart here u know why? Bcz then what was the difference betwen those outsiders that judge me & the people that were questioning Imlie? Everyone is same. Just bcz my family & Aryan's way of dealing with grief is more expressive that does not mean mine & Imlie's way of dealing with the grief of her dead child & dead relationship is a facade, it's just that we are not expressive enough to show it to the world.

As i said once in a few months his loss hits me hard & it becomes difficult to control so i try avoiding any triggers that would push me into this realization of his loss, my family avoids talking abt him near me same goes for Imlie, it must be so hard for her that when it sinks in it becomes unbearable no wonder she is not seen having FBs of Aryan.

PS khabardar jo kisine mujhe bechari samjha toh, i am the same girl who wrote that khatarnak post in the morning, would literally put that person on gun point😤

Thanks for sharing your story. I lost my father too a few years ago and his loss is still as fresh as ever even though I rarely cry. Hugs to you and your family.

Originally posted by: gaya84

Myself and Khushi was discussing before the same, good and bad they're showing Aryan well so we could able to relate and connect with him, most of them can't connect with imlie due to CVS bad writing. It's not fair Also. Whatever you mentioned above should have reflect on screen instead we analyze, understand and peace with it. Everyone won't do that. At EOD they're parents and they got seperated so emotions should be shown from both sides, it's fine Aryan didn't work for five years and imlie moved on with her mission.

Gayu they are building it all up

The audience will get frustrated when they don't see Imlie's pain ofcrs but u know they will kill everyone by revealing her pain from Meethi in front of Aryan. And that will kill Aryan too. No wonder wo door bhagega usse. We would really want to bang our heads seeing both of them, i said na the story is really good this time. All we need to do is have patience.

Originally posted by: new_tvfan

Thanks for sharing your story. I lost my father too a few years ago and his loss is still as fresh as ever even though I rarely cry. Hugs to you and your family.

Hey dear,

U know i became a fan of ur's when u pointed out the right meaning of Aryan's I trust my wife dialog when i had been so frustrated that day😆. If my story makes u realise Imlie's side of POV and helps u to connect with her pain, i would be really glad🙂 And yeah, the loss of a parent is a very traumatic thing lots of hugs to u & ur family too.

Originally posted by: Aarthi_01

it's Twitter post that made me post these.. and Imlie side nt been properly explained by the creatives..

The only thing i dnt like in today's epi was cheeni taking mobile with her and Imlie allowing it.. that to during her exams

They are doing it purposely dekhna jis din they reveal her side of the story Forum mein badh aajaegi sabke ansuo se😆

@bold: same bhn same, i literally rolled my eyes so hard at that but some BS we will have to ignore🤣🤣

Originally posted by: wasra

Gayu they are building it all up

The audience will get frustrated when they don't see Imlie's pain ofcrs but u know they will kill everyone by revealing her pain from Meethi in front of Aryan. And that will kill Aryan too. No wonder wo door bhagega usse. We would really want to bang our heads seeing both of them, i said na the story is really good this time. All we need to do is have patience.

I get your point.. so they will show the pain through meethi and what about her self realization where she gone wrong?? if CVS trying to show only because of Aryan asked her to go they gone through this loss and seperation then it will badly clash back on their faces because people don't want Aryan to beg and ask sorry for entire thing happened when she also equally wrong.. anyways let them show what they want.

Originally posted by: Aarthi_01

it's Twitter post that made me post these.. and Imlie side nt been properly explained by the creatives..

The only thing i dnt like in today's epi was cheeni taking mobile with her and Imlie allowing it.. that to during her exams

This harkats of Imlu makes me feel she more of an older sister than mother.

Originally posted by: wasra

Hello Dear,

I am glad that u decided to share ur own pain to make us all realise here what actually it would feel for someone who has gone through that kind of trauma & yet has emerged stronger out of it & all i am going to say is more power to u girl & more power to every person out there who has seen a situation like that in their life and still have emerged stronger out of it.

Ok, i never wanted to reveal this but since i read ur post decided i should. How many of u while going through my posts or having an interaction with me could guess that I lost my father to covid last year. Ofcrs we all are just a display name to each other but let me tell u i m exactly like the way i have been in my interactions in real life.

All u could guess from my posts was she is maybe someone fun loving who has this funny bone in her, makes u laugh & it's kind of easy to have a convo with her. U would never see me bawling my eyes out thinking ye kya hogaya mere saath when he was very close to me & i was just 23. Don't be more surprised bcz my mother & father both had been fighting against covid a year ago together while my mother could emerge out, my father couldn't. So, i was this close to being an orphan with the responsibility of a younger brother of 18 yrs.

It has been a year now, my mother & brother end up in tears remembering him once in every week but my brain handled the same grief in a very different manner all together. As I said, i was closest to him in the family, for a person like that I should be crying almost daily missing him right? But no, 20 days past his death I got the offer for my 1st interview, cleared it, achieved the job, then became a complete workaholic, i took care of all responsibilities after his death, the results of my brother's 12th was announced & he was the school topper, we celebrated. Got my brother admitted in the top clg of the city here, my mother completely devoted herself to her music grp (she is M.A Music) & classes.

But I never ever sat down to cry for the biggest loss of my life. Once in a few months, the grief strikes me & it strikes me hard, i m just unable to stop my tears, it just keeps flowing, so i end up crying for hours & eventually falling asleep due to crying. But when I wakeup I feel light & completely at peace than it goes on just like before as if nothing happened. Just bcz my body's way of dealing with grief is different that does not mean I didn't love my father. For an outsider, i know it would put up an image that the girl was not close to her father like her other family members but my family knows what i lost. And for those outsiders i give a damn bcz they will never ever understand.

When people were saying Imlie has moved on, she never ever loved Aryan like the way he did i was laughing my heart here u know why? Bcz then what was the difference betwen those outsiders that judge me & the people that were questioning Imlie? Everyone is same. Just bcz my family & Aryan's way of dealing with grief is more expressive that does not mean mine & Imlie's way of dealing with the grief of her dead child & dead relationship is a facade, it's just that we are not expressive enough to show it to the world.

As i said once in a few months his loss hits me hard & it becomes difficult to control so i try avoiding any triggers that would push me into this realization of his loss, my family avoids talking abt him near me same goes for Imlie, it must be so hard for her that when it sinks in it becomes unbearable no wonder she is not seen having FBs of Aryan.

PS khabardar jo kisine mujhe bechari samjha toh, i am the same girl who wrote that khatarnak post in the morning, would literally put that person on gun point😤

thank you so much for sharing your story with us, i’m so sorry for your loss. you’re a fighter, wasra ji. ❤️

you know, i spent so much of my childhood alone with my mother. and at 5/6, neither did i know who to turn to, nor did i dare to say anything to anyone. my mother would scream in my face for practically just looking in her eyes or accidentally bumping into her. she relished periodically trying to convince me that i’m adopted. i can never forget the way her eyes used to glow with happiness watching me get all afraid and cry. i still sometimes get nightmares of it. she used to also try to convince me that my dad was having an affair (he never did) and that it was all my fault for breaking the family up, as revenge whenever they fought. i’ve seen her throw knives at my father during arguments. it was all so incredibly confusing and plain frightening. i tried to run away from home at 8, got caught by her, and got the beating of my life for it. i’ve spent two whole decades of my life just trying to make sense and deal with all that trauma. two decades of crying myself to sleep every night, hoping that i wouldn’t wake up the next day and a suicide attempt on now, i’ve just started to see a sliver of light. like it wouldn’t bother me if i were to drop dead tomorrow itself, but i figured i owed it to myself to fulfill at least one of my lifelong goals (i.e. own my own home) until that happens. might sound depressing/dysfunctional to others, but it keeps me going one more day everyday. i guess this is why i’m able to understand Imlie and the way she deals and functions with her issues/trauma/pain. it’s not always ideal or functional, but it is the only way we know how to do this. i also understand the way she doesn’t differentiate between who she should consider family/stranger and friend/foe. because once you’ve had pain inflicted on you by people who are supposed to be your own, whom you should have been able to trust to never betray/hurt you in any way, you cease to differentiate between people that way. it becomes easy for you to treat everyone objectively.

Originally posted by: wasra

Gayu they are building it all up

The audience will get frustrated when they don't see Imlie's pain ofcrs but u know they will kill everyone by revealing her pain from Meethi in front of Aryan. And that will kill Aryan too. No wonder wo door bhagega usse. We would really want to bang our heads seeing both of them, i said na the story is really good this time. All we need to do is have patience.

Khushi meri jaan, more power to you.

I agree meethi will reveal everything to Aryan how miserable she was. I think.it was TC article that reported.it. This will be reason for Aryan leaving PD . This is going to be journey this time..

After listening to meethi how miserable Imlie was, it will kill him and he will keep pushing Imlie away

Both will play push-pull game for long time.

Originally posted by: DyuQueen

This harkats of Imlu makes me feel she more of an older sister than mother.

Yaar aisa nhi lagta there is a missing puzzle piece in between the pic, jo Imlie itni attached thi to the infant gudiya she is so in control & mature around the same Gudiya when she has grown up?

It makes me feel ki when Imlie returned to PD with Gudiya she would have definitely endured a breakdown so hard that Meethi had to take the entire situation in control, it looked more like Meethi was Cheeni's mother & imlie her sister