A big hug to all my friends - Page 4

Originally posted by: gaya84

That's what I also said on Arylie DT neelu. I shared my own experience too. Even after Married more than five years we also had few extreme fights but we came around, sort it and moved on. Things will happen to fall part and it will take sometime to fix and heal. Many couples fall out during tough time and many come out stronger together with flying colors. Arylie also will come around stronger than ever but it'll take time.

Regarding aryan - he is the Jaan of this show, only because of him and Arylie people still holding on. I still don't know how anyone can hate him?? Today he is on extreme pain, he almost lost his wife and baby forever so whatever he holding inside coming out at wrong time. Arylie supposed to have this confrontation about her obsession after Arylie marriage but CVS pushed it under the rug and now reopened through his baby.

Taking Akt name and asking her to leave, he will regret once he gets cool down. Will imlie realize what her carelessness and obsession lead's to?? If CVS wants.

After leap, really want to see the imlie character progression and she going back of Aryan, hunt him down because as of now we saw his efforts hope this time efforts from her side 🤷

@bold1:- i realised that gayu and went to make a post regarding Aryan's pain as a father, he was Cheeku's father today before being Imlie's Husband. Hope u check it out too, when i went to pen it down in the post i realised what blunder we all were doing on not realising Aryan's POV that's why they gave an entire episode to Aryan today maybe they will cover Imlie's pain tomorrow.

@bold2:- Imlie toh alag hi trip pe hai abhi, i don't think she will realise maybe jo 5 saal ka separation period hai usme realise ho jo post leap dekhne milega. She was blaming him for the MC today, i rolled my eyes so hard chakkar aagaye mujhe pata nhi uska kya POV dikhaenge isme.

And yeah I am dying to see Imlie ka progression ab dekho kya karte hai CVs devta.

Also, i don't know whether this is actually intelligent writing but without even bringing AKT CVs ne Aryan ki sari insecurities jo AKT se ho sakti hai usko ab cover karna start kiya hai. Matlab kya plot hai bhai i am awestruck.

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

you know, gusse mein bhi wahi nikalta hai jo already mann mein ho. clearly, what Malini said about Imlie being attached to Gudiya because of AKT stuck with him. the seed of doubt had already been planted and started to take form in his head from that day on, with/without him being conscious of it. which is why, I got the feeling that his bringing up of AKT had less to do with losing Cheeku in actuality, and more to do with his insecurity over Imlie’s feelings about AKT being reignited again. the problem though, is if this is true, the next question then would be whether Aryan ever truly trusted Imlie to be entirely over AKT. because no doubt can be planted in a mind that isn’t already somewhat conditioned and ready to accept it.

Basically he trusts her not to cheat consciously.

But he also knows he's not her first choice and her emotional entanglement with ex he has witnessed first hand. So this was his insecurity taking centre stage.

This should have been explored before confession ideally.

Originally posted by: wasra

Aww Neeluji ur a sweetheart🤗

I am going to buy your assurance and have patience. Jab hamare Gadhe ko akal aaegi then everthing will sort put automatically 😆 Abhi ke liye usse gali de bhi lenge toh kuch nhi hone wala hai wait karna padega hume😃

PS patchup kaise hota hai Neeluji😎

Meine nhi pucha, dekho questionmark nhi hai🙈🤣 chappal mat marna🤭🤭😆

Yes bro I'm tired of calling every gali in the book for Aryan

We have established he is behaving like an ass or kya kehna 😔

Abhi mereko rest chahiye waise bhi humari rone se kya badla hai jo aaj badlega 😕

@b: what's your age 🤣🤣 #chottibacchihokya

@i: Neelu is not violent par iske ke liye she might even 😈🤣

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Love jii, baat pedestal ki nahi hai. No ITV ML is worth even P of pedestal. Woh kehte zaroor hai ki woh log Pati Parmeshwar hai toh apni biwiya ki unappointed vamp hai😕 fir bhi Aryan was best in the lot yeh mein manti hoon and he was a good guy.

Is he wrong in lashing out ? A big effing NO. He has loved Cheeku even when the baby was not his. He gave his heart to the kid and jaayaz hai lash out karna. And when he told her not to run fir bhi woh bagi, he's allowed to feel salty. But AKT ka naam ?? That's a deep insecurity that's rearing it's ugly head. He himself knows ki Imlie loved the child even when they didnot know who the parents of Gudiya were. But, trust me I can relate with Aryan.

But it's not like Imlie is padosi of Cheeku. She's the mom and her grief? It will always remain. Woh lifelong rahega. Aise waqt mein AKT ko beech mein laana was an low blow/ass move which mein nahi kisi ne expect nahi kiya. We don't want a perfect guy, just a guy would *also* emphatize with his wife's grief.

Most people are obsessed with proving Imlie wrong. Even now Aryan is right. If Imlie would say you listened to Jo, not because she was your friend but you were secretly in love with her, can we accept this?? Or yeh kahe ki tumne sirf mujhe use Kiya hai, yeh pyaar vyaar sab dong hai !! Doesn't it sound nasty? It sounds absolutely atrocious.

Same way, Aryan jab AKT ki naam beech mein laya, it was nasty. Haan gusse mein tha, he will regret his words. And he bloody should. But he's wrong regardless of whatever his feelings might have been.

Aryan was not the best of the lot, he is the best of the lot and is a great guy.

He is not salty, people are salty when they are annoyed/angry/irritated. Aryan is hurt. Because it was not today that he warned her for the first time. It has been time and again. Remember what he said in the car on the way to Malini's house? "Agar mein tumhe nahi leke jaata toh tum akeli chali jaati, aur tum akele ab kuch nahi karogi". Imlie has history of not listening to Aryan. Forget Aryan, anybody for that matter.

Remember when Aryan got shot? Narmada had lashed out ugly on Imlie. But the underlying message? Narmada had told them not to go. But Imlie was adamant, and because Imlie was ill aryan put his foot down and went in her stead. The point is Imlie did not listen then, Imlie did not listen now.

But what did Imlie not listening tell Aryan? Aryan feels like Imlie does not trust him. He told her he would save gudiya, she did not trust him to do that. She in her saviour complex makes plans, becomes Kairi, sneaks into Chaturvedi mansion and lies through it all. So much for 50-50 partnership eh?

Aryan has explained to her that they have to approach the gudiya problem the correct way. He has asked her to take care of herself and cheeku time and again. And she promised to prioritise herself and cheeku didn't she?

Galtiyaan sab se hoti hai. The miscarriage was NOT Imlie's fault. But Aryan's hurt stems from the fact that despite his warnings and his cautions Imlie's behaviour did not change. Her saviour complex drove her to the brink of death and cheeku to death.

Imlie is also hurt, Imlie also blamed Aryan. Didn't she? It is grief and the most natural way to deal with is playing the blame game which both of them are doing now.

Bringing AKT is insecurity, it is also a low blow with the sole purpose of hurting the other person. That in grief and trauma is a natural thing to do. That does not justify what he said. Of course not and that is where I find him wrong.

Aryan is still the man who did not flinch seeing AKT and Imlie in one room, the man who did not for one second question Imlie when he was presented with footage of Imlie and AKT secretly meeting at night. He trusts her, but he still feels that given a choice she will choose AKT. Over and over again.

We know that this is just Imlie being in over her head like she is most of the time. It is her saviour complex, her over the top mahaanta. She has alway prioritised others over herself. But Aryan never thought she would prioritise others over her own child. THAT is what has hurt him.

Originally posted by: sur91

Hey dear! I made this post after reading yours. Dont lose hope, not yet. We are in for an emotional roller coaster and we need to hold tight
yes, ofcourse he said it in anger. He said if you can't live with me then leave.

My Aru baby will repent so hard. I'm more concerned about what he will do with himself when he realises his mistake

I thought so surji and I am glad u made a post like this.

Such hopeful people we have here, mera sara gussa disappointment shant ho gaya🤗🤗

And ofcrs Aruji ko lohe ke chane chabwa degi Imaliya, 😆

To add to that. Someone on this forum (I forgot who) made a very apt post about apne. It said agar Imlie ke liye sab hi itni asaani se 'apne' ho jaate hai and she is willing to go to any lengths for them. Phir apne hone ka faayda hi kya when everyone ranks the same?

That is the main prblem with Imlie. And while Aryans words might have been harsh, even wrong to a certain extent. Imlie's actions have been way worse. Over and over again.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

🥳🥳

Koi kare ya na karein I know we will support Imliya always😳

Today Aryan is in my shit list 😡 jab toh woh royega nahi ki Imlie mujhe maaf kardo, I won't forgive him. Woh bhi ro ro ke behaal hona hai. Jaadu pocha nahi. 🤡 Gadha 😡😡 bloody idiot, meri ittu si Imliya ko hurt Kiya 🥺🥺

It is no secret that the makers will get him to apologise. He even should for bringing AKT into the conversation. But Imlie is no devi and definitely not in the right here. If we are comparing she should be tho one apologising!

Aryan will marry baby Doll. So maybe Doll's role increases more..

or

Malini will be shown with repetence after 5 years and wants baby back... but baby wishing to stay with Imlie..

but good opportunity for a new hero's entry. Let them bring in a more human type entry rather then sort of one who has aura...

Story has to keep moving... in all fairness Aryan had good scope of acting today and he justified it...

Ok guyzz relax it just fiction....One thing I was so sad about Aryan crying 😭 but as soon as he entered hospital room... imlie pait pakar krr roo rhii this...I burst laughing 🤣🤣...I feel like asking r u constipated ... don't kill me with ur jootaa n chapal....🤭

Coming to episode...loved the two partners breaking down for their loss of beloved cheeku ..but both were behaving more like husband n wife where no one accepts his or her mistake. .n watching precap it was like they turned it into EKTA drama ... 😂

Keep watching...

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Yes bro I'm tired of calling every gali in the book for Aryan

We have established he is behaving like an ass or kya kehna 😔

Abhi mereko rest chahiye waise bhi humari rone se kya badla hai jo aaj badlega 😕

@b: what's your age 🤣🤣 #chottibacchihokya

@i: Neelu is not violent par iske ke liye she might even 😈🤣

@bold:- yaar ye baat agar twitter FD ko bole toh kya hoga🤣🤪

Apun #chotibacchihi hai abhi, 24 yrs and 3 months only and single since birth😎

Neeluji bht achi hai i am sure wo marengi bhi jooto se jyada kuch use nhi karenge utna chalega mujhe🤣🤣🤣