A big hug to all my friends - Page 6

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

the confession and their love story was botched up completely that I am still perplexed by the CVs. that said, I think it is logical that the story goes this way and the memory ghost of aditya pops up. it needed to happen as this is a daily drama.

one of my relatives is a psychiatrist and she regularly counsels those who are considering second marriage after divorce. she once shared that when people do not address the issues in their first marriage and the role they played in it, those same issues will crop up again like a beast in the second marriage. at the same, there has to be way for the second marriage spouses to be able to address or talk about what happened in their previous relationship and the baggage they are bringing in order to move forward together. if they don't, there will be times when there is a comparison or some form the first marriage will appear like a ghost and cause problems. so both spouses need to be on the same page about what happened and talk about stuff. that is what happens in the real world.

so I have been waiting for the ball to drop for a long while and I am glad to see that we are finally seeing some semblance of reality and a genuine conflict between the two. without these kind of painful arguments, you cannot have true relationship growth.

Oh I agree. It had to come sometime or other. I was merely saying if it was addressed before confession rightfully, then it wouldn't have escalated to this point that leads to seperation.

We are not unaware of the circumstances that this can't be explored at the right time. If manasvi stayed, we'd have a completely different storytelling.

And this track is natural progression in story, unlike Jyoti, which was totally manufactured. Even if they managed to salvage it by the end.

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

Oh I agree. It had to come sometime or other. I was merely saying if it was addressed before confession rightfully, then it wouldn't have escalated to this point that leads to seperation.

We are not unaware of the circumstances that this can't be explored at the right time. If manasvi stayed, we'd have a completely different storytelling.

And this track is natural progression in story, unlike Jyoti, which was totally manufactured. Even if they managed to salvage it by the end.

they kept showing some sort of honeymoon phase where he was always her support. to be honest, I found that strange and I have been waiting for a long while for them to show aryan as normal human being with flaws and emotions. he is not always going to agree with her. I also do think that perhaps by ignoring the issues, it burst out like a volcano because it was hidden underneath all those lovey dovey. 🤷

Originally posted by: lovereading14

Aryan was not the best of the lot, he is the best of the lot and is a great guy.

He is not salty, people are salty when they are annoyed/angry/irritated. Aryan is hurt. Because it was not today that he warned her for the first time. It has been time and again. Remember what he said in the car on the way to Malini's house? "Agar mein tumhe nahi leke jaata toh tum akeli chali jaati, aur tum akele ab kuch nahi karogi". Imlie has history of not listening to Aryan. Forget Aryan, anybody for that matter.

Remember when Aryan got shot? Narmada had lashed out ugly on Imlie. But the underlying message? Narmada had told them not to go. But Imlie was adamant, and because Imlie was ill aryan put his foot down and went in her stead. The point is Imlie did not listen then, Imlie did not listen now.

But what did Imlie not listening tell Aryan? Aryan feels like Imlie does not trust him. He told her he would save gudiya, she did not trust him to do that. She in her saviour complex makes plans, becomes Kairi, sneaks into Chaturvedi mansion and lies through it all. So much for 50-50 partnership eh?

Aryan has explained to her that they have to approach the gudiya problem the correct way. He has asked her to take care of herself and cheeku time and again. And she promised to prioritise herself and cheeku didn't she?

Galtiyaan sab se hoti hai. The miscarriage was NOT Imlie's fault. But Aryan's hurt stems from the fact that despite his warnings and his cautions Imlie's behaviour did not change. Her saviour complex drove her to the brink of death and cheeku to death.

Imlie is also hurt, Imlie also blamed Aryan. Didn't she? It is grief and the most natural way to deal with is playing the blame game which both of them are doing now.

Bringing AKT is insecurity, it is also a low blow with the sole purpose of hurting the other person. That in grief and trauma is a natural thing to do. That does not justify what he said. Of course not and that is where I find him wrong.

Aryan is still the man who did not flinch seeing AKT and Imlie in one room, the man who did not for one second question Imlie when he was presented with footage of Imlie and AKT secretly meeting at night. He trusts her, but he still feels that given a choice she will choose AKT. Over and over again.

We know that this is just Imlie being in over her head like she is most of the time. It is her saviour complex, her over the top mahaanta. She has alway prioritised others over herself. But Aryan never thought she would prioritise others over her own child. THAT is what has hurt him.

@colour 1: that's a genuine grammar mistake and nothing to do with Aryan. 😆

@green. Yes this is true.

@b: I don't recall Aryan asking for Imlie's permission before going on a revenge spree which could have ultimately killed him. He gave her a farce of a choice which let's be honest was filled with landmines. He knew Imlie would cave. Don't tell me he let her go in the last minute. The whole wedding is a wrong move. Neither before announcing before the whole office that she was molested.

@i: Which is exactly what AKT does. When he's angry /low he tries to attack other people. But he's naturally nasty so that's a different topic. ,When you let grief over power your decision fir toh sab ek jaise hojayenga na ? Exactly, no where is he right. When you insinuate ki Gudiya ko you have prioritised over Cheeku because she's AKT's kid, he's questioning her love. He of all persons should not do that. Period.

@blue: Sis not you too. Ek chotti bacchi hai jisko khud ka voice nahi, she can't defend herself usko bachana/protect karne ke liye sochna is not mahanta, it's just humanity. So if Aryan had said bacchi ko help mat karna, it doesn't mean he is cruel/selfish. Aapna apna ray hai. He's practical, she's emotional. That's it.

@red: Imlie never questioned Aryan ki why are you trusting your friend implicitly. She knew he was someone who relied on facts. When he said Tum dushmani nikal rahi ho, usne palat ke jawab nahi Diya. She was hurt but kept quiet.

And I never said Aryan is a person to doubt Imlie. All this adds more fuel to the fire ki how could he say it now. And what has Imlie done to make Aryan think that she would choose AKT over him?? Bro if you remember she was ready to fall at Harry's feet only to save him. She went to great lengths only to prove Jo's kartoote.

She said he's Dhruv Tara, he's her choice life long. I don't know what more she should do to make his insecurities go away. She cannot make Aryan's demons go away. Woh usko khud karna padega. Just like Imlie shouldn't let her childhood affect her decisions.

@b: Lash out karna galat hai meine kabhi nahi kaha. Grief tends to come out as anger. She lashed out, he also did. So long baat Gudiya aur Cheeku thak tha, it was okay. Par baat jab AKT pe gayi it was wrong.

And Narmada should be the last person to comment on anyone let alone Imlie. Lol, she said Imlie tried to seduce AKT, Aryan ko fasaya. And not only that when Arpita said BM was the one to hire the fake NGO wale she was like Arpi chup ho jao. My point is she is a vile person and I don't care for her opinions. Period.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

@colour 1: that's a genuine grammar mistake and nothing to do with Aryan. 😆

@green. Yes this is true.

@b: I don't recall Aryan asking for Imlie's permission before going on a revenge spree which could have ultimately killed him. He gave her a farce of a choice which let's be honest was filled with landmines. He knew Imlie would cave. Don't tell me he let her go in the last minute. The whole wedding is a wrong move. Neither before announcing before the whole office that she was molested.

@i: Which is exactly what AKT does. He's an asshole when he's in grief. When you let grief over power your decision fir toh sab ek jaise hojayenga na ? Exactly, no where is he right. When you insinuate ki Gudiya ko you have prioritised over Cheeku because she's AKT's kid, he's questioning her love. He of all persons should not do that. Period.

@blue: Sis not you too. Ek chotti bacchi hai jisko khud ka voice nahi, she can't defend herself usko bachana/protect karne ke liye sochna is not mahanta, it's just humanity. So if Aryan had said bacchi ko help mat karna, it doesn't mean he is cruel/selfish. Aapna apna ray hai. He's practical, she's emotional. That's it.

@red: Imlie never questioned Aryan ki why are you trusting your friend implicitly. She knew he was someone who relied on facts. When he said Tum dushmani nikal rahi ho, usne palat ke jawab nahi Diya. She was hurt but kept quiet.

And I never said Aryan is a person to doubt Imlie. All this adds more fuel to the fire ki how could he say it now. And what has Imlie done to make Aryan think that she would choose AKT over him?? Bro if you remember she was ready to fall at Harry's feet only to save him. She went to great lengths only to prove Jo's kartoote.

She said he's Dhruv Tara, he's her choice life long. I don't know what more she should do to make his insecurities go away. She cannot make Aryan's demons go away. Woh usko khud karna padega. Just like Imlie shouldn't let her childhood affect her decisions.

@b: Lash out karna galat hai meine kabhi nahi kaha. Grief tends to come out as anger. She lashed out, he also did. So long baat Gudiya aur Cheeku thak tha, it was okay. Par baat jab AKT pe gayi it was wrong.

And Narmada should be the last person to comment on anyone let alone Imlie. Lol, she said Imlie tried to seduce AKT, Aryan ko fasaya. And not only that when Arpita said BM was the one to hire the fake NGO wale she was like Arpi chup ho jao. My point is she is a vile person and I don't care for her opinions. Period.

@ bold: oh I compeltely agree aru was an as*hole today . He actually.crossed a line and disappointed me. The main problem with AKT was he never introspected where he went wrong. What aryan did today was most extreme human reaction. Saying painful.words to.your partner with intention of hurting them . But what makes aryan aryan is his ability to introspect and correct his mistakes. This is what makes him different. I believe in this case after Imlie leaves he will realise the blunder he did. He will hate himself for it . This time it might take time but he will come around.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Jab tak aakar sorry ba bole😎

Jab sorry bolna chalu kare tab sab naye purane hisaab poore karlo😆

My hubby sometimes say "yaar woh waali baat toh sort out ho gayi thi phir ab kyun phirse beech mein laa rahi ho"😂😂

🤣🤣🤣

Aww Neelu this is cute 🤣

I never knew you were also hisaab ki pakke hain 😎

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Aww Neelu this is cute 🤣

I never knew you were also hisaab ki pakke hain 😎

Sorry to barge in but I guess every wife is hisab ki pakki.My husband says badaam kam khaya karo, sab purani baate yaad rehti hai

😂😂

Originally posted by: sheen97

@ bold: oh I compeltely agree aru was an as*hole today . He actually.crossed a line and disappointed me. The main problem with AKT was he never introspected where he went wrong. What aryan did today was most extreme human reaction. Saying painful.words to.your partner with intention of hurting them . But what makes aryan aryan is his ability to introspect and correct his mistakes. This is what makes him different. I believe in this case after Imlie leaves he will realise the blunder he did. He will hate himself for it . This time it might take time but he will come around.

Bro, this is post I completely agree with 😆 Aryan is never someone to not acknowledge his mistakes. In fact I love it. He's never mujhe apni birthday pe gift do types 😃He's genuinely apologetic. I hope uski balaba jaldi jale and he seriously makes an introspection ki why did he say this. And make sincere amends. So should Imlie. Mereko lagta hai people would think I am a Imlie solo stan 🤣😭 I feel everytime I say something about Aryan or point out his mistakes, I immediately become a FL stan jisko ML bilkul pasand nahi hai jab ki I started the show only for this gonchu and jungli couple😒 Khair I don't feel bad 😌

Originally posted by: sur91

Sorry to barge in but I guess every wife is hisab ki pakki.My husband says badaam kam khaya karo, sab purani baate yaad rehti hai

😂😂

No problem 😆

I'm not a wife so no experience with hisaab ki kaise pakke rahein 🤣🤣🤣 But aacha advice hai, jab shaadi karungi toh zaroor use karungi 😎🤣

Thanks bro 😁❤️

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Bro, this is post I completely agree with 😆 Aryan is never someone to not acknowledge his mistakes. I hope uski balaba jaldi jale and he seriously makes an introspection ki why did he say this. And make amends. So should Imlie. Mereko lagta hai people would think I am a Imlie solo stan 🤣😭 I feel everytime I say something about Aryan or point out his mistakes, I immediately become a FL stan jisko ML pasand nahi ki jab I started the show only for this gonchu 😒 Khair I don't feel bad 😌

But the thing is will Imlie Introspect? Will she realise her own mistakes? I don't think so. Seldom does in itv a FL is shown wrong and to keep Imlie right they showed what they showed today.

on the contrary I think Imlie will be shown all the more and Aryan would be literally on his knees again begging her forgiveness(though I hope he grovels a lot)

People do say things that they do not mean, when angry. In the conception track aryan dint once blame imlie. He was always hell bent on her innocence.

My question is that why did imlie say that they cant live together?

Male egos are very fragile, and aryan always had fear of loving and loosing, if a girl says she cant live with u whats the reaction the male is gonna have.

In my opinion it was an opposite reaction to her action. But why did she leave him? In our everyday lives husbands say these type of things but wives do not leave them.

The story in my opinion is going GEET way (starone drama dhrashti and gurmeet leads). But if Malini comes in aryans life it will be a huge NO for me whatever anyone says.