Finally....makers have touched Aryan and I am glad they did - Page 4

Originally posted by: Fantasylover1

I agree to what you said. AKT deliberately slu* shamed his then wife but ASR did that unknowingly.

Having said that I do feel Aryan’s way of handling the sensitive issue publicly wasn’t right. This was about the dignity of his wife and an employee of his organization.

Yes, workplace harassment happens but they are dealt very very sensitively. I remember a case we had at our workplace. A female subordinate did complain about the male boss to the HR. No one of us had a clue that this happened unless some of us ladies had 1:1 with HR in very confidential way if we faced any such situation working with him. We were categorically told this is very sensitive information and will be taken very seriously if we speak about this discussion in public. We were not told the name of the complainer. The male boss was asked to resign immediately after i am believing they got confirmation from other female employees but not a word in public. No one ever knew what happened. He wasn’t allowed to serve notice too but the investigation was conducted thoroughly.

Aryan’s way of handling the issue was very unprofessional.

I agree to all your points except @bold

Considering someone victim of an assault is not equivalent to accusing someone of sleeping around while being married.

Not saying it wouldn't hurt imlie the same way, but both the actions can't be compared even if the reactions to both could be same for a woman.

Originally posted by: SundariP

I agree to all your points except @bold

Considering someone victim of an assault is not equivalent to accusing someone of sleeping around while being married.

Not saying it wouldn't hurt imlie the same way, but both the actions can't be compared even if the reactions to both could be same for a woman.

True that. I meant unintentional as he didn’t think of it carefully. It just happened out of his anger and concern for Imlie. He didn’t think through his action and consequences thoroughly….I am believing we will soon see Aryan full of guilt due to this action of his.

Originally posted by: Harani

I have to say, today I am scared to watch the episode. If I do then it will be on my head for a while. So please forgive me if I am wrong in what I write without full knowledge.

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Having gone through infertility issues myself, I could say it's a big deal for a man. It's a lot more personal for a man than how a woman perceive. I wanted to say this in one of Mango falooda"s article.

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Agree with Pooja. It's incomparable with Adi"s article. Intentions are different, trust is different, perspective is different. From what I know, I think that article was a form of revenge, where today's was more of protectiveness. Unfortunately both have put Imilie into the bad spot. I think she could take Adi"s , she wasn't surprised at that time but not Aryans this is going to shock her world.

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thanks for remembering my post ❤️ . I am often posting random stuff and so it is nice to know that people like them. 😊 thanks for sharing your story about your struggles. sometimes we think the dramas are just dramas but we never know how people can relate to them because they do reflect stuff that is going on in real life.

I really like the line you had written 🥰 -- "intentions are different, trust is different, perspective is different" -- that sounds so poetic! so much to think about in so many different ways.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

exactly!!! next time I am going to use your line to just show why villains are just as important and worthy of discussion in a thread. no long literature definition essays (wasted on some kekekek....) 😁

Bindaas use karo 😂

Deewar pe sarr patakne se chot hame hi lagegi .. dewaar ka kuchh nahi jayega 😔

So its better not to engage with whom sole purpose is trolling not discussion ❤️

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

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thanks for remembering my post ❤️ . I am often posting random stuff and so it is nice to know that people like them. 😊 thanks for sharing your story about your struggles. sometimes we think the dramas are just dramas but we never know how people can relate to them because they do reflect stuff that is going on in real life.

I really like the line you had written 🥰 -- "intentions are different, trust is different, perspective is different" -- that sounds so poetic! so much to think about in so many different ways.

Hi Mango falooda ,

I an sorry I don't know your name.

From personal experience I felt men do get effected as much if not more as woman do. It's easier for women to reach out. I am glad the show touched fertility aspect of men too.

I am glad they kept it not too dramatic, had they gone a little deeper, they might have messed it.

Btw your post aren't random. These issues are better discussed. A little earlier, when social media wasn't reachable, many people do get perspective from TV and movies. Especially those who can't share their issues with others easily. I am one of them, there are many moments that my ight not be relevant to what I might go through but did give a light bulb moment. It had indeed directed me towards better path. Your topic was really interesting and needed. You never know how it would have help someone going through issues. Especially men's POV. I wrote a long post to your topic which got deleted some how. Didn't find the energy to rewrite. Will do when I get time.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Exactly 😂😂

Villain hi toh Hero ko Hero banata hai😎

#TeamVillainFTW 🥳🥳

I was thinking there is typo in "exactly" because the dictionary now has changed to exjactly

Aryan won't ever mistrust her that is confirmed.

But what he is doing right now is gonna bite him back in his ass

And this has happened earlier too...everytime Imaliya ko upar uthane ke liye they bring down Aryan and vice versa.

Hope they don't destroy him completely this time as I am not liking the psycho abuser looming over their heads

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

Aryan won't ever mistrust her that is confirmed.

But what he is doing right now is gonna bite him back in his ass

And this has happened earlier too...everytime Imaliya ko upar uthane ke liye they bring down Aryan and vice versa.

Hope they don't destroy him completely this time as I am not liking the psycho abuser looming over their heads

Bold - Not answering Imlie's question on who else he had shared his condition is going to play a crucial role in the upcoming track, unless it is Aryan's plan to protect Imlie from Jyo. The Aryan who once said that he can never hide any secret with Imlie, today did exactly the same. And that has left me in dilemma again on what's in CVs mind. I was expecting a memory loss as the next track. But, with the way things are being built up, I now feel like Aryan's guilt will reach its heights at the end of this track, which will force him to distance himself from Imlie to punish himself for repeating the same mistake he did with Aravind's case. 😢

Originally posted by: Enlightened21

Thank you Sheen for that reply to LoLo. You have beautifully explained how Aryan's situation is different from AKT's situation. And I would like to add one more point to it. Even if it's to your wife, to share that you are infertile takes immense guts as it's something that questions their identity as a man. Aryan already is under a lots of emotional turmoil; yet he didn't let any of it or his own insecurity prevent him from sharing such a painful thing with Imlie. As he said yesterday, if it was the earlier Aryan, his self respect would have been his priority; but now Imlie and her wellbeing is his priority. And he proves it by not even hesitating for a moment, before sharing his crucial health condition with Imlie (which we know is false; but he believes is true). Coming to AKT, being the self-obsessed person he is, there are high chances that he would have covered up his health condition, even at the cost of tarnishing Imlie's loyalty. That's where the difference lies.

@Bold Sorry I’m late to reply. I appreciate you all quoting and correcting me, but I have to say one thing. NO married man should share his infertility with another woman other than his wife. I am a married woman and that itself would count as betrayal to me. I’m sorry I get you all when you speak of Adi shaming Imlie, but to me Aryan knowing all Imlie went through with Adi and Malini and still not believing her is unforgivable. Aryan is forever ruined for me. I can’t even watch old episodes anymore. I’m glad Ravivar with Parivaar is coming on and I can watch them detached from the show. Atleast I have that.

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You are right.... I so want that imlie should separate from him for some time as a punishment and in today's episode he said if imlie isn't in fault then he too will punish himself that makes aryan ...Aryan singh rathore... Now the episode will be amazing i hope aryan gets to know about jo without anybody help now...