I have to say, today I am scared to watch the episode. If I do then it will be on my head for a while. So please forgive me if I am wrong in what I write without full knowledge.
I am currently trying to make my 7 year old understand that there's no black or white when it comes to people. You have to see the shades of gray. He is slowly getting there. It's rare we get to see this in fictional characters in our culture, although mythical characters have highlighted a lot about flows. I am liking that how makers are trying to keep the character intact and making them flowed at the same time.
I love how the makers have weaved the web here in this track. They have slowly showed the buttons which pushess Aryan, keeping the character intact, portraying the depth of his love. One can only feel for the characters and blame the circumstance. Imilie lying isn't new either, it's not needed but she's impulsive and imatured at times. On the other side she doesn't know what's going behind her back so for her it's a small lie. She's wrong not coming clean after yesterday's episode. She has clues to connect a little of what's bothering Aryan. It's the night and what happened. It should have given her a clue. As much as I hate Aryan for not drawing boundary with Jo, I can't really blame him for hiding the truth. If it's me I would think thousands of time before I utter a word to the spouse who is pregnant. It is Imilie that he needs to speak to, he wouldn't in his dream think of hurting her this way. As easy as it's said to speak the truth it is as hard topic given that she's pregnant. It's indirectly pointing at her character.
Having gone through infertility issues myself, I could say it's a big deal for a man. It's a lot more personal for a man than how a woman perceive. I wanted to say this in one of Mango falooda"s article.
Men don't confide these issues with others as woman does. Personally from my point of view and how I've seen other couples, I felt we woman either talk it out or gather the support from somewhere. Men rarely talk about these issues. They just don't. I was personally hoping if my husband could talk to someone, someone other than me. It was hard that I had to deal with it at the same time needs to balance him out. That's why how Aryan was able to (although not comfortable) talk to Jo and she repeating tum "Bab nai ban Sakti," dialogue irritates me. I was suprised he didn't really snap at her. it's stabbing the wound that he himself just know about and trying to come to term with. That's a trigger she repeatedly used successfully on him, while he is going through his most insecured moment. Remember just a few days ago he was thinking it's Imilie who is infertile and supporting her. He knows what she's been through. In that state of mind, him thinking about Imilie's safety, her wellbeing, being protective of her is brought out well and it's praise worthy. It was easier if the fertility issue was with your spouse, but if it's you then one would normally go into a state of focousing on them, their pain, disbelief, grieve.. It's nice that they are showing how Aryan putting all aside and focousing on Imilie"s wellbeing. I can't imagine a man being this rational with Madav/situation after this. Today's episode seems to have shown that he has given a chance to Madav, it's the circumstances were against. It all came out in the open in the heat of the moment. It does happen in real world. A man not able to protect his wife, dealing with infertility and his promises that he will protect her all gone. It's the frustration whichade him loose his control. It does happen in real world. A guy who kept so much and couldn't control in the heat of the moment. Aryan"s internal termoil wasn't shown through this time to us but he has been going through quite a lot. He was rather focousing on Imilie's turmoil. His mind ought to get clouded. It's easier to culculate something already had happened than to culculate something that is ongoing. At Aravind"s time it was different, he has passed the moment of loss and in return seeking revenge. Easier to be culculative even if his facts are wrong. Here the difference is it's a present situation where he is trying figure out what's happening at the same time dealing with his emotions, fear, insecurities. What I mean is its not conclusive. If the molestation theory is true then he needs to stop it unlike the Aravind's case where it's kind of like punishment time. Easier to culculate. It's normal to be irrational at this time. I am scared for both of them, how they are going to overcome the public. It's not just two of them anymore. I am also scared how makers are going to drive this track.
Same time I don't think Imilie would perceive it the same way . She doesn't know what he felt nor went through. Now it has become more dirty. Especially with the two intimate moves rejected by Aryan yesterday, I am not sure how Imilie would feel. After the Narmada's accusations how Imilie felt she isn't pure, will come haunt her. Waiting to see how the makers are going to deal with the promises made during the confession. Hard task with what has been given.
@Sheen93, I love your analysis It's all in their perspective. How one sees through what they know with their emotional balance.
Agree with Pooja. It's incomparable with Adi"s article. Intentions are different, trust is different, perspective is different. From what I know, I think that article was a form of revenge, where today's was more of protectiveness. Unfortunately both have put Imilie into the bad spot. I think she could take Adi"s , she wasn't surprised at that time but not Aryans this is going to shock her world.
Sorry for the long post.