Dil nahi maanta

I don't want a separation track. Period.

I believe separation is usually a result of distrust and misunderstanding. Things that could be just solved by talking. But I understand it's ITV and MU's, separation are part n parcel. In fact needed for the story to progress forward. But mera dil hai ki maanta nahi yaar. I'm usually up for all angsty tracks and MU's but yaha pe Arylie ko itna perfect bana diya hai ab kuch bhi karlo butchering hi lagta hai Arylie aur Aryan ke saath. 😭

I don't even want a jhoot moot ga separation too. I want Arylie to team up together and fight without any acts. I know in my dreams 😆

More than separation , I want a ML track . In other shows its a blah. But for this show it will be like a boon. Atleast then CVs will have a template to move forward . I actually want Imlie's ML who again starts working at BT and aryan who struggles with his love for Imlie and acting as a mentor. It will be start all over again .

I am open for both ML and separation track..coz v'll get the ruthless ASR back..

What makes you think that AryLie would separate bcoz of MU. They have more chances of separating on mutual grounds (read selflessness that is family for Imlie & Imlie for Aryan) I'm still saying if Aryan decides to leave the house with Imlie she would refuse & decide to part herself away from him instead than being a reason for a son going away from his mother. Arylie would have internal conflicts coz any external conflict resulting in MU/separation would ruin their bond & Aryan's character which the makers won't take a chance with.

Originally posted by: crazy_vaish

I believe separation is usually a result of distrust and misunderstanding. Things that could be just solved by talking. But I understand it's ITV and MU's, separation are part n parcel. In fact needed for the story to progress forward. But mera dil hai ki maanta nahi yaar. I'm usually up for all angsty tracks and MU's but yaha pe Arylie ko itna perfect bana diya hai ab kuch bhi karlo butchering hi lagta hai Arylie aur Aryan ke saath. 😭

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

but it doesn’t necessarily have to be so. two people can mutually decide to separate in view of both/their own best interest at any point in their relationship without it automatically implying distrust/misunderstanding between them. a separation doesn’t always have to carry a negative connotation or signify the end of the love and/or bond between two people. rather, it could also serve a productive purpose by facilitating the evolution of their love and bond. i think it’s about time for this concept to be better understood and normalised on itv as well. space, be it emotional and/or physical, is extremely crucial to the sustenance and growth of any relationship. it is this space that will enable two people to deepen their faith and understanding of themselves and one another, cognize the bad and further appreciate the good (rather than taking anything for granted, which tends to happen more often than not) in their equation, and grow fonder of each other. as important as it is for people to stick together in a relationship, it is also just as important to recognise when they need to take a step back from each other for the betterment and fortification of themselves and/or their relationship. 🙂

I agree. Honestly even most practical and invested couple in a relation take decision based on circumstances. We dont live in loveland and equally affected by our surroundings and loved ones.

I can say from own experience. You dont want to be reason for your partner to suffer. We all love our mothers and though we know not to give in emotional blackmailing, but we do give in when comes to our loved ones.

Love doesnt die just coz not together but if one of partner in a relationship is guilty for hurting a loved one, they cannot be happy nor keep other person happy. In this situation frustration and anger overtakes all emotions and fights and arguments start happening which kills the respect btwn couples and eventually they separate.

Afterall along with love, respect and trust are important founding blocks of a relation.

Originally posted by: anabh

I agree. Honestly even most practical and invested couple in a relation take decision based on circumstances. We dont live in loveland and equally affected by our surroundings and loved ones.

I can say from own experience. You dont want to be reason for your partner to suffer. We all love our mothers and though we know not to give in emotional blackmailing, but we do give in when comes to our loved ones.

Love doesnt die just coz not together but if one of partner in a relationship is guilty for hurting a loved one, they cannot be happy nor keep other person happy. In this situation frustration and anger overtakes all emotions and fights and arguments start happening which kills the respect btwn couples and eventually they separate.

Afterall along with love, respect and trust are important founding blocks of a relation.

Seperation can change perspective and strengthen the bond in long run.

It's not necessary that it has to be a misunderstanding, it can be a ploy or mutual decision.

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

precisely. i’ve been seeing people question why Imlie should leave everything including Aryan behind when it’s only his mother who’s treating her badly. but it isn’t as simplistic as that. during the dating phase of a relationship (relationships with eventual marriage in mind), people consider not only the compatibility with the other person, but that with the person’s family as well, before finally deciding to tie the knot. and it is such a major deciding factor that people do end their relationships in the event that everything in their means possible has been tried and nothing feasible works out, despite the other person themselves being very much compatible with them. this is considered a logical, rational, “for the best” conclusion in the setting of dating relationships. my question is, why should this be any different within the setting of a marriage? why is it so unacceptable/frowned upon, especially on the part of the woman, to cast everything aside and make that same rational, logical, “for the best” decision, in the context of a marriage? surely it can’t be due to a piece of paper that you shelf away after that one day and barely ever see it again for the rest of your life, right?

Absolutely 110%agree. For those who may misunderstand us, what we are trying to say is separation decision can be the most practical solution if they tried everything they could to make it work but in vain.

I have no idea on arylie sep on mutual... Hw Aryan will let her go s hitting me!!! May be , rather than these evil ladies sucking her with taunts, if she moved out she may get mental peace and build strong career.. But I badly want of old asr giving special treatment for those every fingers raised against imlie🤞