Now everybody accepting Aditya Kumar Tripathi is egoistic - Page 8

Sab dress attire ka khel hain...

Aryan ne doll ko Imlie samajh liya

Aditya ne Malini ko Imlie samajh liya..

Aditya told he doesn't remember anything... video showed something

so whether Imlie slept out etc immaterial...

suhag raat hoti hi... as 200 episodes ka sawal hain...

paapi pet ka sawal hain...

the kid will also come... let us wait...

blame on shop keepers and manufacturers who have so many similar dresses... it creates so much confusion...

hence a college guy has to carry so many roses if a girl friend is lost somewhere in college..

This thread went a little longer than thought. I don't think being egoistic is his feature but he lags in decision making. Or should I say he might be a Libra who sees too much and can't take a decision strongly

As myself a libra I feel he lacks specially in taking Decisions after weighing pros and cons of situations!

Adini SR pe imlie ne Malini ki saree kab pehni thi 🤔

I think mujhe apni 👁👁 test karani padegi 😭

Originally posted by: Krantikari

I don’t understand how many times you people have to be told that Aditya did inform Malini Imlie was his wife when he came back to the city.🤪 Yes, Malini did make an informed choice of marrying him despite knowing he was already married to Imlie.😊

Aditya being rude to Imlie had no bearing on her ability to defy her marriage and return to PD. Aditya even offered her many opportunities when he offered to return her to PD himself. He tried to give her money too but she refused. She was the one who chose to accept him as a husband despite everything.

How do you define agency? I suppose agency for you is blackmailing a girl into marriage after buying her off with a financial debt you know she will never be able to repay. Agency is offering a girl (whose selfless tendencies you are very well aware of) the ‘deal’ to marry you or see her ex husband being framed in a case by you. Agency is doing 6 pheras on her behalf and giving her the ‘choice’ to complete the final one under duress. Is that what looks like agency to you?😊

Btw since you were kind enough to bring in bigamy again, I’ll say something I’ve been meaning to for a long time.

Bigamy means the act of marrying someone while being married to another person, yes? Assuming that marriage is a contract that unites the lives of two people physically, emotionally, socially and legally, Aditya never fulfilled that contract with Imlie while he was married to Malini. Therefore, he was never a bigamist in practice when he could have very easily taken the two sisters for a ride.

I do know how to stubstatiate my assertions with proof unlike making uselessly ad hominen statements which fall flat on their faces.

In Episode 26, Aditya decides to tell the truth to Malini.

In Episode 27, he tells her the truth; she faints from an anxiety attack. And, instead of consulting the doctor/her parents/his family on how to break the truth to her, he rescinds his words and tells her that he was just jooooking. "Imlie sirf hamare ghar me kaam karti hai woh bhi iss liye kyon ki uske gaonwalon ne zabardasti hamare saath bheja hai [...] Humne toh kabhi socha bhi nahi tha ki hum uss jhalli se apni shaadi ki baat chedenge aur aap seriously le lengi". He said all this without being prompted by Imlie. Lie by obfuscation is a lie hence Malini wasn't making an informed decision.

In Episode 28, he tells Imlie that he's sending her off to Pagdandiya because he doesn't want her back in his life.

In Episode 37, on the day of first Adini marriage, Aditya arranges for Imlie to be dropped off in Pagdandiya. Imlie tries to assert her wifely rights to which the agency champion responds, I quote : "Tumhari himmat kaise hui?" "[...]Toh yeh thi tumhari chaal" '[...] Kya socha tha muhmangi rakam de denge? [...]" yada yada. Please refer to the episode for more of his dialogues about dekhte hain Moon aur humara pyaar jeetega ya tumhari dhamki etc etc. Typing them out makes me want to puke.

In episode 38, Imlie doesn't want to break Malini's heart and Adini get married.I am still waiting to see Aditya's spine and the freedom he gives Malini and Imlie to make independent choices.

Aditya's offers to send her back to PD, that you assert in such a blasé manner, are as selfish and entitled as all of his other acts. Many women in South Asia stay stuck in abusive marriages because the social and economic consequences of being abandoned/divorced can be catastrophic on their and their children's lives. Aditya didn't ever spare a thought to what would happen to an 18 y/o Imlie if and when she returns to her very conservative village — jilted by her seheri pati.

Aditya Kumar Tripathi might be the most eligible, hottest, sexiest bachelor to a lot of women in the audience. Other people are known to have had more weirder tastes, but let's not pretend that choices and agency are unicorns which don't have any interpersonal or socioeconomic contingencies. Lol.

If there was no bigamy what was the need to tell Malini the truth twice, pray tell?

But I will indulge your contradictory logic here

Marriage is a social contract, eh? By that virtue, Aditya was married to Imlie in society. The entire village of Pagdandiya bore witness to it. He then proceeded to marry Malini, again, in front of Delhi High society. That's bigamy.

And if not, Imlie had the agency to either marry Aryan or fight with her mother and walk away.

She chose to marry Aryan.

Originally posted by: Sir-Please

Guess what, better late than never, but he gave her, her agency back🤣 he made a mistake and rectified it, King Behaviour👑

Meanwhile, a certain man was about to dupe her into marrying him by dressing up as the groomsman, guess that man never gets tired of bhara-oing maangs🤡

I am wheezing

Originally posted by: Krantikari

How? By completing six pheras for her and giving her the ‘choice’ of completing the final one under extreme emotional duress?😆 King behaviour indeed.🤡👏

I see you lot love to ignore and deflect the real issues just like your debt-ridden egoistic serious patrakar🙂

Anyways, even though it's redundant to repeat but here you go, Better Late Than Never.

Guess he should have also pulled a 'Hum Galat Kab The'🤡

Under duress lol, the girl had multiple chances to back out and she kept choosing to stay and complete the marriage

All she had to do was choose herself!

It's all about d Kranti. DON'T U KNOW THE FIRREE🤣 JE PHIREEE😊

But I will still say he lacks decision making skills

And applies first come first serve method both professionally and personally😉

Originally posted by: Sir-Please

I see you lot love to ignore and deflect the real issues just like your debt-ridden egoistic serious patrakar🙂

Anyways, even though it's redundant to repeat but here you go, Better Late Than Never.

Guess he should have also pulled a 'Hum Galat Kab The'🤡

Under duress lol, the girl had multiple chances to back out and she kept choosing to stay and complete the marriage

All she had to do was choose herself!

Ahloo, don't you know? Aru didn't give Imlie a real choice after completing six pheras

BUT

Aditya did not commit bigamy after marrying two women because he did not sleep with both of them simultaneously. Clown.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Ahloo, don't you know? Aru didn't give Imlie a real choice after completing six pheras

BUT

Aditya did not commit bigamy after marrying two women because he did not sleep with both of them simultaneously. Clown.

The clownery is too real, on the one hand you have a man who's never given Imlie a single choice ever in any matter, where everything happened on his terms and when Imlie stood up against that then she got slandered and slüt-shamed day in, day out.

On the other hand, you've got a man who's always given her a choice, until he made a mistake where he let his trauma and care control him and yet he still managed to give her multiple chances to choose.

One of the two, screwed her over because of his ego and jealousy and the other screwed her over in order to protect her from her self destructive tendencies.

Also, where was the real choice when our local Sindoor ki Pujaari was about to sit in Aryan's place and forcibly marry a girl that had already said no to him and even told him to leave her alone?

Sorry, didn't know consummation was the only indication of a real marriage also while we're talking about practice, my mans has been shown to be hanky panky with both women so he clearly was doing somethings in practice, not anyones fault that he couldn't reach first base🥲

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Ahloo, don't you know? Aru didn't give Imlie a real choice after completing six pheras

BUT

Aditya did not commit bigamy after marrying two women because he did not sleep with both of them simultaneously. Clown.

@bold: are u meaning to say he was just testing the merchandise he owns? The longer she takes the trouble gets the Kohinoor ? In that case Malini did gave him 7 years of her life just for him to decide he was in "love" with his young wife a more spontaneous and jovial personality over a prim n proper old garbage taker .

Practicality might have been the reason , since we didn't do the deed but we had the whole intention for it .

That must be it ,Coz he can never be wrong, wrong and him cannot even go in same sentence .tauba tauba .