I think I will just re-share this -- finished a lakorn recently and this is what the FL says at the end of the drama
"Before I thought love was eternal. But now, I undertand that love is just like anything else, it is not permanent and it is constantly changing. Just like the sun, there is morning, noon and night. It is us that need to learn how to live with it. For some people, at night they choose to ignite for heat and light. But if we are not careful, the fire might burn us."
In regards to the theme of the post -- my short answer is -- complicated! 😂 {am a little all over the place!}
We have no idea how the future will work out and whether or not someone is right for us. We have no idea of knowing how and where we will meet someone we will click with. Some believe love is grown over time while others think that love only happens with the right person. Sometimes the person is right but we lack the right relationship tools to make it work. Sometimes there is outside interference (especially with in-laws) which destroy relationships even with the right person. Sometimes it is the stressors of life like finances, storms that cause people to grow apart. Sometimes, it is just life and people change and no longer are able to connect.
So is there one right person for us? -- it is a lovely idea but it is also lovelier to know that love is just a part of life and our lives are worth living even if there is no love. Do we love only once or we capable of trying to love yet again? What really is love? Sometimes we know and sometimes who knows -- you might meet someone right for you later. Or this person is right for you because of all the paths that you had crossed earlier that has shaped who you are at that moment. 🤷♀️
Edited by mango.falooda - 3 years ago