It's not their fault..actually if you see movies mei bhi yehi batate hai..as if there aren't beautiful instances for people to fall in love.
I am sure everyone recalls...
Eve teasings always have been romanticize in our movies and shows. Agar ladki gussa kare, dislikes, disagrees then ladki ghamandi hai, nakchadi hai, na samajh hai..etc it's such pathetic take on falling in love.
First of all, no man/boss should be able to come so freaking close to you while talking... secondly no boss/man should touch you to get a point across! But as you said 10 Saal mei Kuch nahi badla. Aur to aur story bhi nahi badli...a girl comes to city and instead of Hostel or relatives ends up living in same house as their boss and boss treating them like a punching bag and still the girl falling for the boss due to his sadness and his family.
Adi ho ya Aryan both are rude, disrespectful and harsh but yahi to pyaar ki shuruaat hoti hai intead of sweetness, care, thoughtfulness... 🤢