Originally posted by: PreetD
You know, I think part of that has to do with the stigma around such matters. I’m not familiar with Indian law but as was stated it’s gendered in these matters.
How can Adi be a victim? Men aren’t victims in these instances - toxic masculinity. It’s a huge conversation that just cannot be had on ITV as it is currently being written. I don’t see it as common even here, although, it’s definitely getting better.
this is it... thats the word i always wanted to come up with but was scared to.. but you did it thank you
thats the Adi... thats the so called majority of indian males are... they think and behave they own the female in their lives be it mom, sis, wife and at some level daughters... as if they are the guards, care takers of those poor souls and she cant survive if not for their support.. but they tend to forget a female never takes step back cause she is weak but cause its her conditioning all her life to consider herself, her life, her choice as second to the male in her life...
and then its not alone by males.. that conditioning is done by so called fellow females as moms , grand moms... the day one mom takes a stand for her daughter that why my daughter should only learn cooking and not son.. why only she has to come back from college with a sink full of dishes, why cant my son wash his own clothes and help me in cleaning this house... this whole toxic masculinity will remain and will only get worse day by day.
cause we have taught girls to be stronger and learn to handle those male around but no one taught sons how to handle a strong female.. a girl who can take up stand for herself and can question ur decisions.. and Adi is doing is exactly same.
his mom is all time.. adi beta maan ja adi aisa mat kar... adi sudhar ja.. mallu mam...sab imlie kar rahi hai.. these 2 ladies are feeding his toxic masculinity nd when Imlie challenges it.. he could not handle... he just could not stand being proven wrong... no one had ever done that to him in past..
so thats the whole conclusion of Adi babu being all distraught now...