Adi vs Imlie - Page 2

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Adi has never really seen Imlie with anyone else.. Ever since he came in Imlie's life, he has been the only man in her life other than Dadda. Yes, Prakash was there but only for brief time. So he is facing an unprecedented situation. Also, it is coming at a time when Imlie is actively pushing him away so its natural for him to feel so. I am not saying its correct but its natural.

aur kitna suffer karegi imlie because of his NATURAL reactions?

uski bhi toh natural hi hain to not want to live with M in their house.. why is he not getting it?

and she didn't even marry ASR not is she carrying his child.. so he has no reason to believe it other than trusting his gd KHUD SE BHI ZYADA!

matlab tumhari dosti gehri.. meri dosti bhaari? double standards don't you think? 🙄

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Chinta ji, I have updated the original post with tracks where I loved Adi. Today when divorce is coming, I really want to see things from Adi's perspective once more and see if Imlie ever failed him as wife..

Well , Interesting aartiji !👍🏻

Originally posted by: aarti1234

His dedication for her studies can't be questioned. He risked his life so that she can attend her exam and then entire English track.

Yes, he didn't do anything actively after Imlie's kidnap but he was equally shattered on the news and happy when she got her admission back. He was also not in mental state to do anything. He was still recovering from trauma.

he risked his life for that exam cuz usko guilt nahi chahiye tha.. he only said it. vaise just before the snake bite imlie par chillaya for some stupid reason.. kuch bhi hojaye toh imlie par chillao..

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

Aarti ji u made ur mind to side with Adi again 🙄

What's about Adi's behaviour after epi -271 ? Imlie became majboor to become naukrani , Isn't she ?

I know that after episode 271, his behavior has been really disturbing. I myself have counted that many times. But if you see from his angle, he really doesn't fight his situations. He has only fought once , to win Imlie back like he said, badi minnaton ke baad Imlie ne humein apnaya hain..

But this shouldn't be hold against him as he was in trauma and facing multiple situations. Imlie should have been more careful. She should have used some kootneeti against Malini. She easily gave up in front of Malini's provocations. Imlie is the intelligent one of the two but she didn't use her brain this time.

The guy was literally seen sleeping by her wife with his ex wife ,still she stayed with him, yes she decided to go away but besides this deed ,it was family ki izzat too that made her do this but she came back with proof Nd action ,here to bande ne seedhi baat no bakwas karte huye action le liya.

Now please don't say layered h,flawed h,human h 🤢 itne layers to lachche parathe mein ni hote.

He has pattagobhi ka layer jo parat dar parat khul raha h😆

Originally posted by: aarti1234

I know we have EDTs and other threads to discuss this but I still wanted to create this thread to discuss just Adi and Imlie w/o involving others.

Where they passed and failed as life partners. I know I have been against Adi for so long but sometime I do get soft corner for him. If anything, he never gave up on Imlie. Just for that he deserves some credit I guess.

Below is my list of scenes/tracks where I loved Adi standing for Imlie and their relation

1.) Mud spa - full track

2.) Imlinder - only Imlie could make Adi so comfortable with himself that he pulled Imlinder

3.) How he gave credit to Imlie and indirectly chopped Malini after terrorist rescue.

4.) His total focus on her studies.

5.) Standing up to Ts

6.) Never letting Imlie give up on their relation (whole of epi 100 - epi 271)

Definitely with you Aarti❤️I too feel that sometimes he is judged too harshly for no real reason. He has been with her throughout her ups and downs. Right now they are in a pahse that does not allow him to think beyond bacha. I like that he is atleast responsible towards his child. I don't know man. I just miss my Babusaheb so much and his DOWNFALL is taking a toll on me. It is extremely difficult to just accept Arylie with him being Imlie world.

1. I feel that was the time when he was the most scared to loose Imlie. The newness of that love and the sudden realisation that he was the reason for Imlie's pain was just beautifully done.

2.Imlie has always his comforter. It is because of her that he can accept new things and gets comfortable with changes.

3. During the terrorist time Adi did chop MC. At that time, like everytime it was all about how Imlie would be without him and what would happen with her if something was to happen to him.

5. It was his family and samaj he was going against and it is pretty relatable since family comes first for everyone and still he was standing alone with Imlie for her rights.

6.I remember that time with table tod shaadi. He did say that, he won't forget their marriage and won't let her forget too. Even now I see him pining for her love and affection. I don't know how people cannot see that love. I understand that Adi has his majbooris but his love has always been beyond what is right and wrong

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

Well , Interesting aartiji !👍🏻

Waah kya POV h😆

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

I remember saying and explaining that question of this guy wasn't wrong on shoot out night but the timing was wrong.

My issue is what he says and what he does is exact opposite.

You can not lehrao majboori ka tamga everytime you are questioned .

I read self victimizing is the easiest thing to be done.

My issue jas always been his callous behaviour .I never liked the way he behaved with malini when he wanted to be with Imlie and reinstate her as his wife ,he used to jhidkao her k bas kaise bhi kar k nikal ja.,though she was a nagging girlfriend but yes

haan he was so eager to start a new life with imlie.. if he would've waited and not insensitively asked M to HELP in manaaoing his family which he should be doing, M kahi kone main baithke roti hogi abhi ya KC ke saath move on bhi karchuki hoti..

he's lachaar u know. he compared his lachaari with Dev and it shows now.

Just my opinion, but both have contributed to this separation equally. Balance nahi hai dono me se kisi me actually. Imlie is a young and emotionally immature person. Emotion ke flow flow me she has made many decisions. Jab ki kuch problems ke liye she herself is also responsible. With Aditya I think he is a very direct and honest person, tedhi medhi gol gol baatein karna isn't his forte. Aise bande se jhooth bulwana and sach chupana wale kaam karwaoge to mess hi create hoga. Also, I feel he doesn't read a situation too deeply, he just grasps what is visible and self-awareness ki kami hai thodi Patrakaar bhaiyya me. And these both have taken rounds of lying, kabhi ek baat chupane me ada rehta hai, kabhi dusra. Pura hotchpotch bana ke rakh diya hai. It's not that they both haven't done enough for each other, but balance nahi hai. Upar se itni achchi writing hai ki kya bataye.

Originally posted by: Colormenow

Definitely with you Aarti❤️I too feel that sometimes he is judged too harshly for no real reason. He has been with her throughout her ups and downs. Right now they are in a pahse that does not allow him to think beyond bacha. I like that he is atleast responsible towards his child. I don't know man. I just miss my Babusaheb so much and his DOWNFALL is taking a toll on me. It is extremely difficult to just accept Arylie with him being Imlie world.

1. I feel that was the time when he was the most scared to loose Imlie. The newness of that love and the sudden realisation that he was the reason for Imlie's pain was just beautifully done.

2.Imlie has always his comforter. It is because of her that he can accept new things and gets comfortable with changes.

3. During the terrorist time Adi did chop MC. At that time, like everytime it was all about how Imlie would be without him and what would happen with her if something was to happen to him.

5. It was his family and samaj he was going against and it is pretty relatable since family comes first for everyone and still he was standing alone with Imlie for her rights.

6.I remember that time with table tod shaadi. He did say that, he won't forget their marriage and won't let her forget too. Even now I see him pining for her love and affection. I don't know how people cannot see that love. I understand that Adi has his majbooris but his love has always been beyond what is right and wrong

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