Imlie's contribution to this mess - Page 2

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

@bold: whether adhithya asked Imlie’s permission? He flat away rejected her and she said what ever his decision she will respect. So whether he directly asked her permission?

Bhai, ek high-schooler ki baat sunke apne aur kisi aur ki life ka sabse crucial decision koi kaise le sakta hai. Matlab dimaag kya ghutnon me aur emotional quotient earth ke crust me hai?

I agree with it. Adili separation is a result of both Adi and Imeli's mistake. According to situation may be their decision/behavior are correct. but over all result .....Adini😡

Any way Adi and DD ki to shadi ho gai ab Kya karenge mistakes count karke. For me it's Imeli season 3

season 1 -- 1 to 120 episodes

2 -- upto 300 epi

3 --- after 300

If makers make Adili with logical (hope so at least 20%. use aage to makers ki..... ) track then only i will continue otherwise ta-ta bye bye

Frankly, the so-called idealistic nonsense Aditya and Imlie tried to uphold just was a big burden for both of them.

Imlie is 19 and she is naive. At that age, any young girl is impressionable and can get carried away by it. Meethi waited for Dev for 19 years. Birthing a daughter out of marriage may be a strong move, but she set a very unsuitable example before her daughter - idealistic love, idealistic wife. What rubbish. Life is not about idealism. Life is about making way through the mud and still blooming like a lotus. And if Imlie is so intelligent, did she not remember what Satyakaam taught her, about anchoring herself with education which will bring light into her life, uska to madam kuch nahi karti.

Coming to Aditya, he is baaton ka babaseer, that's it. Badi badi idealistic baatein karke life nahi kat ti. Life is never straightforward. Its tedha. Iske straightforward life me kuch bhi tedha hota hai to Aditya's brain stops functioning. It becomes unmanageable, which turns into chaos, and then the blame game begins. Jab bhi cheeze uske bas ke baahar jaati hai, problems ki wajah koi aur ban jata hai.

And we are blaming Imlie to force Aditya to keep him quite. Uske paas dimaag nahi hai, sense nahi hai, values wala aadmi apni baat rakhna nahi janta, explain nahi kar sakta apna stand. Kaisa patrakaar hai phir woh? Agar mess Aditya ke life ki thi, to Aditya had to handle the mess, not put the burden on a 19-year old and palla jhaad lo. Imlie me kya sense hai kuch handle karne ka bhai, jab 4 din huye shaadi hui thi, jo kisi bhi aurat ke shaadi gyaan se bhaavuk ho jaye. Life bhavukta aur idealism se nahi chalti, practical hone se chalti hai, kyunki tab jaake solution milta hai.

Lekin phir drama kaise hoga, TRP kaise aayengi, hai na Gul di di.

Originally posted by: libran90

Frankly, the so-called idealistic nonsense Aditya and Imlie tried to uphold just was a big burden for both of them.

Imlie is 19 and she is naive. At that age, any young girl is impressionable and can get carried away by it. Meethi waited for Dev for 19 years. Birthing a daughter out of marriage may be a strong move, but she set a very unsuitable example before her daughter - idealistic love, idealistic wife. What rubbish. Life is not about idealism. Life is about making way through the mud and still blooming like a lotus. And if Imlie is so intelligent, did she not remember what Satyakaam taught her, about anchoring herself with education which will bring light into her life, uska to madam kuch nahi karti.

Coming to Aditya, he is baaton ka babaseer, that's it. Badi badi idealistic baatein karke life nahi kat ti. Life is never straightforward. Its tedha. Iske straightforward life me kuch bhi tedha hota hai to Aditya's brain stops functioning. It becomes unmanageable, which turns into chaos, and then the blame game begins. Jab bhi cheeze uske bas ke baahar jaati hai, problems ki wajah koi aur ban jata hai.

And we are blaming Imlie to force Aditya to keep him quite. Uske paas dimaag nahi hai, sense nahi hai, values wala aadmi apni baat rakhna nahi janta, explain nahi kar sakta apna stand. Kaisa patrakaar hai phir woh? Agar mess Aditya ke life ki thi, to Aditya had to handle the mess, not put the burden on a 19-year old and palla jhaad lo. Imlie me kya sense hai kuch handle karne ka bhai, jab 4 din huye shaadi hui thi, jo kisi bhi aurat ke shaadi gyaan se bhaavuk ho jaye. Life bhavukta aur idealism se nahi chalti, practical hone se chalti hai, kyunki tab jaake solution milta hai.

Lekin phir drama kaise hoga, TRP kaise aayengi, hai na Gul di di.

Baba uska idealism bhi hawai hai. Koi application nahi hai real life me. Kaisa patrakar hai? Lol

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Kis par guzza karoon.

1. Adi was always ready to tell marraige truth to Malini. imlie stopped it.

2. AdiNi marriage was AdiLie joint decision. Adini relationship never went beyond PDAs.

3. When Adi fell in love with imlie he wanted to say truth. Imlie wanted Adi to live with Malini. He lived.

4. Then Adi said truth to Malini. AdiNi break up hua. Imlie wanted to basao Malinis ghar.

5. KC came. Adi wanted to tell truth to Family. Imlies insecurities popped up. After giving her confidence He said truth to family.

6. Family rejected. Adi demanded imlie to move in to his room. She rejected it & wanted family acceptance.

7.Malini did 2nd suicide. Gehri dosti jaag uta. Adi brought Malini home. Adi asked if Imlie is comfortable. Imlie welcomed her Sautan.

8. Imlie hid Malinis truth so that Adi ko guzza na aye. Like he is doodh peeta bacha. loves his guzza.

Family acceptance milthe milthe Adi lost his mind and virtue. 🤣Adi was raped by Malini. Kabir singh was reduced to damsel in distress. Suddenly Imlie got problem with bed when she sat in same bed multiple times. Adis Baaptha jaag uta. Mera bacha jaap. Result MS sindoor gone. Adi literally vomits everything in front of imlie. Only thing he did without asking imlie was deleting video in this whole show. Kis par Guzza karoon.. Since imlie is young and cute should I blindly support her.

The half of the toxicity phailaoed in this show is by imlies mahan tyags and other half by Adis mistrust on imlie .

All because of Malini. 300 epi long triangle .😡

Okay toh ab mein bolti hoon

1. No, Adi in fact told Malini the truth, she fainted and tokd her it was mazaak and the chickened out.

2. Imlie did not take an active decision... Adi announced what he wanted to do and Imlie had no choice but to accept it. Did she actively revolt? No. But she had little choice too.

3. Yes. All she was doing was looking out for the woman she considered as a sister... and Adi too then agreed that even though Malini should know... it is not the right time. I blame them equally here

4. Yes she did... bad choice? in hindsight I guess. Good intentions? Yes.

5. Yes... the first correct thing he did!

6. Yes... bekaar ki zidd on Imlie's part? yes, but she was brought up that way... don't blame Adi at all here. He did the right thing, Imlie was adamant

7. Imlie only saw her as a sister and had good intentions... but I see your point

8. Well aaj sab hi adi ko justify karne ke liye bol rahe hai.. he is angry.. and jaise harkate kar raha hai and jo decisions le raha hai... doodh peeta bacha hi lag raha hai

While Imlie is no doodh ki dhulli pinning all mistakes on her is wrong. Adi has done much more damage to her and their relationship. While Imlie may have contributed slighly to the damage, her resilience to preserve this relationship was much more that Adi's and lets be honest... she has also gone through a lot more than Adi has!

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

Baba uska idealism bhi hawai hai. Koi application nahi hai real life me. Kaisa patrakar hai? Lol

Exactly. Koi decision nahi lena ho to Imlie pe choice dal do.

Basically Aditya ko bhi kuch nahi bolna tha, chup rehna tha. Lekin ulte tareeke se naak pakadne ki aadat hai. Khud ownership nahi lena, to Imlie pe daal do. Woh to hai hi emotional idiot, woh bhi beh li unke saath.

When he wanted to come clean with his relationship with Imlie, tab bhi Imlie ki permission. Arre bhai tu bhi le na decision. Kyun bachchi ke kandhe pe rakh ke bandook chala raha hai.

Saaf saaf palla jhadna, agar kuch nahi hua, to wajah kaun - Imlie. Like really🤔

Malini ke mamle me to sahi bol deta tha, aur expect karta tha ki Imlie follow karegi, to tab kya hua tha.

Uske life ka logic wohi jaane; baaki hum ullu laage. aur kuch nahi.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Kis par guzza karoon.

1. Adi was always ready to tell marraige truth to Malini. imlie stopped it.

2. AdiNi marriage was AdiLie joint decision. Adini relationship never went beyond PDAs.

3. When Adi fell in love with imlie he wanted to say truth. Imlie wanted Adi to live with Malini. He lived.

4. Then Adi said truth to Malini. AdiNi break up hua. Imlie wanted to basao Malinis ghar.

5. KC came. Adi wanted to tell truth to Family. Imlies insecurities popped up. After giving her confidence He said truth to family.

6. Family rejected. Adi demanded imlie to move in to his room. She rejected it & wanted family acceptance.

7.Malini did 2nd suicide. Gehri dosti jaag uta. Adi brought Malini home. Adi asked if Imlie is comfortable. Imlie welcomed her Sautan.

8. Imlie hid Malinis truth so that Adi ko guzza na aye. Like he is doodh peeta bacha. loves his guzza.

Family acceptance milthe milthe Adi lost his mind and virtue. 🤣Adi was raped by Malini. Kabir singh was reduced to damsel in distress. Suddenly Imlie got problem with bed when she sat in same bed multiple times. Adis Baaptha jaag uta. Mera bacha jaap. Result MS sindoor gone. Adi literally vomits everything in front of imlie. Only thing he did without asking imlie was deleting video in this whole show. Kis par Guzza karoon.. Since imlie is young and cute should I blindly support her.

The half of the toxicity phailaoed in this show is by imlies mahan tyags and other half by Adis mistrust on imlie .

All because of Malini. 300 epi long triangle .😡

All this is true - but Imlie did it all sacrificially - considering everyone's good, while she suffered. She wanted the best for everyone - even though it was not right for her. She was also right when Adi was wrong - in knowing T's won't accept her easily.

Adi's mistakes are more selfish in nature and always focussed on him. He wanted Imlie so disregarded Malini - then he wanted to fulfill his obligations so did it regardless of his love thinking she will eventually just fall in with all his wishes and continue being selfless. Malini ensured Imlie could not help Adi as hard as she tried.

Karma is a bitch.

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

I will add 😆

When Phoolu. Prediction to sach ho gaya😆

Yaha pe koi bhi insaan saaf sudra nahi hai. Yeh saare mess ki hai ismeim sabka apna apna contribution hai. Kisi ek iska zimmedaar nahi hai. Yaha pe koi naadaan nahi hai. Sab meim imlu bhi shamil hai. 👍🏼