Don't rekindle the past, it is done and dusted - Page 16

Updated my post on page 1. Pata hai bahut der baad daala hai, but would love to hear your thoughts.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Gadda daal fees, hum aawat hai.

Thanks Nim for starting the thread today.

Aaj ka episode was to show the difference between innocent love and manipulation. It was to show simple humanity v/s genuine saath. It showed how despite everything, some people never change, be it Imlie, Adi or Malini.

• Today was day 1 of Malini trying to "win" over her soon to be ex-husband and lines were crossed, but unfortunately the people involved were completely unaware of it. It started when Imlie ran to the door going "mera piya ghar aaya" and went to hold her Malini didi's hand, who subtly pulled out, showing her emotional distancing as well. See Malini reminds me of a typical single child who suddenly has faced the prospect of a sibling at a very older age. That jealousy and anger of having to share your favorite possession often overpowers the logic that on the other side is your own flesh and blood, who you are bound by nature. Malini wants to ignore Imlie's good side to justify her plan to win over Adi, which is why whenever Imlie shows her care and concern, it bothers Malini. How much ever I want to hate Malini, she is not completely devoid of a soul like AC. Hence even though following her mother's plan will give back her prized possession, Imlie is the curve ball that she cannot discount. It is like kicking the puppy because it wanted to play with you. While you may try to justify your action, saying that you do not want to entertain the animal, but you cannot ignore that all the puppy wants is your love and attention, and it is not the puppy's fault that you are removing your frustration on it. So no matter how hard she tries, Malini is going to get pangs of guilt seeing Imlie's love for her - everytime she hurts Imlie. That guilt is what is going to ultimately whitewash Malini, which is the situation I dread the most, but will happen to continue to keep Malini relevant to the story. Do we need her to keep the story going - ofcourse not. Do we have a choice - unfortunately not. Also, Malini's delusions keep building up to suit her purpose. Her ideas of an ideal marriage that only focused on the physical and showy aspects of the relation were what made her assume that Adi's basic humanity and care for an acquaintance on par with the attention you get from your husband. Adi having ignored her for so long in favor of Imlie has triggered this intense need for her to magnify every basic little action as something much more that it actually is. She wants to believe that Adi is showering her with all the attention she craved for him due to this plan, promptly ignoring the signs that he is doing this only out of sympathy for her health. These delusions will either expose her intentions, or dissolve with the truth, to the extent to finally get her over Adi. My bet will be on the former, but let us see how this plays out
• Imlie wants to very badly hold on to the image of Malini she has built up in her head. She wants to put her on that pedestal for accepting Imlie as her sister and Adi's wife. She brushes off any sign that shows her Malini's true intentions as she does not want to face the fact of Malini being two-faced and lying to her. That is why despite her experience during the kidnapping track or even the subtle clues she got today, she refuses to recognize DD as someone who is currently manipulating the situation to get back Adi. Even with the precap, while she got a shock, I will not be surprised if she believes what Malini will say and just let it go. But my hope is that she recognizes that something is amiss and that she needs to read between the lines to really understand the current situation. While I do not expect Imlie to openly challenge Malini, I want her to atleast remind Malini that she is Adi's first wife and no matter what, she is not going to let go of her rights now. While I doubt that will happen, one can always hope. Her innocence and constant need to ensure that her sister is fine sometimes really worries me how she will feel when the truth actually does come out. Coz when it does, no matter how much they whitewash it, Imlie bharosa on relationships is going to take a very big hit. I hope that Adi is able to assure her with his constant support and pyaar, but DD's betrayal is going to really affect Imlie's psyche and trigger her insecurities enough to prompt her to leave again, despite whatever Adi does to prevent it.
• Adi was, is and will always be clueless. This guy will ever come out of his basic delusion that people are beyond what they seem on the surface. Like how he is still unable to comprhend how his mom is not able to accept Imlie despite everything she has done, he is unable to pick up clues from Malini that she wants him to be more than a friend. See the issue with Adi has always been that except for Imlie, he has never scratched beneath the surface for anyone. People berating him for not pushing Malini to know the truth behind her apparent suicide attempt have forgotten how Malini herself had once lamented that Adi never showed woh haq wali zid to make her do something she did not want to do in the scene where he made Imlie drink the milk she had got for Malini. Adi is one who will push once or max twice before leaving that person, as he does not like to interfere too much - he did it even with Nishant, where it was Imlie who made him do the drama. Except for Imlie, he will never probe beyond the token enquiry expected out of him. Hence when Malini did not explain and just mentioned she felt alone, and AC insisted that she felt happy in the T house, bechara Adi assumed that she wanted to come there to spend time with Imlie and him, as Imlie will cure her of her depression. Gadha kahin ka. But the stuff that I really liked today was him clarifying at every point about his intentions towards Imlie - be it to his family, Malini or even Imlie herself. Him talking to her and making sure they were on the same page, him reminding his family that he no longer wants to discuss or allow anyone else to make him relive past memories to suit their purpose, or even elucidating his plans to revamp his room to make it suitable for Imlie and him together. Each action made sure that the other person cannot doubt his endgame - spending his life with Imlie. If they do not want to accept, it is their issue, but according to him, he has kept his promise of ensuring that Imlie gets the place she deserves in his life. I am sure that the incident shown in the precap will prompt another session between Adi & Imlie where he will assure her that she can trust him, to which she will give her affirmation. For once I want him to see beyond Imlie's token "I am fine" and really see that this has affected her and deal with it properly, but I doubt any such thing will happen.
• Special call out to the Jr. T's especially Rupi di - her raising questions on Malini coming there and then wondering why AC allowed her to come despite she hating the T's was heartening to see. This gives me hope that team Imlie will be able to see Malini's karastanis even if Adile remain blind as a bat to her manipulations. I was a bit bothered on not hearing from PT on any of this, so looks like Aparna must have given him a warning based on last night's defense. Bechara ko ab thode time ke liye ya toh chup rakhenge ya token dialogues hi denge, till someone else flips. Also controversial opinion, but something tells me that the precap may shift something in Aparna. See currently Aparna also believes that Malini is this sacrificial devi who has given up her rights for her sister and can do no wrong. Seeing this side of Malini may raise conflicting emotions in Aparna. While she may want to be happy seeing Malini & Adi together, but seeing how it affects Imlie and the way this entire situation has been orchestrated, I have a feeling Aparna may start feeling some twinges of guilt. This may land up as the trigger to initiate Aparna's road to redemption. While I am all ready to be chopped, let us see how tomorrow pans out.

Kuch na likhne par bhi I landed up writing a very long essay, but today's conflicting opinions just prompted me to put my thoughts about each of the characters. Today's episode has made me feel better about this track, in the sense that it will have its share of cringe, but overall a lot of open loops will be closed.

I also have same thoughts. Chances are less to view the precap scene by any other family members but still i also have an instinct that Aparna may shift .. i don’t believe Aparna is the one who put Malini in adhithya’s room , already Anu have gave an elaborate plan on voice mute . Malini may take Aparna’s name . Or any other excuse … As some members give very optimistic note like this track may for Aparna… my seeing Malini’s day by day fall I also feels this. Anyway as you said ready for chop.

One thing I noticed is Adhi is still on Malini aap yahaam mode. When M shows at his room doorstep he was Malini aap and then drop sentence.

Thanks for analysis

Originally posted by: Flora_Fauna

but doctors normally can tell right once they do the tests if it was a real suicide attempt or fake one as Anu has administered so maybe later on doctor may inform Adi that this was fake attempt

Since she didn’t cut herself and no visual signs wouldn’t that whacko doctor have done blood work to check for poison/toxins?

He probably was someone pretending to be doctor his bedside manner and convo with Adi was weird.🤪

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

This is the second time Malini is asking relationship status of AdiLie to Adi🤮 . Does she have no pride

GM everyone!!

Snow - This is the stark difference between M nd Imlie... Imlie has seen PDA of AM and has never one questioned Adi... ever. Adi has always taken extra pains to explain himself to Imlie..that there is nothing between them now.. she should not get worried.

M - has been insecure always and now she is getting desperate and clingy... all kinds of obsessive behavior, the way she is digging into their relation... might trigger a warning in Adi's mind.. Hope it comes soon.

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Last time also she did attempt suicide without reason. That time she only had doubt regarding Adilie relationship 😕

once a person has gone down that path a toofan not required a gentle breeze can trip them up.

She is Ms. Naazuk said the first doctor to Adi after she fainted hearing about Adi Imlii marriage. He married her partly out of fear for her and decided to dosti nibhana shaadi. He was never head over heels in love follow her to PD style love he has for Imli.

She said Adi was always confused she was not. So why so desperate to marry a man who didn’t reciprocate her feelings? He clearly told her I married you to dosti nibhana, Imli and I are IN LOVE with each other. Professor hai itna hi samaj Sakthi na?

What la la land is she living in that she thinks she can force him to fall in love with her again(there is no again here, he only loved her as a friend, not an intimate partner). He wasn’t in love with her after 7 long years of friendship when their compatibility was in shopping and world views. That’s not required to be in love.

AC must be locked up ASAP, her crime sheet is getting deadlier. Ts in jail, Adi kidnapping, Poisoning pampered puppet princess who’s next? DEV has challenged her he better be careful what he eats in his own house until he knows who his household help are loyal to.

Originally posted by: Flora_Fauna

but doctors normally can tell right once they do the tests if it was a real suicide attempt or fake one as Anu has administered so maybe later on doctor may inform Adi that this was fake attempt

That's logic and that is something which doesn't have its place here😂

Anu hadn't applied force on Malini to take poison. Anu might have mixed it with food & Malu herself ate it. So how could dr. find she herself poisoned or by some other person.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Gadda daal fees, hum aawat hai.

Thanks Nim for starting the thread today.

Aaj ka episode was to show the difference between innocent love and manipulation. It was to show simple humanity v/s genuine saath. It showed how despite everything, some people never change, be it Imlie, Adi or Malini.

• Today was day 1 of Malini trying to "win" over her soon to be ex-husband and lines were crossed, but unfortunately the people involved were completely unaware of it. It started when Imlie ran to the door going "mera piya ghar aaya" and went to hold her Malini didi's hand, who subtly pulled out, showing her emotional distancing as well. See Malini reminds me of a typical single child who suddenly has faced the prospect of a sibling at a very older age. That jealousy and anger of having to share your favorite possession often overpowers the logic that on the other side is your own flesh and blood, who you are bound by nature. Malini wants to ignore Imlie's good side to justify her plan to win over Adi, which is why whenever Imlie shows her care and concern, it bothers Malini. How much ever I want to hate Malini, she is not completely devoid of a soul like AC. Hence even though following her mother's plan will give back her prized possession, Imlie is the curve ball that she cannot discount. It is like kicking the puppy because it wanted to play with you. PPP doesn’t really know herself. She was willing to mold herself to match Adi’s likes and dislikes. The scary part is knowing how deadly and revengeful her mother is she she admits she can never not listen to her mother. This time she was poisoned, as DEV said AC used her own daughter in a deadly way. Looks like she lives by “Peyanalum Thai”(Tamil saying) While you may try to justify your action, saying that you do not want to entertain the animal, but you cannot ignore that all the puppy wants is your love and attention, and it is not the puppy's fault that you are removing your frustration on it. So no matter how hard she tries, Malini is going to get pangs of guilt seeing Imlie's love for her - everytime she hurts Imlie. That guilt is what is going to ultimately whitewash Malini, which is the situation I dread the most, but will happen to continue to keep Malini relevant to the story. Do we need her to keep the story going - ofcourse not. Do we have a choice - unfortunately not. Also, Malini's delusions keep building up to suit her purpose. Her ideas of an ideal marriage that only focused on the physical and showy aspects of the relation were what made her assume that Adi's basic humanity and care for an acquaintance on par with the attention you get from your husband. Adi having ignored her for so long in favor of Imlie has triggered this intense need for her to magnify every basic little action as something much more that it actually is. She wants to believe that Adi is showering her with all the attention she craved for him due to this plan, promptly ignoring the signs that he is doing this only out of sympathy for her health. These delusions will either expose her intentions, or dissolve with the truth, to the extent to finally get her over Adi. My bet will be on the former, but let us see how this plays out
• Imlie wants to very badly hold on to the image of Malini she has built up in her head. She wants to put her on that pedestal for accepting Imlie as her sister and Adi's wife. She brushes off any sign that shows her Malini's true intentions as she does not want to face the fact of Malini being two-faced and lying to her. That is why despite her experience during the kidnapping track or even the subtle clues she got today, she refuses to recognize DD as someone who is currently manipulating the situation to get back Adi. Even with the precap, while she got a shock, I will not be surprised if she believes what Malini will say and just let it go. But my hope is that she recognizes that something is amiss and that she needs to read between the lines to really understand the current situation. While I do not expect Imlie to openly challenge Malini, I want her to atleast remind Malini that she is Adi's first wife and no matter what, she is not going to let go of her rights now. While I doubt that will happen, one can always hope. Her innocence and constant need to ensure that her sister is fine sometimes really worries me how she will feel when the truth actually does come out. Coz when it does, no matter how much they whitewash it, Imlie bharosa on relationships is going to take a very big hit. I hope that Adi is able to assure her with his constant support and pyaar, but DD's betrayal is going to really affect Imlie's psyche and trigger her insecurities enough to prompt her to leave again, despite whatever Adi does to prevent it.
• Adi was, is and will always be clueless. This guy will ever come out of his basic delusion that people are beyond what they seem on the surface. Like how he is still unable to comprhend how his mom is not able to accept Imlie despite everything she has done, he is unable to pick up clues from Malini that she wants him to be more than a friend. See the issue with Adi has always been that except for Imlie, he has never scratched beneath the surface for anyone. People berating him for not pushing Malini to know the truth behind her apparent suicide attempt have forgotten how Malini herself had once lamented that Adi never showed woh haq wali zid to make her do something she did not want to do in the scene where he made Imlie drink the milk she had got for Malini. Adi is one who will push once or max twice before leaving that person, as he does not like to interfere too much - he did it even with Nishant, where it was Imlie who made him do the drama. Except for Imlie, he will never probe beyond the token enquiry expected out of him. Hence when Malini did not explain and just mentioned she felt alone, and AC insisted that she felt happy in the T house, bechara Adi assumed that she wanted to come there to spend time with Imlie and him, as Imlie will cure her of her depression. Gadha kahin ka. But the stuff that I really liked today was him clarifying at every point about his intentions towards Imlie - be it to his family, Malini or even Imlie herself. Him talking to her and making sure they were on the same page, him reminding his family that he no longer wants to discuss or allow anyone else to make him relive past memories to suit their purpose, or even elucidating his plans to revamp his room to make it suitable for Imlie and him together. Each action made sure that the other person cannot doubt his endgame - spending his life with Imlie. If they do not want to accept, it is their issue, but according to him, he has kept his promise of ensuring that Imlie gets the place she deserves in his life. I am sure that the incident shown in the precap will prompt another session between Adi & Imlie where he will assure her that she can trust him, to which she will give her affirmation. For once I want him to see beyond Imlie's token "I am fine" and really see that this has affected her and deal with it properly, for a serious patrakaar he fails to read between the lines. But Imli is making him see the world through diff lens.she matters so much he’s willing to not live like a horse with blinders like his mother.but I doubt any such thing will happen.
• Special call out to the Jr. T's especially Rupi di - her raising questions on Malini coming there and then wondering why AC allowed her to come despite she hating the T's was heartening to see. This gives me hope that team Imlie will be able to see Malini's karastanis I like Rupi di. Learning from her own experience she is unselfish in supporting Imli and guiding her. if Adile remain blind as a bat to her manipulations. I was a bit bothered on not hearing from PT on any of this, PT is taking it all in.BK shut him up so he’s a silent spectator for now but he is on Adi Imli side now. He will have his say once Malini’s duplicity is exposed and she will leave Ts home. She came shamelessly this time with an evil plan orchestrated by AC and will leave shamed.so looks like Aparna must have given him a warning based on last night's defense. Bechara ko ab thode time ke liye ya toh chup rakhenge ya token dialogues hi denge, till someone else flips. Also controversial opinion, but something tells me that the precap may shift something in Aparna. See currently Aparna also believes that Malini is this sacrificial devi who has given up her rights for her sister and can do no wrong. Seeing this side of Malini may raise conflicting emotions in Aparna. While she may want to be happy seeing Malini & Adi together, but seeing how it affects Imlie and the way this entire situation has been orchestrated, I have a feeling Aparna may start feeling some twinges of guilt. This may land up as the trigger to initiate Aparna's road to redemption. While I am all ready to be chopped, let us see how tomorrow pans out.

Kuch na likhne par bhi I landed up writing a very long essay, but today's conflicting opinions just prompted me to put my thoughts about each of the characters. Today's episode has made me feel better about this track, in the sense that it will have its share of cringe, but overall a lot of open loops will be closed.

@bold my responses in blue