Misunderstandings galore at BBC - Page 25

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Oh yes! Despite the 7 years of "love" she was insecure at the fact that he left for 2 - 3 days to cover a story😂😂

I think its not just lack of trust..she kinda knew it all along, that there was no much of a love he has ever expressed for her. Shes tuned herself so much to be like Adi. She thought staying compatible meant being alike and imparted the same philosophy to him. She was assured that love could always happen to him, and she wanted him to experience it through her. He had no freedom in their relationship, but she also knew Adi has a free spirit. But still she kept imposing herself on him. She should have given him his space to figure himself out. If that had happened, they would not have stayed for 7 long years.

But with Imlie, he had absolute freedom and their trust grew in spite of those adverse circumstances. She had never imposed herself on him. She herself was free spirited like Adi.

Problem ye tha that for both it was more of an aadat than pyaar. That is why she was always afraid that he will leave her and go away. She felt that agar aadat badal gayi then she will be left alone. Malini is more afraid of being alone rather than just losing Adi. Uske liye usne itni mehnat se apne liye ek aisa partner chuna tha who was perfectly compatible (acc to her), malleable, ready to grovel when needed and stood up to her mother. She was more worried that her 7 years of effort to mold herself to Adi's tastes will go down the drain if Adi leaves her and she is left alone. Uske hisab se letting him go on his assignments and changing her preferences for him were her way of giving him space and being the way he would want his life partner to be. She never understood that Adi always needed someone who challenges him at every point and was willing to push him out of his comfort zone, which is what Imlie did.

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Haha I think they got carried away by the PDA. He did it to convince himself and others😂😂😂😂. He just could not admit he was so wrong initially! That that marriage was a sham..His big fat male ego didnt allow it. Idiot! 😂

Un PDA ke karmon ka phal hi toh abhi bhugat raha hai, so much so that his family assumes that with Imlie it is day and not pyaar😆

Adi's big fat ego was the reason that he had to go through 100 episodes to realize that he was in love with Imlie, despite the PDA with his Moon - kitne papad belne pade usse Imlie ko bhi samjhane that all he felt for Malini was dosti😆 Sab un PDA ki wajah se.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Me too. She was very fierce. But her love for Jamie 🤣 couldn't digest that. But they were true lovers. Died in each other's arms😲

I dont understand why the partiality towards the Lannisters when Targaryens had been doing it since generations 😂😂😂😂 thats why I chose to avoid it. Even Dany had inclinations to Viserys😅✌🏼

But I loved her when she blew up the sept if balor. And her journey after that walk of atonement!❤️

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Imlie was/is/always will be his first preference. Always. But Yeh Kambakht Gehri Dosti is his gulit conscious . He did married Malini and had to leave her😆

Just ignore geheri dosti

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Problem ye tha that for both it was more of an aadat than pyaar. That is why she was always afraid that he will leave her and go away. She felt that agar aadat badal gayi then she will be left alone. Malini is more afraid of being alone rather than just losing Adi. Uske liye usne itni mehnat se apne liye ek aisa partner chuna tha who was perfectly compatible (acc to her), malleable, ready to grovel when needed and stood up to her mother. She was more worried that her 7 years of effort to mold herself to Adi's tastes will go down the drain if Adi leaves her and she is left alone. Uske hisab se letting him go on his assignments and changing her preferences for him were her way of giving him space and being the way he would want his life partner to be. She never understood that Adi always needed someone who challenges him at every point and was willing to push him out of his comfort zone, which is what Imlie did.

Mujhe hamesha se lagta aaya hain ki she was more afraid her marriage would turn out to be like her parents. She chose a partner who acc to her was compatible and all those adjusting stuff etc she did, they both shared the same thoughts or same direction acc to her.

She felt since she was tuning to his likes and stuff, she was entitled to receive that something which I feel she has taken in from her mother.

PS: This is my 500th post on IF btw

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Un PDA ke karmon ka phal hi toh abhi bhugat raha hai, so much so that his family assumes that with Imlie it is day and not pyaar😆

Adi's big fat ego was the reason that he had to go through 100 episodes to realize that he was in love with Imlie, despite the PDA with his Moon - kitne papad belne pade usse Imlie ko bhi samjhane that all he felt for Malini was dosti😆 Sab un PDA ki wajah se.

Seriously yar those PDA.. Everytime PDA was tgere out of guilt only if we see correctly 🤣..

Abh bhugatraha hai biwi ka haath bhi nahi pakad paraha🤣

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Yaar yeh time-out ka chakker mere palle nahi padta. Maybe it is the mom in me that could not take her talking about her kid like that.

Toda serious ho rahi hoon yahaan, but that scene just got me mad. Matlab you are trying to justify your behavior to your son saying tum karoge toh main bhi karoongi. Where is the maturity in being his mother. I get you are mad at his actions, enough that you felt locking him in will solve your problems, but atleast yesterday they showed her feeling a pinch of remorse, so I was still okay with that. Today her justifying her actions saying because you did it I will do it as well - How is that a justification? Matlab kal ko agar woh khoon karga, toh tum bhi wohi karoge to prove a point? Kya bakwaas that woh pura argument. Aparna's baaki ke portions, even the dialogues she told Imlie were the same rinse and repeat, so di not affect me so much as her almost acrimonious behavior at Adi - Khud ka hi beta hai ya phir he is adopted. Abhi na mujhe shakk hone laga hai.

ITV hain behen itna mat soch … find a reasoning and make peace with it …

Even Adi ke palle nahi pada hence he did not bother to be mad at her …her justifications were all crap … couldn’t relate a bit … just tht she is scared tht she may eventually accept Imlie … tht is why she is making it clear tht she won’t accept her … Radhas reasoning tht since we locked he was not here so we got to hear only few tana if he had been here we would had heard so much 😂 again illogical…

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

ITV hain behen itna mat soch … find and reasoning and make peace with it …

Even Adi ke palle nahi pada hence he did not bother to be mad at her …her justifications were all crap … couldn’t relate a bit … just tht she is scared tht she may eventually accept Imlie … tht is why she is making it clear … Radhas reasoning tht since we locked he was not here so we got to hear only few tana if he had been here we would had heard so much 😂 again illogical…

Inko bhi ignore kardo🤣

But again in Precap Adi is back on his usual mode . He was speaking to Imlie about BBC

Originally posted by: Ps143

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Thanks for this thread Aps Ji. Seriously you must have a lot of patience to see through such Episodes

Taking a moment to appreciate ST as Imlie and even as herself. She's wonderful. Words fall short to describe her. She shall go a long way ahead.

I don't understand why makers are hell bent on not letting Imlie have her moment to herself entirely. Whenever she shines, it's immediately overshadowed by something or the other.

Today looking at Imlie in that costume, looking so beautiful despite the costume being not really good enough, mere man me bas yehi aata hain -

Use dekhke dil ne kaha -

Yeh madhumaas me khili kali hain

Jo chehekti bhi hain mehekti bhi

Uske har andaaz ne dil ko lubhaaya hain

Uske roop me zameen par ek farishta falak se utarkar aaya hain

Uski hasi aisi hain ki kisiki bhi duniya ko roshan karde

Uski aankhein aisi hain ki apne bheetar samaye gehraiyon me dekhne waale ko bhi kheench de

Kad choti si hain par uske buland hosale aur samajhdaari use auron se bada banati hain

Chote se gaanv se aayi yeh ek anmol moti hain!

She was splendid 😍

Forgetting logic and stuff, just focus on her presence of mind and wit. Kisike man me yeh bahut sochne pe bhi idea nahi aaya hoga. ITV hain so logic not needed. Iske place pe koi aur bahu hoti, they would just have burst out crying there.

Junior Ts cheering for her😍😍

Didi se pyaar bada hain aapko, yeh jaante hain hum but har Imlie moment me usko ghusedna zaroori hain kya?

Gehri dosti huh, aur kitna mazaak banoge uss term ka makers?

Aparna - no words for you actually. I'm swinging between trying to leave all of your doings as gussa and ego thinking about your earlier responses and feeling disgust at you defending your actions!

Last scene maine bas skip kar diya. About the precap - dekhte hain Aparna. Imlie toh waise bhi jeetegi hi.

I seriously don't want one more filler episode tomorrow.

Please makers spare us this torture.

Didi bechaargi and BBC we just cannot tolerate any longer

KC hain na, bande ko use toh karo

Didi ko har jagah ghusedni ki jagah KunMun love story me progress karo

Adilie scenes toh waise bhi kam milte hain, stop ruining them with DD jaap

These unnecessary twists and unneeded dialogues - we seriously aren't able to bhaanp!

For God's sake dont ruin our weekend with one more filler. Its a bada waala request.

And DD ke makeup pe kharche cut karke Imlie ke liye kuch acche kapde daalon. Not asking for change in style - they can still be simple. Just go in for better colours

First off, wow. Ps that poetry on Imlie was splendid - almost better, if not at par with her dance today, which is the biggest compliment I can give you right now.❤️🤗

Agree on all your points. Will not go into a lot of details, as it will be a rehash of what I have already discussed.

Will point out that I am hoping with you that we get a better episode tomorrow, the last 2 episodes were such a disappointment that I hope our weekend does not get ruined with more unnecessary DD jaap.