Misunderstandings galore at BBC - Page 22

Acha chalo y Batao kis ko lagta ha NDE ho ga aur kiskoo lagta h ML ho ga BS ka?

Originally posted by: Pearl21

Acha chalo y Batao kis ko lagta ha NDE ho ga aur kiskoo lagta h ML ho ga BS ka?

Bruh, honestly anything is fine other than BBC, AC/DC, and T kaand. KunMun is still tolerable!😅🤗

Originally posted by: Pearl21

Acha chalo y Batao kis ko lagta ha NDE ho ga aur kiskoo lagta h ML ho ga BS ka?

I want Imaliya ka NDE or ML but milega 🔔and BS ka ML🤢

I soooo Don't want it🤣

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Haha Aparna was the only topic we had different opinions on Aps!..Im happy you also felt the same about her being one horrible mother. I mean how can one be a good saas if she cant be a good mother!?

Btw..I am still upset about her actions to Imlie..which you would disagree😂😂😂✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼

But yaay! 95% thoughts aligned!😂❤️

See it is always easier to be a good saas even if you are not a good mother. Reason being apna khoon apni property lagta hai, and dusre ki aulad is always someone else's responsibility. I am saying this out of experience. When you interact with someone else's child, no matter what there is a boundary that you do not cross, no matter how attached you get. Because end of they day if something happens you are responsible and answerable to them, be it a stranger or even appke ghar ki bahu. Bahu ko kuch bhi ho, bahu ke parents can come to question you (case in point of how even today AC questions Aparna, even when DD is no longer the bahu). But jab apna khoon rahta hai, then jo bhi ho, no one can question the mother beyond a point, as uska bachcha hai, woh kuch bhi kare. Aparna ke saath wohi ho raha hai. Imlie ke saath jitna bhi nafrat ho, she untill now has not yet crossed that line. Even today, despite everything, she kept admiring how well Imlie danced and managed the show, despite she herself being the reason to put Imlie on the spot. Even her rants towards Imlie were very similar to Adi's before he married Malini - leave all this so that I can forget whatever happened. So her redemption arc is following the same pattern as Adi's.

But Aparna's stance in Adi's case, she crossed that line a long time back, so much so that her doing all this now makes even more sense. She is the type of mother who thinks that whatever she does to justify and fulfill her expectations from her child is fine, because woh uska beta hai. His entire definition for her is that he is my son and I will do anything needed to make sure that he follows my way. Though we never really saw a lot of this before, now these traits are being shown in the way she talks about how she used to "get him in line". The fact that she thinks it can work now at this stage in his life is what is both ludicrous & scary. I mean I could defend all her other aspects, but this behavior I cannot defend. It has really bothered me a lot today, enough that I am still writing about it.

That is why I said, Aparna can redeem herself for Imlie, as she is attached to her and all this anger is more directed to her son. But no matter what she does, it will be very difficult for me to forgive her for her behavior towards Adi. Maybe I may be in the minority here, but that attitude and these actions are unacceptable for me as a fellow mother.

Oooooo bhaiiissssaaabbb😲

29 panne?😕

Next level frustooo are peeps🤣

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

You are always welcome dear.

Adi's claim of being Malini's gehra dost & best friend is as khokla as his promises that woh mar jayega agar DD uski wajah se dukhi ho - Basically amounting to nil.

That guy wants to keep Malini in a closet, where he knows she is there, but she actually holds no importance in his life. Matlab kal ko if he cannot see her in the closet, he will panic and try to find her and put her back, but agar woh na bhi ho, toh bahut zyada farak nahi padega. In some time he will promptly move on, without dwelling on it too much. Lekin daave aise karega jaise ki best friend ke bina he cannot function. Ghanta. Best friend called him so many times over a period of a day and he cannot bother to even return her call or text her to find out what happened. Best friend came to take him for counselling session, yet he prioritized his wife's dance over that, still uske silent hone se achanak isko bahut farak padne laga. Like I have said, chochle hai uske. She just needs to be present in his closet like a doll, baaki she has no bearing on his life anymore.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I have given up on that ever being properly addressed in the show. Beech beech mein Adi may say it to Imlie or even to the T's, but mujhe nahi lagta usse khud yeh ehsaas hai that they were incompatible. Warna gehri dosti ka itna jaap nahi karta.

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few days back, the caps from this scene were posted by some fan on twitter asking why CVs gave such heavy dialogues to Adi when they knew that after few episodes Adi is going to realize his love for Imlie. Even Atif has posted this scene on his Insta. It was so intense scene but looks so hollow. Adi n Malini both are badi badi baatein vada pav khate in each others matter🤣. Didi was feeling bad that she is coming under influence of her mother n doubting Adi. giving gyaan about how trust is pristine white n drop of doubts can make it murky. But, From 1st episodes she was shown insecure for whatever reason it may be. On valentine's day she actually was going to question him infront of family. phir bhi kis muah se she was giving this bade bade gyan. On the other hand Adi,😆Aapka trust todne se pehle hum mar jayenge.. kya phek raha hai.. aur kis hadd tak. Just after coming out of room he was worried about Imlie. I felt this was their futile attempt to hold on to something which was already lost. As if both were in denial.

One thing I would like really to appreciate about makers is that they have not taken easy route for Adilie romance.

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It is so evident that they are so incompatible.. but for makers I think it is too cliche so they want to go non-cliche way by doing Didi bhakti. Sooner or later, Adi would have felt suffocated in his marriage with Malini even if Imlie was not there. Adi is impulsive, short tempered, with Imlie he can be himself but with Didi he has to be over cautious all the time.

I so want atleast Apu later could see this difference.

why tags are not working😔

Originally posted by: nim_var

Aps -- thankooo for writing a thorough review even if it is cringey in some parts.. or most parts..

I have to rewatch and absorb some of the nuances and other stuff I missed.. first watch is always to see the content..

Poor Imlie, did such a fab job only to be overshadowed by M or her mom.. she never gets her moment in the sun.. always a cloud handing over her head. She felt bad at being disqualified as that meant the family would not accept her lovingly. She is learning how to sambhalo her BS and herself too in the wake of society making fun of her n her shaadi.

Apu divided into 2 - should I or not... vacillates and then crosses over to the other side once more, venting out her anger on her son. How his betrayal cut deeply ? I get all this but not the locking in the room... old school punishment was 1 - 2 whacks go and sit in a kona n study... no TV, no fun playing with friends..

Agree that AC has always stood her ground.. backhanded compliment if ever there was one..

Tomorrow surfeit of Dd nd Adi's sorry/messages.. he may miss session yet again or to prove his loyalty to Mun may skip the final round.. let's see how it plays out.

You are always welcome Nim, today was a difficult one to pen down. Luckily for me I usually remeber most of the episode & go back only to maybe checkout some of the dialogues as reference.

Yeah, sometimes I wonder why do they choose to always give Imlie the short end of the stick. Everytime she does something wonderful, DD or AC will find a way to bring that situation to the dumps. This repeating pattern is starting to get annoying and I do not know how long we will be needed to digest this.

I agree with the you on Aparna's behavior. Like you said, we were at 2 whacks, go sit in kona and study without any TV or playtime. I can still comprehend that behavior to an extent. But locking a child in a room for hours is unacceptable, no matter how bad the behavior. As I have mentioned, this attitude of hers has been instrumental in molding Adi's attitude as well. Thank god for PT, else Adi's character would not have been redeemable IMO. I think PT's saiyyam and his ability to see the beauty in the smallest details are what is also in Adi's personality, which makes him appreciate and adore someone like Imlie. He has been able to understand the toxicity in his attitude & change it because of the qualities and advice of PT. So yeah, I am happy that atleast Adi had PT, coz Aparna for me is not a mother I can get on board with at least for Adi. As I have mentioned earlier, what she did and does now with Adi is something I cannot get on board with and it will be very difficult for me to forgive her for that.

Aage ka I don't really care, as I know that how much ever Aparna tries to be the vamp, she is going to be instrumental in helping Imlie win, even if she does not want her to.😆

Adi & DD are something that I deal with when I see the episode. My rant on his DD jaap is done, so really do not care how much more we will get it tomorrow. Mera brain is still fried because of today, so I will continue to be this pessimistic today, as I have absolutely no enthu left today for any predictions, sorry for being the spoilsport.

Originally posted by: shalu79

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few days back, the caps from this scene were posted by some fan on twitter asking why CVs gave such heavy dialogues to Adi when they knew that after few episodes Adi is going to realize his love for Imlie. Even Atif has posted this scene on his Insta. It was so intense scene but looks so hollow. Adi n Malini both are badi badi baatein vada pav khate in each others matter🤣. Didi was feeling bad that she is coming under influence of her mother n doubting Adi. giving gyaan about how trust is pristine white n drop of doubts can make it murky. But, From 1st episodes she was shown insecure for whatever reason it may be. On valentine's day she actually was going to question him infront of family. phir bhi kis muah se she was giving this bade bade gyan. On the other hand Adi,😆Aapka trust todne se pehle hum mar jayenge.. kya phek raha hai.. aur kis hadd tak. Just after coming out of room he was worried about Imlie. I felt this was there futile attempt to hold on something which was already lost. As if both were in denial.

One thing I would like really to appreciate about makers is that they have not taken easy route for Adilie romance.

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It is so evident that they are so incompatible.. but for makers I think it is too cliche so they want to go non-cliche way by doing Didi bhakti. Sooner or later, Adi would have felt suffocated in his marriage with Malini even if Imlie was not there. Adi is impulsive, short tempered, with Imlie he can be himself but with Didi he has to be over cautious all the time.

I so want atleast Apu later could see this difference.

why tags are not working😔

Kb ki bat h ye when he promises maliny & think about imlie

Originally posted by: girdharmona

Kb ki bat h ye when he promises maliny & think about imlie

Aditya kidnap hone se pehle. Same night when he tells Imlie that she has to understand that he is not her husband. Episode 94

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

See it is always easier to be a good saas even if you are not a good mother. Reason being apna khoon apni property lagta hai, and dusre ki aulad is always someone else's responsibility. I am saying this out of experience. When you interact with someone else's child, no matter what there is a boundary that you do not cross, no matter how attached you get. Because end of they day if something happens you are responsible and answerable to them, be it a stranger or even appke ghar ki bahu. Bahu ko kuch bhi ho, bahu ke parents can come to question you (case in point of how even today AC questions Aparna, even when DD is no longer the bahu). But jab apna khoon rahta hai, then jo bhi ho, no one can question the mother beyond a point, as uska bachcha hai, woh kuch bhi kare. Aparna ke saath wohi ho raha hai. Imlie ke saath jitna bhi nafrat ho, she untill now has not yet crossed that line. Even today, despite everything, she kept admiring how well Imlie danced and managed the show, despite she herself being the reason to put Imlie on the spot. Even her rants towards Imlie were very similar to Adi's before he married Malini - leave all this so that I can forget whatever happened. So her redemption arc is following the same pattern as Adi's.

But Aparna's stance in Adi's case, she crossed that line a long time back, so much so that her doing all this now makes even more sense. She is the type of mother who thinks that whatever she does to justify and fulfill her expectations from her child is fine, because woh uska beta hai. His entire definition for her is that he is my son and I will do anything needed to make sure that he follows my way. Though we never really saw a lot of this before, now these traits are being shown in the way she talks about how she used to "get him in line". The fact that she thinks it can work now at this stage in his life is what is both ludicrous & scary. I mean I could defend all her other aspects, but this behavior I cannot defend. It has really bothered me a lot today, enough that I am still writing about it.

That is why I said, Aparna can redeem herself for Imlie, as she is attached to her and all this anger is more directed to her son. But no matter what she does, it will be very difficult for me to forgive her for her behavior towards Adi. Maybe I may be in the minority here, but that attitude and these actions are unacceptable for me as a fellow mother.

I totally agree about her being a horrible mother to Adi, Aps! May be she is hurting Imlie to hurt him too. Its very scary how she has justified her stance by doing the exact "dhoka" to her son. Just to make a point. Parents need to understand that even if its her child, she cant be possessive about them or treat them as a puppet or their toy. She cannot impose her choices on him. There are lot of ways she could get her son to understand her, but locking him in his room and stuff..thats horrifying.

A parent becomes a good parent when he/she starts to respect their children and their individuality. This is not at all done.

One thing that hit me now is that Aps, may be she has had such archaic traits in her and thats being shown in the show subtly? Like take her regressive classist mindset, the group of people she socialises with, their refusal to agree for Rupi's divorce, remember the day Radha slapped Imlie? That day Rupi gave us an idea how children are treated in their homes as well. I think those scenes were not randomly kept there. Looks like there was a lot of thought process. Tripathis were always like that I feel.

Coming to Imlie Aps, you know what I would say😅😅..I believe in fair treatment Aps! I have written that many times. I have always felt that ones actions and words dictate what they are. Not their mindset. Even if we say that she has a beautiful heart she still chose to vent her frustrations on that 19 year old girl without any care or concern and that too HOW! Malini's character was tolerable to me until she decided to torture Imlie because of her insecurities. While that was insecurity, this is far worse..classism. If Aparna has issues thats her problem, she could also stay indifferent to Imlie, but she decided to torture her instead, which was totally what she chose to be. Her inner turmoil will not EVER justify her action and words to people. I respect Adi because he never seemed to torture Imlie for her status. He was in denial for whole another reason..thats why I believe Adi's redemption is far easier than Aparna's.

Just my POV

But yes #95%Match 😂✌🏼