The Truth is now in motion at last - Page 16

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

And am not sure why a discussion is needed on a lie and accusations made by a delusional woman like Malini...does it even matter? Are we as delusional as malini to sit and decipher kitne ho sakte hain ya nahi in 7 mahine.. 😶

Aap toh serious ho liye...just thinking that what a mess the character write up is...and found it amusing ki they did not stop to think how that one syllable just made all she would claim or say quite nullifying!

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LMAO what delusions, Babusahib🤣🤣🤣.......you really expected Maharani Sahiba to give you understanding just like you gave her understanding for loving someone else? ....KAB aapki tubelight jalegi about who she really is.....SMH😆

Arey yeh kya lagaa rakha hai gunpoint marriage, gunpoint marriage.....as if Didi has the brainpower to deny the validity of something based on that.....lol gunpoint ho ya fingerpoint.....marriage toh hui na and Imlie FIRST aa hi gayi na😛🤣......THAT is what Didi will never be able to tolerate....chaahe shaadi jaise bhi hui.....lol

BS still has some delusions about Malini ki so called maturity😆. Hence he might have thought jaise usne uske pyaar for someone else ka lihaaz rakha toh Malini will also reciprocate the similar lihaaz to him🤣.

Arey ye gunpoint marriage ki illegality ka jhanda is what Malini stans lehrao all the damn time & certain people in the show will also view it in the same way if they want to oppose Adi-Imlie ka marriage🤣. So Adi declaring his love for Imlie first & himself giving validity to their marriage is what is required against the opposition that may come😆.

It is another thing ki Malini ki understanding is on a altogether different tangent & she is just more worried about her image rather than her own marriage & heart break over Adi falling for Imlie😆.

Your words are just bliss...a calm to mind n heart...I mean it really... IST 1:17am re-reading this para of yours from The word to sync n letting it sync in...These two people have taught us what love has to be like-no formalities,no fancy competitions for proving love nothing!Just two concerning souls,who need each others mere presence & happiness❤️A saga of understanding & respectfulness!

On the contrary Malini has clearly been delineating the line between love n ego for us!

I suddenly remembered Malini got her "date" she so desperately wanted from Aditya 😆 & jo shock lagne wala hai didi ko, phir kabhi date ka naam nahi legi🤣

Originally posted by: Lodestar

BS still has some delusions about Malini ki so called maturity😆. Hence he might have thought jaise usne uske pyaar for someone else ka lihaaz rakha toh Malini will also reciprocate the similar lihaaz to him🤣.

Arey ye gunpoint marriage ki illegality ka jhanda is what Malini stans lehrao all the damn time & certain people in the show will also view it in the same way if they want to oppose Adi-Imlie ka marriage🤣. So Adi declaring his love for Imlie first & himself giving validity to their marriage is what is required against the opposition that may come😆.

It is another thing ki Malini ki understanding is on a altogether different tangent & she is just more worried about her image rather than her own marriage & heart break over Adi falling for Imlie😆.

LOL arey why get into trying to explain to those who will never get it?😆

I think I saw an article somewhere again today claiming that this show "glorifies" gunpoint marriage😆.....I found it all damn amusing for various reasons, least of all this that literally for 100 epis, Adi ne non-stop us gunpoint marriage ko illegal bola hai....toh kaise glorification?😆 Literally every character in the show, even the PD ones who gave validity to the marriage constantly expressed sorrow and despair over how it happened......so I don't get how any of that constitutes "glorification".

Every other show on ITV is actually glorifying and romanticizing hate shaadis which are essentially a base plot of every ITV show with the fundamental premise that every Indian marriage is meant to find its way from compromise to love😆.....in this show they actually dwelled on the forced backdrop of the marriage much more than most stories where people instantly jump to romanticization and salivation for romantic scenes😆.

So that to me fundamentally disproves the argument that anything was "glorified" in this story....accepting the validity of a marriage when you form a connection with someone does not mean it is being "glorified"....Adi still maintains his stance that what happened in PD with the marriage being forced was wrong....but his connection with Imlie is independent of that because they fell in love over a period of getting to know each other, and no, not the usual "knowing" as defined by ITV in the form of constant trip/catches and eyelocks.....lol these two actually got to know each other through facing crises together.....so again, how is it "glorification" when you are bonded to a person through facing the challenges of life together?

This is fiction at the end of the day and they are trying to tell a story of a love forged in the middle of crisis and struggle......so how people make the jump from that to "glorification" without having even a 1% understanding of the story as a whole is just hilarious to me😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly, Pam😆

It sounds bizarre when you write it out but this is absolutely how his mind has worked it out....and there is no pretense in him about it....he actually did adhere to this in real time based on the way he processed his truth at the time....he was loyal to the person he believed himself married to at any given moment. When he thought that person was Malini, he did focus on his loyalty towards her (even if it was another matter that subconsciously his emotions and concern did always circle back to Imlie)....but consciously his focus was Malini na.....so in his mind he doesn't see himself as having strung two people along at any point😆

And the reason he is able to believe this is exactly as you said...he's never believed in the rituals of marriage that strongly....they were indeed a formality for him for the longest time....remember, we discussed that this is precisely why he was able to go through with the marriage with Malini too.....cuz he treated it as going through the formality of rituals rather than feeling the weight/meaning of those rituals.

It was only once he realized his love for Imlie that he started to assign meaning/value to all the rituals associated with marriage because he discovered faith in them via Imlie....her faith became his faith....and rishta VISHWAAS pe chalta hai, LOGIC pe nahin😛😆.....

This is why from the moment he realized his love for Imlie, the whole picture cleared up for him that the rituals of marriage with Imlie were the ones that had meaning and if they had meaning, then they are the ONLY ones that are valid anymore.....any other ritual of marriage that came after that is invalid in his eyes now😆

So true and to add to it from that point on, he became focused on telling the truth to Malini (we all know how that is going). Previously it did not matter to him because for Imlie did not matter but his "niyaat" is there. He is not really stringing her around nor has given her false hope. He has given enough and more signals of where he is heading. It just unfortunate that the other person is not as astute as he thinks she is and hence the whole thing is being dragged out.

As you said, he will not consider the marriage to Malini as valid because for him there is only one valid marriage and the divorce, if needed, would only be a formality. Also, he would have been more considerate of Malini and made sure that she got the closure she needs but Malini ne to apne hi per pe khuladi maari....aur maar rahi hain 😆

Originally posted by: happy007

I suddenly remembered Malini got her "date" she so desperately wanted from Aditya 😆 & jo shock lagne wala hai didi ko, phir kabhi date ka naam nahi legi🤣

🤣🤣🤣.....is date ki DATE ab humesha yaad rahegi Didi ko....this was the DATE she found out ki woh wife hi nahin hai🤣

Oh god, now I'm remembering all that hilarious delusion crap she was rambling on about date pe "aakhon aakhon mein ishaare honge"🤣.....well mil gaya na sabse bada ISHARA ekdum DIRECT, Didi ji😛....ab karo ENJOY the long awaited "Date with Adityaaaa"😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

So true and to add to it from that point on, he became focused on telling the truth to Malini (we all know how that is going). Previously it did not matter to him because for Imlie did not matter but his "niyaat" is there. He is not really stringing her around nor has given her false hope. He has given enough and more signals of where he is heading. It just unfortunate that the other person is not as astute as he thinks she is and hence the whole thing is being dragged out.

As you said, he will not consider the marriage to Malini as valid because for him there is only one valid marriage and the divorce, if needed, would only be a formality. Also, he would have been more considerate of Malini and made sure that she got the closure she needs but Malini ne to apne hi per pe khuladi maari....aur maar rahi hain 😆

I think this may have been mentioned by someone here before already too but it really is remarkable that the whole scenario flipped and now Malini in a sense is in the place Imlie was in at the beginning of the story😆.....where Adi told her she isn't his wife and Malini is the only wife he recognizes😆......yet there is a world of a difference in how the two women handled his belief system/declaration regarding the validity of the respective marriage.

Again, let's put aside the absurdity of the situation for a minute😆.....also, this really isn't about Adi "deciding" the fate of either woman via his acceptance or denial of the validity of a shaadi.....this is simply about how Adi conveyed his belief system to either woman and how the woman in question reacted.

Imlie also faced the hurt of her marriage being invalidated when it had happened with full rituals....but she never blamed him, never imposed herself on him, never asked for any rights and continued to try to build a path for herself in whatever circumstances she could. Even when Adi insulted her so many times, heck, even slandered her intentions one time during that SR scene, she never ever retorted with slander on HIM.

Contrast that with Malini who instantly resorted to slander against the man whom she has known for 7 years.....the title of a wife was one of full entitlement for her and she gloried in rubbing that in his face as a means to exact retribution....she has been Adi's wife roughly for a shorter period than Imlie has😆.....but her attitude on that wife label is like she has been married to Adi for 10 years😆.....and we can see going ahead that Adi revoking the validity of his marriage with Malini and recognizing Imlie as his only wife now is definitely not going to invoke the same level of regard and compassion from Malini that it did from Imlie.....she is going to do everything that Imlie never did....blame Adi, impose herself on him in twisted ways, torture him, exact revenge on him in any way she can.....lol

Imlie handled her marriage being invalidated with a lot of dignity....Malini didi will now show us what total indignity looks like when she is put in the same situation where Imlie once was😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

🤣🤣🤣.....is date ki DATE ab humesha yaad rahegi Didi ko....this was the DATE she found out ki woh wife hi nahin hai🤣

Oh god, now I'm remembering all that hilarious delusion crap she was rambling on about date pe "aakhon aakhon mein ishaare honge"🤣.....well mil gaya na sabse bada ISHARA ekdum DIRECT, Didi ji😛....ab karo ENJOY the long awaited "Date with Adityaaaa"😆

Sabse bada question who will get the orange sari as daan now 🤣 rofl didi ki teal sari bhi didi se lucky hai got a better date and hug from adi while imlie was In it 🤣🤣 hahahababha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly, Pam😆

It sounds bizarre when you write it out but this is absolutely how his mind has worked it out....and there is no pretense in him about it....he actually did adhere to this in real time based on the way he processed his truth at the time....he was loyal to the person he believed himself married to at any given moment. When he thought that person was Malini, he did focus on his loyalty towards her (even if it was another matter that subconsciously his emotions and concern did always circle back to Imlie)....but consciously his focus was Malini na.....so in his mind he doesn't see himself as having strung two people along at any point😆

And the reason he is able to believe this is exactly as you said...he's never believed in the rituals of marriage that strongly....they were indeed a formality for him for the longest time....remember, we discussed that this is precisely why he was able to go through with the marriage with Malini too.....cuz he treated it as going through the formality of rituals rather than feeling the weight/meaning of those rituals.

It was only once he realized his love for Imlie that he started to assign meaning/value to all the rituals associated with marriage because he discovered faith in them via Imlie....her faith became his faith....and rishta VISHWAAS pe chalta hai, LOGIC pe nahin😛😆.....

This is why from the moment he realized his love for Imlie, the whole picture cleared up for him that the rituals of marriage with Imlie were the ones that had meaning and if they had meaning, then they are the ONLY ones that are valid anymore.....any other ritual of marriage that came after that is invalid in his eyes now😆

Okay, what you wrote sounds so damn perfect to me....the importance of rituals for Aditya and why he said that Malini is not his wife, even though he went through all the rituals with her. For Aditya, it was never about the rituals, it was the connection. I remember in the first episode, Aditya told Malini that he preferred court marriage but Chaturvedis wanted dhoom dhaam ka wedding. Even though for him rituals were not important, in the 2nd PD trip he did not want to do the rituals with Imlie as he did not consider her his wife then, and in the third PD trip, he did the rituals with Imlie because he started considering her his wife. Aditya, as the character, has gone through the most emotional upheaval in this show. Being married forcefully, not accepting it, getting married again as per his wish, but falling in love with the first wife, accepting her as his wife wholeheartedly to finally denying the second marriage that at one point of time, he did it with his own wish. What an interesting journey it has been for him. Even though we have seen his emotional journey from episode 1, sometimes I wished writers threw in more contemplation scenes from Aditya or deeper conversations about his feelings with Imlie or Rupi di.