The Truth is now in motion at last - Page 14

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The question of the divorce is moot to me in many ways....lol it had to happen either way.....just that it becomes extra hilarious now with Adi's stance being ki Malini waise hi meri wife hai hi nahin....but if she wants to formally end all this, then I have no problem giving her a divorce to get the paperwork out of the way

Adi's way of processing the truth and not hesitating to step up to the absolution of truth as he learns it in the moment really sets his character apart.

It might sound bizarre on a surface level to hear him say that Malini is not his wife 😆....especially for those who saw the first 100 epis of "Moon humaari patni hain, humne unhein chuna hai"😆....but again, that is just half the picture, right? When he said all that, he was still in denial about the facts and truth that he had suppressed for so long regarding his marriage to Imlie.....suppression doesn't make the truth go away. Now that Adi has realized that, he is stepping up to speak the full truth....no matter how uncomfortable or how inconvenient😆.

Malini is within her rights to deride him for pulling her into this mess when he had already married someone else....instead her full focus is on deriding him for imaginary accusations and going off tangent into cheap slander😕.....instead of feeling put off from the man who is telling her she is ultimately not even his valid wife😆, she is more set on revenge and slander.....and not even a little introspection about why a 7 year relationship didn't even have this much basis that he could come and share such a monumental thing that happened with him in PD with the forced marriage.

This is how Adi manages to wiggle out of the truly uncomfortable questions😆....cuz the person he is talking to is busy diverting everything into imaginary accusations instead😆....and this sort of answers why this so called "7 year relationship" lasted this long too....koi bolta kuch hai, saamne wala sunta kuch aur hai😆.

Gosh, I am laughing reading this but so much word on it...... This is so Aditya who till date has not accepted that he has committed bigamy because for him, he has always been loyal to one person and hence has always had one wife... which sound bizarre even while I am writing this but this is so true. This is the guy who does not believe in rituals so for him the truth is what he believes in his heart. the rituals were a formality. In retrospect, the whole PD thing becomes so much more prominent when he went above and beyond to fulfill the rituals just because Imlie believed in them.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Gosh, I am laughing reading this but so much word on it...... This is so Aditya who till date has not accepted that he has committed bigamy because for him, he has always been loyal to one person and hence has always had one wife... which sound bizarre even while I am writing this but this is so true. This is the guy who does not believe in rituals so for him the truth is what he believes in his heart. the rituals were a formality. In retrospect, the whole PD thing becomes so much more prominent when he went above and beyond to fulfill the rituals just because Imlie believed in them.

Bingo, you just voiced what I have been thinking since yesterday. And if the scene plays out just the way it did yesterday...he said the supreme truth from his heart first- that he loves Imlie!

Originally posted by: _Seera_

I had a very busy morning so when came here and took a long time to finish reading the thread..

@ Bold 1 - That came out of no where.. Dont get me wrong he in his mind always believd he only married once.. 100 episode se pehele it was moon and now its Imlie. But to put it in clear words for Malini was fantastic. The calmness with which he tells her that is also worth mentioning. He doesnt blink, doesnt cover down.. he just tells the truth as it is.. elevating his character to next level.

Bold 2 - She tried to slander both Aditya and Imlie. Calling imlie one of many was a deliberate attempt to raise her own status in his life. and by questioning Aditya's integrity she actually questioned her own love, their relationship andd even her own judgement. How did she not find out this side of him in 7 years. Aditya had a lot to answer.. but she never asked him why wouldnt he involve family or why he didnt annuled his marriage to Imlie.. there are lot of whys but she choose only route AC has taught her.. demean people so u can be lifted up. When she said 2 paise ka cheap affair.. i was like.. dont use ur pea brain to understad ur situation.. u were wrong.. u r wrong and looking at u there are no chance u can ever be right in future either.

Bold 3 - I think i would go a step further and say.. they never talked.. shoes kharidne se fursat hi nahi milti hogi.. so baat kya karani hai?

So much word to the bold👏👏....You summed it all up. She not only slandered Adi-Imlie, she slandered her own 7 year history with Adi and her judgement/comprehension abilities that she was supposedly with a guy who she thinks was having multiple affairs for many years😕😆.....sach mein yeh dimaag bhi kyun lagaati hai.....waste of space on all fronts.

And yes, definitely doesn't look like they know how to talk about anything other than shopping for shoes and clothes.....woh bhi apparently Malini ne bulva bulva ke hi khareedvaaye Adi se....cuz she did say once that he never gifted something to her out of his own choice😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

the other thing was again as someone mentioned before though they didn't explicitly told each other that they love each other i mean we know they do but they know like adi a straight and she loves me too and then imlie in her Dukhda dil toots mode going humse pyar ka vaada kyon karat rofl i was like girl you never let him finish it but ok hahah the tubelight on her head really shook her rofl 😆

The words have always been a formality between them, man😆......jin logon ne death ko itni closely experience kar liya ho together SO many times, unke liye yeh sab words ki formality aur bhi token ho jaati hai.....their souls are traveling together on a different plan that is unbound by the need to formally declare love.....it is an emotion that they have already internalized cuz their instincts are in sync.

Imlie did stop him from saying the actual words to her😆.....but she very well knew what he feels....lol isliye she is able to sit and complain ki mujhe kyun bola ki mujhse pyar karte ho.....haha when she says bola, she's talking about all the times he expressed it in his typical indirect ways.....with that simple gehraayi ya phir gusse waali fikar😆.....every pore of his being screams his love for her.....lol itni bhi Jhalli nahin that she can't see that even if he never officially managed to say it to her😆

Originally posted by: Anuannie

There needs to be a separate week long mushaira kind thing on "Hum imlie se pyaar karte hain aur Imlie bhi hum se pyaar karti hai"

& a month long moan wrath protest towards Multiple EMA mindset fellow,who has lost all relationship values ...who is ready to drag her best friend to court,has hurled worst accusations...this can be anything but friendship!For friendship demands sanctity!

Even if you part in a relation,respect ought to be maintained if you felt respect even for an iota of time while being together! This cannot be termed as a relation-A mere case of 7 years of acquaintance it has proved to be!!

Eventually it is about that more you deny a problem, the more it bleeds when it draws its claws out of your euphoric world!

WORD to this, Annie.....she doesn't comprehend relationships on any level. This is why I've been laughing over the claims of "best friends" for their relationship as well....this is not even token friendship, let alone best friendship or any love.....she doesn't now know how to maintain the sanctity and respect of any relationship. Her hurt over the truth does not justify her cheapening 7 years of knowing someone in this way. That shows then that the relationship never really had any love or respect to begin with if you find it so easy to tear down the one you claimed to love.

Adi for his part even after realizing he never really loved Malini, is still trying to give her the basic regard of humanity and friendship.....he even gave her empathy and understanding when she claimed she loved someone else.....that is what you do when you want to give respect to your history with someone....unlike what she is doing right now.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Re Aditya. Kya hai yeh aadmi? 🤣 Like koi laws hai hi nahin. Imlie ke saamne constitution karke jhaad diya earlier. Real nahin, khud ke kahin likhe do lines ho gayi yeh constitution 😆 I doubt he will have to use anything with the Chaturvedi women. They both will still want some other thing instead of Aditya’s skin for marrying a second time knowingly.

Laws? Woh kya hote hain? Laws are whatever Adi decides them to be in his interpretation of the Constitution😆.....waise bhi who has time for laws when THE TRUTH of your life manifests after having been in a haze for so long😆.

Adi's funda is like, yeh sab laws ka mujhe nahin pata.....I know what my truth is....if the law says I should be punished for it, toh kar lo punish....like I give a damn🤣.....this guy really is something else🤣

C women will always be on their own trip rather than questioning him for his actual mistakes....lol isliye he is able to divert the topic too.....cuz those women are busier on their egomaniacal power trips instead of actually wanting justice per law😆.

You are absolutely right,I believe it is about personal values.She has built a world of her own based on self interest which lacks respectfulness!No matter how much she has tried to seal the cracks she was bound to fail for a relation might survive without love but not without respect!

And this lack of respect has time & again re-surfaced in the form of family involvements,denials & hesitations!

Aditya is trying to help her even after Mr India stuff, shows his sincerity towards friendship which didi lacks!!

Originally posted by: pamk06

Gosh, I am laughing reading this but so much word on it...... This is so Aditya who till date has not accepted that he has committed bigamy because for him, he has always been loyal to one person and hence has always had one wife... which sound bizarre even while I am writing this but this is so true. This is the guy who does not believe in rituals so for him the truth is what he believes in his heart. the rituals were a formality. In retrospect, the whole PD thing becomes so much more prominent when he went above and beyond to fulfill the rituals just because Imlie believed in them.

Exactly, Pam😆

It sounds bizarre when you write it out but this is absolutely how his mind has worked it out....and there is no pretense in him about it....he actually did adhere to this in real time based on the way he processed his truth at the time....he was loyal to the person he believed himself married to at any given moment. When he thought that person was Malini, he did focus on his loyalty towards her (even if it was another matter that subconsciously his emotions and concern did always circle back to Imlie)....but consciously his focus was Malini na.....so in his mind he doesn't see himself as having strung two people along at any point😆

And the reason he is able to believe this is exactly as you said...he's never believed in the rituals of marriage that strongly....they were indeed a formality for him for the longest time....remember, we discussed that this is precisely why he was able to go through with the marriage with Malini too.....cuz he treated it as going through the formality of rituals rather than feeling the weight/meaning of those rituals.

It was only once he realized his love for Imlie that he started to assign meaning/value to all the rituals associated with marriage because he discovered faith in them via Imlie....her faith became his faith....and rishta VISHWAAS pe chalta hai, LOGIC pe nahin😛😆.....

This is why from the moment he realized his love for Imlie, the whole picture cleared up for him that the rituals of marriage with Imlie were the ones that had meaning and if they had meaning, then they are the ONLY ones that are valid anymore.....any other ritual of marriage that came after that is invalid in his eyes now😆

I will give my pov as to why Adi started the truth reveal by declaring his love for Imlie.

1) The love that he has experienced for Imlie & Imlie's love for him is the biggest truth of his life.

2) As per the lie told by Malini, she is also in love with someone else. So Adi might have thought to reveal his love for Imlie first because that Malini would understand better as she is also in love with someone else.

3) Though both Adi-Imlie have accepted their marriage & are husband & wife to each other but their marriage did happen at gunpoint & was forced. Adi is now firmly on the side of this marriage as he has fallen in love with Imlie. So he might not have wanted to give Malini a chance to doubt on the validity of his marriage to Imlie. Hence he began the truth reveal by disclosing that he loves Imlie first.

So in whatever circumstances their marriage might have occurred, no one should try to give him the same reasons regarding the validity of their marriage that he himself used to do earlier because ultimately he loves Imlie & he was married to her first.

4) Adi might have thought Malini might faint once again like last time when he had told her the truth of his marriage with Imlie so bluntly. Hence he tried to reveal the truth by telling her about his love for Imlie first😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The words have always been a formality between them, man😆......jin logon ne death ko itni closely experience kar liya ho together SO many times, unke liye yeh sab words ki formality aur bhi token ho jaati hai.....their souls are traveling together on a different plan that is unbound by the need to formally declare love.....it is an emotion that they have already internalized cuz their instincts are in sync.

Imlie did stop him from saying the actual words to her😆.....but she very well knew what he feels....lol isliye she is able to sit and complain ki mujhe kyun bola ki mujhse pyar karte ho.....haha when she says bola, she's talking about all the times he expressed it in his typical indirect ways.....with that simple gehraayi ya phir gusse waali fikar😆.....every pore of his being screams his love for her.....lol itni bhi Jhalli nahin that she can't see that even if he never officially managed to say it to her😆

😆 ofcourse I know it and I love this way so much matlab they know it so well that they don't need formality wala bhii. It just makes everything so so kuch better ek dum akag ke uske liye bahithe bahi hain.. their souls knows their hearts know☺️😳