What 'hak' is Imli talking about, DT Note Page 6

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly how can she claim that she "allowed" Malini to become the DIL


Imli needs to be reminded that she was forced to marry Adi and he hated the very sight of her. When he married Malini ....even at that time he abhorred her. If at that time Imli had claimed any right over Adi....he would have thrown her right out of the window. He could have annulled this marriage and sent her packing to PD....he was committed to Malini. So no she never had any right on Adi like she claims


Malini was Adi's choice and only by his choice she became the DIL of T house

And in the current situation just because she managed to get Adi to fall for her...it still doesn't mean she is permitting Malini to stay the DIL of the house. Malini is his lawfully wedded wife while Imli's marriage is illegal in every sense. Forget about legal, they dont even have the guts to tell the world the truth


So Imli thinks now if she claims to be the so called first wife..T house will just throw Malini out?


So Imli has finally shown her true colors

Now where is the 19 year old bechari? She is just outright manipulative and cunning

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Bolti ke pati mera hai toh shadi ho pati kya? Sau masle nahi khare hojate whether it was something someone wanted or not? Will AC would have let it happen? Ab bhi bol de toh saari hawa AC ki nikal nahi jayegi? Not that she’ll ever say it. But she has every right to give it back to AC who physically abused beti ke naam par. Nothing makes domestic abuse right.

I knew it, Malini breaking point reechne ke naam par torture kare classist ho toh sau guna maaf. Imlie ko actually physically mara jaaye woh jawaab de toh zaroor ghalat hoga maybe some things aren’t worth defending? Like abuse? Oh well.. to each their own.

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Bolti ke pati mera hai toh shadi ho pati kya? Sau masle nahi khare hojate whether it was something someone wanted or not? Will AC would have let it happen? Ab bhi bol de toh saari hawa AC ki nikal nahi jayegi? Not that she’ll ever say it. But she has every right to give it back to AC who physically abused beti ke naam par. Nothing makes domestic abuse right.

I knew it, Malini breaking point reechne ke naam par torture kare classist ho toh sau guna maaf. Imlie ko actually physically mara jaaye woh jawaab de toh zaroor ghalat hoga maybe some things aren’t worth defending? Like abuse? Oh well.. to each their own.


She can stop AC from abuse

But she cannot go around claiming she allowed Adi and Malini's marriage


2 different things altogether

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Originally posted by: gopi2929


She can stop AC from abuse

But she cannot go around claiming she allowed Adi and Malini's marriage


2 different things altogether

Did she not? Did adi not tell her to go ahead and tell everyone? At that moment if she had would that marriage have happened? And this was more about the now of the situation, AC needed to hear that for all the verbal abuse too, jis basis par abuse karegi ussi basis par jawaab milega na. When malini can call imlie naukrani baharwali in the heat of the moment to just get a reaction out of adi, why can’t imlie say some words (that aren’t wrong) to AC after reaching a bad breaking point following physical abuse? How else is she supposed to give it back to a woman who keeps on saying naukrani ne damad ko phasa lia, she’s his wife obviously yeh sun kar sar jhuka kar sunegi nahi

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Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Did she not? Did adi not tell her to go ahead and tell everyone? At that moment if she had would that marriage have happened? And this was more about the now of the situation, AC needed to hear that for all the verbal abuse too, jis basis par abuse karegi ussi basis par jawaab milega na. When malini can call imlie naukrani baharwali in the heat of the moment to just get a reaction out of adi, why can’t imlie say some words (that aren’t wrong) to AC after reaching a bad breaking point following physical abuse? How else is she supposed to give it back to a woman who keeps on saying naukrani ne damad ko phasa lia, she’s his wife obviously yeh sun kar sar jhuka kar sunegi nahi


She can give it back to AC but not by claiming she permitted Adi Malini wedding

They would have gotten married even if Imli had said anything...clearly because she knew her marriage is not legal and Adi was already committed to Malini...he made it very very clear to Imli that he loves Malini and was getting married to her. Anything Imli would have done or said back then would have made no difference to the outcome. Adi was not willing to accept his marriage to Imli....at any cost


Imli has all right to give it back to AC but not by making false claims. She wants to just show that she is the Mahaan person and the whole world should fall on her feet and worship her


Again manipulation at its peak

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: gopi2929

Exactly how can she claim that she "allowed" Malini to become the DIL

Imli needs to be reminded that she was forced to marry Adi and he hated the very sight of her. When he married Malini ....even at that time he abhorred her. If at that time Imli had claimed any right over Adi....he would have thrown her right out of the window. He could have annulled this marriage and sent her packing to PD....he was committed to Malini. So no she never had any right on Adi like she claims


Malini was Adi's choice and only by his choice she became the DIL of T house

And in the current situation just because she managed to get Adi to fall for her...it still doesn't mean she is permitting Malini to stay the DIL of the house. Malini is his lawfully wedded wife while Imli's marriage is illegal in every sense. Forget about legal, they dont even have the guts to tell the world the truth


So Imli thinks now if she claims to be the so called first wife..T house will just throw Malini out?


So Imli has finally shown her true colors

Now where is the 19 year old bechari? She is just outright manipulative and cunning

. @bold 1 - But he didn’t dear. He didnt. He could have annulled it even if she didn’t claim anything- but the story is that he didn’t. so at some level, he had accepted it.

@bold 2- Wow! Which episode was that where she ‘managed ‘ to get Adi to fall for her? Where have they shown her manipulating him into loving her? Do you mean the scene where she got shot defending him which is when he started to fall for her. That IS some manipulation that she ‘manages’ to get herself shot and almost loses her life but makes sure that he somehow finds a way to get back and save her on time.

Whatever the circumstances Adi and Imlie got married under, if he hasn’t fought it and she hasn’t fought it, they are still married to each other. Plenty of places in India where marriages are not registered because marriage by rites is considered enough. Sad as it is- forced marriages also happen a LOT in India- some at gun point and some are emotionally manipulated. This story revolves around what happens to a couple married like that- how they navigate this emotionally.

Now if a married man, married again, it is the second marriage that is now illegal. By no means is Malini’s marriage legal.

Yes Imlie does think that she is the first wife because now she has her husband’s support and more importantly now one of the Tripathi’s Rupi also knows how they were married and supports Imlie- not Malini. And even if Ts don’t throw Malini out, marriage between Adi and Malini has been over since the episode where he came back from Pagdandiya after realizing he loves Imlie.

Yes Imlie finally has shown the courage to show her true colors as Adi’s first wife . We are glad that she has been finally pushed to limit where strong as she is she won’t take anymore.

Of course in some minds- if a tall handsome guy falls for a poor girl from a village who doesn’t look a certain way or behave a certain way then of course SHE must be ‘manipulative’ and ‘cunning’. If she is poor and from the village and enters a house labeling herself as the household help, then even when the viewers KNOW that the only reason she is there is because she got married to the son of that house, still a certain group is more than willing to accept her label as household help or ‘naukrani’ because yeah- she LOOKS the role.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Did she not? Did adi not tell her to go ahead and tell everyone? At that moment if she had would that marriage have happened? And this was more about the now of the situation, AC needed to hear that for all the verbal abuse too, jis basis par abuse karegi ussi basis par jawaab milega na. When malini can call imlie naukrani baharwali in the heat of the moment to just get a reaction out of adi, why can’t imlie say some words (that aren’t wrong) to AC after reaching a bad breaking point following physical abuse? How else is she supposed to give it back to a woman who keeps on saying naukrani ne damad ko phasa lia, she’s his wife obviously yeh sun kar sar jhuka kar sunegi nahi


Why r u explaining my behen.. yeh nahi samajhne wale...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: gopi2929


She can give it back to AC but not by claiming she permitted Adi Malini wedding

They would have gotten married even if Imli had said anything...clearly because she knew her marriage is not legal and Adi was already committed to Malini...he made it very very clear to Imli that he loves Malini and was getting married to her. Anything Imli would have done or said back then would have made no difference to the outcome. Adi was not willing to accept his marriage to Imli....at any cost


Imli has all right to give it back to AC but not by making false claims. She wants to just show that she is the Mahaan person and the whole world should fall on her feet and worship her


Again manipulation at its peak


Firstly for Imlie here marriage hold validity..Even if it isn't legalized, but still formal annulment is required because it has been done keeping village and its rituals in mind, that court do consider them.

And yes, Imlie did permitted the marriage, else it won't have taken place like a hell..Forgot the Faintjng spell of Malini?

She wasn't making any false claims..That marriage happened because imlie forfeited her right



Though I didn't wish to reply on your post, since as per you it's Imlie who trapped Aditya... like Aditya us some toddler and this woman shaming in society strongly repulse me..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes she is his wife, and yes he didn't accept it, and made it very clear to her, so she let go, and give up and gave up her right over to DD


But things had changed, he accepted the relation ( better late than never ) and he is ready to tell Millani ( if she ever let him come clean ) and will accept any decision of her!


Still due to his first ignorance Imlie could not accept him back, and refuse to claim him, while he already gave her the haq on him!


So she can claim him as her husband no matter of what Millani, Cs, and Ts will do and think


If you called it her true color, we would be more than happy to watch this change of color on her GO FOR IT GIRL!


On the other hand don't you find Millani lie about her Mystery lover is wrong at all, and going ahead of it is even a bigger mistake?

How could this lie fix a marriage, and even if he told her the truth how would this lie help her anyway?! If you have doubts and lost interest already in a relation why lie? Just move on, if you want to know things ask direct question and let the thing go out of your system ASAP!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunnygrin1

. @bold 1 - But he didn’t dear. He didnt. He could have annulled it even if she didn’t claim anything- but the story is that he didn’t so at some level, he had accepted it.

@bold 2- Wow! Which episode was that where she ‘managed ‘ to get Adi to fall for her? Where have they shown her manipulating him into loving her? Do you mean the scene where she got shot defending him which is when he started to fall for her. That IS some manipulation that she ‘manages’ to get herself shot and almost loses her life but makes sure that he somehow finds a way to get back and save her on time.

Whatever the circumstances Adi and Imlie got married under, if he hasn’t fought it and she hasn’t fought it, they are still married to each other. Plenty of places in India where marriages are not registered because marriage by rites is considered enough. Sad as it is- forced marriages also happen a LOT in India- some at gun point and some are emotionally manipulated. This story is based on what happens to a couple married like that- how they navigate this emotionally.

Now if a married man, married again, it is the second marriage that is now illegal. By no means is Malini’s marriage legal.

Yes Imlie does think that she is the first wife because now she has her husband’s support and more importantly now one of the Tripathi’s Rupi also knows how they were married and supports Imlie- not Malini. And even if Ts don’t throw Malini out, marriage between Adi and Malini has been over since the episode where he came back from Pagdandiya after realizing he loves Imlie.

Yes Imlie finally has shown the courage to show her true colors as Adi’s first wife . We are glad that she has been finally pushed to limit where strong as she is she won’t take anymore.

Of course in some minds- if a tall handsome guy falls for a poor girl from a village who doesn’t look a certain way or behave a certain way then of course SHE must be ‘manipulative’ and ‘cunning’. If she is poor and from the village and enters a house labeling herself as the household help then even when the viewers know that the only reason she is there is because she got married to him, still a certain group is more than willing to accept her label as household help or ‘naukrani’ because yeah- she LOOKS the role.


Just because their marriage was not nullified it does not make it legal...crime is still a crime

More so, "now" Imli has his support...when Adi was marrying Malini she didnt.....so if she tried to stop that wedding she would have never been successful. Just because forced marriages happen, it doesn't necessarily mean it's legal.


Just because Imli "thinks" she is the 1st wife doesn't make her one....she didnt forfeit any thing...adi never gave her any rights to stop his wedding to Malini


Adi is a legal offender which ever way he is seen....And should spend time behind bars....he will totally deserve it


And no Imli is not manipulative because she is poor or looks a certain way...she is so by her actions. Always portraying herself as the sacrificing one...and oh taking the bullet .. what better way to show ur ultimate becharapana

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