Malini’s supporters - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Halo00-

Your tone is condescending but you are an Imlie fan. It's unnecessary though.

And with Adi/Imlie it is just the beginning of love, who knows he may have a 7-year itch again. They are main characters so they will end up together. With Malini, I don't think he was 100% comfortable given her mother and difference in status. With Imlie, he is more dominant, maybe he finds comfort in that now? She is younger, he is helping with her education etc. People can have different love languages in a relationship. Malini is probably more vocal while Adi believe in actions. It's up to them to understand and try to please their partner. Malini probably doesn't feel fulfilled so she keeps requesting it.

The point about Imlie returning is important because it renders her leaving moot. Why stay at their house when she could go hostel and focus on her education? Why put sindoor? She's not creating difference but these actions are not 100% without consequences. She can't try to express her love and call Malini her friend. I'm sure Malini would have tried to save Adi with her life if she could but alas script writers. That would also be seen as her blackmailing Adi into staying with her now that she saved his life.

I hope every Imlie supporter is as ardent of a true love supporter if they face this scenario in real life as they are in the serial. Because while I can accept Adi/Imlie's connections, I can't absolve them of faults because they are "in love". Love also means responsibilities. Maybe focus on existing ones before creating new ones.

I'm probably just miffed cause Malini gets bashed in this forum and Adi/Imlie's love is shamelessly celebrated when I believe all 3 are in the grey. I hope Adi/Imlie get together soon so Malini can rebuild her life but oh wait Imlie is her step-sister *facepalm* looks like none of the 3 can get a clean break.

Totally agree with you thoughts... I do like malini character too. But not 100% like-like for adini... that's just individual choice I guess.

And yeah m Totally imlie fan.. can't help it...her life struggle inspire me to get through difficult time in real life.....🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

I relate more to malini than imli, really feel bad for her!!

For imli, I wish they had shown her focusing on her education, being independent!

There was a girl in my sis med college... She was from village and very very poor background.. But very good with her studies and very sharp brain.. Her parents could not correlate with her passion for study and studying was wastage for them . They warned her to throw out of house if she continue with study...

But her brother who himself was of same economic stature took her education under his wing seeing her results.. He got seperated from his parents and stayed with wife and sis seperately. She did her exam She got selected in medical college with GOOD rank. My sis used to tell "we put so much effort but her friends she just turned the pages and things got in her brain.. Shealways topped in each exam even in medical college...

So in short story like Imlie is a reality and these girls inspire me much more than the weak fragile bechari modern character like Malini...who though being modern and smart is all just ready to only hear ILU from her husband.. By hook or by crook.. Have some self respect girl...

Malini's pain in anycase cannot be ignored.. She is a victim but the way she is handling it is not impressive at all..

I would have loved to see her handle the things in much mature way and her story would have been very interesting but by bringing high point so soon there is not much interesting left in her story FOR ME

There are many more thing I have in mind but I am lazy to type in mobile...

Originally posted by: sunshine333

But then what I fail to understand is when in cheating JUST cheating then? Every single cheater on this planet can always conveniently justify it by saying “oh i was never in love with you” ...“even when I proclaimed my love to you multiple times i was never serious, they were only empty words”...“we were never compatible” to excuse their own character flaw no?

I have much greater respect for people who if they have issues with their partner divorce them FIRST rather than when another “option” comes along and then it becomes convinient to do so. That is very cowardly and depicts serious untrustworthiness.

And for the person who you are leaving then it becomes much much harder for them to trust anyone going forward after being cheated on.

If you don’t like the person but only have the realization AFTER meeting someone else then you are not a standup human being in my books. Please think on this.

It is actually amazing ma'am how even while disagreeing with you i still agree with you.

I completely agree with everything you just said. Every cheater will conveniently defend himself with the same logic. And i also agree that cheaters are despicable excuse for a human being with soo much cowardice stuffed inside them.

But is aditya your traditional cheater? Has he tried to two time both imlie and malini at any given instance in the show? As soon as he realised his feelings for imlie he maintained a healthy emotional and physical distance from malini. Aditya in several instances wanted to speak out the truth about his and imlie's marriage to malini but malini as a character couldnt bear to listen to his truth.

What is happening with malini is completely wrong and unjust and she as a character deserves sympathy. But i still do not consider aditya and imlie's relationship an affair. If we for a second keep their marriage aside aditya and imlie have still not crossed any line. Neither emotionally nor physically. A hug or holding hand is not considered physical cheating. And neither aditya nor imlie have expressed their love to each other.

Malini as a character looks too entirely absorbed with her marriage to the point she was willing to ignore various red flags about the relationship even before the marriage. Couples break out and fall out of love all the time. Aditya and imlie till now have kept themselves in line by not actively betraying malini and have respected the marriage that still binds malini and him. I agree that they are already in a way deceiving her by not bringing the truth out in the open but i also believe that the situation is far too complicated to be put into clear boxes of black and white. All the three characters have done their fair share of mistakes and all three are victims one way or the other.

I too will happily join your bandwagon if further in the show the makers show inappropriate proximity between aditya and imlie without malini being in the loop about their marriage.

But at this point i believe aditya is not your traditional cheater flowing in the rivers of lust for every new shiny penny rather just an unfortunate victim of circumstances trying his best to remain afloat in the situation he has found himself in while also trying to cause least hurt to everyone involved.

But i believe the entire issue of adultery is subjective and what might be harmless flirting for one can be a serious issue for another so you are more than welcome to disagree

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

It is actually amazing ma'am how even while disagreeing with you i still agree with you.

I completely agree with everything you just said. Every cheater will conveniently defend himself with the same logic. And i also agree that cheaters are despicable excuse for a human being with soo much cowardice stuffed inside them.

But is aditya your traditional cheater? Has he tried to two time both imlie and malini at any given instance in the show? As soon as he realised his feelings for imlie he maintained a healthy emotional and physical distance from malini. Aditya in several instances wanted to speak out the truth about his and imlie's marriage to malini but malini as a character couldnt bear to listen to his truth.

What is happening with malini is completely wrong and unjust and she as a character deserves sympathy. But i still do not consider aditya and imlie's relationship an affair. If we for a second keep their marriage aside aditya and imlie have still not crossed any line. Neither emotionally nor physically. A hug or holding hand is not considered physical cheating. And neither aditya nor imlie have expressed their love to each other.

Malini as a character looks too entirely absorbed with her marriage to the point she was willing to ignore various red flags about the relationship even before the marriage. Couples break out and fall out of love all the time. Aditya and imlie till now have kept themselves in line by not actively betraying malini and have respected the marriage that still binds malini and him. I agree that they are already in a way deceiving her by not bringing the truth out in the open but i also believe that the situation is far too complicated to be put into clear boxes of black and white. All the three characters have done their fair share of mistakes and all three are victims one way or the other.

I too will happily join your bandwagon if further in the show the makers show inappropriate proximity between aditya and imlie without malini being in the loop about their marriage.

But at this point i believe aditya is not your traditional cheater flowing in the rivers of lust for every new shiny penny rather just an unfortunate victim of circumstances trying his best to remain afloat in the situation he has found himself in while also trying to cause least hurt to everyone involved.

But i believe the entire issue of adultery is subjective and what might be harmless flirting for one can be a serious issue for another so you are more than welcome to disagree

All valid points...

I know this topic is posted for Malini’s supporters....I do feel for Malini too but I can’t agree with the reasoning Malini supporters are giving and labelling adilie as cheating.

still the logic highlighted by Malini supporters is correct to some extent, however, love has different meaning for different people. As far as I have analysed and understood adilie and adini relationship, all 3 have different perspectives when it comes to love.

for Malini as character love means expecting from your partner to show that he loves you by showing gestures like dinner dates, saying ILU often, calling and tell you miss her, showing jealousy etc.

For Adi it’s more like supporting and protecting your partner through your actions like he does for imlie. Even in an epi few days back he described to his mom that why he thinks Malini is good match for him to marry. The reasons he gave are not anything related to love...it was just comfortability.

for imlie, as of now we have seen her faith in marriage only....her love angle is not shown properly as of now.

I agree that 7 yrs is a long time to realise that you love that person whom are you are going to marry or not but that’s just life....it happens....people make mistakes.

I seriously feel bad for Malini as character, and yes if she would have confronted Adi at every red flag then maybe that 7 yrs relationship would not have sustained even before marriage...who knows?

All 3 characters have done some mistakes over here, but whenever it comes to choose between adlilie and adini, I feel more connect with adilie in my pov. ✌️

Lastly, Mayuri deshmukh has very well portrayed Malini character. Kudos to that👏👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: sunshine333

But was it a loveless marriage though, or did it conveniently become loveless post Imlie. In a way reminds me of Jagya and Ananda, how they were in love until the entry of Gauri.

“Loveless” I would have agreed if it was shown organically and not just as a convinience to excuse the conduct of aditya and imlie. If Aditya had not married Malini in the first place and not told her “I love you Moon” SO SO many times, and then just started shirking her after Imlie.

I could have not explained it better than you.
thankyouuu so much.
This is what I actually wanted to convey.

Originally posted by: ImlieFan

All valid points...

I know this topic is posted for Malini’s supporters....I do feel for Malini too but I can’t agree with the reasoning Malini supporters are giving and labelling adilie as cheating.

still the logic highlighted by Malini supporters is correct to some extent, however, love has different meaning for different people. As far as I have analysed and understood adilie and adini relationship, all 3 have different perspectives when it comes to love.

for Malini as character love means expecting from your partner to show that he loves you by showing gestures like dinner dates, saying ILU often, calling and tell you miss her, showing jealousy etc.

For Adi it’s more like supporting and protecting your partner through your actions like he does for imlie. Even in an epi few days back he described to his mom that why he thinks Malini is good match for him to marry. The reasons he gave are not anything related to love...it was just comfortability.

for imlie, as of now we have seen her faith in marriage only....her love angle is not shown properly as of now.

I agree that 7 yrs is a long time to realise that you love that person whom are you are going to marry or not but that’s just life....it happens....people make mistakes.

I seriously feel bad for Malini as character, and yes if she would have confronted Adi at every red flag then maybe that 7 yrs relationship would not have sustained even before marriage...who knows?

All 3 characters have done some mistakes over here, but whenever it comes to choose between adlilie and adini, I feel more connect with adilie in my pov. ✌️

Lastly, Mayuri deshmukh has very well portrayed Malini character. Kudos to that👏👏👏👏👏

I just want to highlight one phrase of yours for Malini as character love doesnt mean only expecting from your partner by showing gestures, if it was so she would have not lied about her false boyfriend, she too doesn’t wants to be in a loveless relationship, She chosed Aditya because she loved him and if you have seen the previous Episodes she knows how he is not good in romance but has accepted him and loved him the way he is. But as a wife if anyone is unaware that her husband is cheating on or have married a girl before, she will get curious and not okay with his closeness towards Imlie.

I get super confused with Imlie’s character as well. I don’t know why the director is portraying her character like this, she was much more into finding her life goals. She is acting more like “bechari” now, and on the other hand If you see it’s Malini who is fighting.
mall three of them are fighting the battle individually.

Also for all the previous quotes and replies for everyone

Yes being a Mayuri fan we are supoorting her character but not just because we are mayurians also because here character is quite realistic unlike Imlie.

Originally posted by: curious1

I agree that Malini does not deserve This and Aditya does not deserve Malini. She truly loved him and he has no respect for that.
This forum is very biased towards imlie and Aditya so no point raising much here. Find other forums to ra share your opinions.

I felt that too..

but I think we have all the rights to share our views wherever we wish to, as you can see I have mentioned the topic as Malinis supporters and I’m glad to see many of us speaking in her favour.

Keep posting your views and keep sharing

Originally posted by: curious1

I agree that Malini does not deserve This and Aditya does not deserve Malini. She truly loved him and he has no respect for that.
This forum is very biased towards imlie and Aditya so no point raising much here. Find other forums to ra share your opinions.

I felt that too..

but I think we have all the rights to share our views wherever we wish to, as you can see I have mentioned the topic as Malinis supporters and I’m glad to see many of us speaking in her favour.

Keep posting your views and keep supporting

Originally posted by: appy_19

I felt that too..

but I think we have all the rights to share our views wherever we wish to, as you can see I have mentioned the topic as Malinis supporters and I’m glad to see many of us speaking in her favour.

Keep posting your views and keep sharing

Malini anyday over imlie...if the story changes and both adilie are shown to have some spine instead of acting like becharas all the time then maybe we can think otherwise.