Malini’s supporters - Page 2

I too find Malini good and relatable. But I don’t want Malini with Aditya anymore. He doesn’t deserve her. She is better off without him. For me once the trust is broken the relationship can never be the same.

Originally posted by: appy_19

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I won’t be able to read all of them but, for the question why and where I see connect in Adini … I would like to say I’m more inclined towards Mayuri Deshmukh. And I love her character, therefore, I can feel and see tha connect as well.

Exactly that's the point finally someone spoke the truth, Adini supporters are almost mayuri deshmukh fans, I have noticed that Every gashmeer's fans support adilie coz they've seen the episode from the beginning, They know that adi and imlie are destined to be together, they're connected by heart even before they met.

And talking about does 7 years of relationship can break easily ? So the answer is yes. I've seen many people got separated after 10 years of relationship, We can't fight with destiny if he's not meant for you than you can't get him

So you tell me is it okay to stay 70 years in a loveless marriage for the sake of 7 years relationship ?

I agree that Malini does not deserve This and Aditya does not deserve Malini. She truly loved him and he has no respect for that.
This forum is very biased towards imlie and Aditya so no point raising much here. Find other forums to ra share your opinions.

Originally posted by: AkriTiSha

Exactly that's the point finally someone spoke the truth, Adini supporters are almost mayuri deshmukh fans, I have noticed that Every gashmeer's fans support adilie coz they've seen the episode from the beginning, They know that adi and imlie are destined to be together, they're connected by heart even before they met.

And talking about does 7 years of relationship can break easily ? So the answer is yes. I've seen many people got separated after 10 years of relationship, We can't fight with destiny if he's not meant for you than you can't get him

So you tell me is it okay to stay 70 years in a loveless marriage for the sake of 7 years relationship ?

But was it a loveless marriage though, or did it conveniently become loveless post Imlie. In a way reminds me of Jagya and Ananda, how they were in love until the entry of Gauri.

“Loveless” I would have agreed if it was shown organically and not just as a convinience to excuse the conduct of aditya and imlie. If Aditya had not married Malini in the first place and not told her “I love you Moon” SO SO many times, and then just started shirking her after Imlie.

Originally posted by: curious1

I agree that Malini does not deserve This and Aditya does not deserve Malini. She truly loved him and he has no respect for that.
This forum is very biased towards imlie and Aditya so no point raising much here. Find other forums to ra share your opinions.

I thought so too. But there are actually many silent Malini supporters here but they don’t seem to post or participate often thats why it seems biased. On my pro-Malini post there were actually around 50 likes, which shows a lot of support is there. Malini supporters are just not as loud here as Imlie supporters and much more laid back.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

But was it a loveless marriage though, or did it conveniently become loveless post Imlie. In a way reminds me of Jagya and Ananda, how they were in love until the entry of Gauri.

“Loveless” I would have agreed if it was shown organically and not just as a convinience to excuse the conduct of aditya and imlie. If Aditya had not married Malini in the first place and not told her “I love you Moon” SO SO many times, and then just started shirking her after Imlie.

With all due respect ma'am, you seem to be mistaking a relationship of comfort with a relationship woven with the delicate threads of love much like how our babusahib did for 7 yrs.

We as audience have seen multiple adini scenes pre and post imlie that point towards the relationship being that of convenience atleast on aditya's end. It must be noted here how in various scenes malini herself explains how much she has compromised with aditya since the beginning. This sacrifice came from the need to hold up her picture perfect image of a marriage. Aditya on his end felt entirely comfortable since he could manage pretty well with "moon" without having to put in much efforts into the relationship.

Adi mistook being comfortable enough in a relationship for love. The point difference between being in love and being comfotable enough to think of spending life with someone, only dawned upon aditya after his realisation of love for imlie.

It may seem infuriating to quite a lot of people that adi took 7 yrs to realise that he never loved malini but in my opinion no time is too late to make an amend.

As for the excessive PDA and verbal love assurances i am of the opinion that a lie spoken a thousand times doesnt become the truth.

And if we talk about Jagya and Anandi here, it is of utmost importance to be noted that it was his own realisation after shifting to a huge city that Anandi was a typical "gaanv ki gawar" and he can do better. We may argue that his assessment was false and superficial at best but as the saying goes "grass is always greener on the other side". It again hardly had anything to do with Gauri. She acted as a catalyst for the falling out undoubtedly but in my opinion Jagdish still would have found someone else to cheat on Anandi with, if Gauri was absent from the scene.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

With all due respect ma'am, you seem to be mistaking a relationship of comfort with a relationship woven with the delicate threads of love much like how our babusahib did for 7 yrs.

We as audience have seen multiple adini scenes pre and post imlie that point towards the relationship being that of convenience atleast on aditya's end. It must be noted here how in various scenes malini herself explains how much she has compromised with aditya since the beginning. This sacrifice came from the need to hold up her picture perfect image of a marriage. Aditya on his end felt entirely comfortable since he could manage pretty well with "moon" without having to put in much efforts into the relationship.

Adi mistook being comfortable enough in a relationship for love. The point difference between being in love and being comfotable enough to think of spending life with someone, only dawned upon aditya after his realisation of love for imlie.

It may seem infuriating to quite a lot of people that adi took 7 yrs to realise that he never loved malini but in my opinion no time is too late to make an amend.

As for the excessive PDA and verbal love assurances i am of the opinion that a lie spoken a thousand times doesnt become the truth.

And if we talk about Jagya and Anandi here, it is of utmost importance to be noted that it was his own realisation after shifting to a huge city that Anandi was a typical "gaanv ki gawar" and he can do better. We may argue that his assessment was false and superficial at best but as the saying goes "grass is always greener on the other side". It again hardly had anything to do with Gauri. She acted as a catalyst for the falling out undoubtedly but in my opinion Jagdish still would have found someone else to cheat on Anandi with, if Gauri was absent from the scene.

But then what I fail to understand is when in cheating JUST cheating then? Every single cheater on this planet can always conveniently justify it by saying “oh i was never in love with you” ...“even when I proclaimed my love to you multiple times i was never serious, they were only empty words”...“we were never compatible” to excuse their own character flaw no?

I have much greater respect for people who if they have issues with their partner divorce them FIRST rather than when another “option” comes along and then it becomes convinient to do so. That is very cowardly and depicts serious untrustworthiness.

And for the person who you are leaving then it becomes much much harder for them to trust anyone going forward after being cheated on.

If you don’t like the person but only have the realization AFTER meeting someone else then you are not a standup human being in my books. Please think on this.

Originally posted by: ImlieFan

Are you serious?????

You havnt analyzed characters feelings, actions and their thought process???

I agree that malini doesn't deserve this from her husband but her insecurities were there even before their marriage, even before imlie, her panic attacks and unability to face the truth makes her character very weak.

You are just seeing whole scenario from surface only.

If you see the characters deep down you will realize that it's not all about facts...who married first etc. It's all about their feelings and connect.

When and where you find any connect in adini?

You don't need to say "I love you " everytime to show that you love someone but malini wanted to hear it so often just to be sure and out of her insecurities...

Have you seen that one time when imlie tried to stop adini jhagda by reciting a poem by saying it's from malini (I know you will say imlie is again interfacing between adi and malini but she was trying to help as any other family member...I don't care if it's not your pov) ...adi was like all praise, that time he said he truly loved malini bcz of these qualities such as sharing feelings via such a beautiful poem ..without even saying I love you not even once in the poem.

Sometimes to fall in love with a person few moments are sufficient like adilie on the other hand sometimes even a 7 year long relationship is still not sufficient like adini.

Now it's all depend on your thinking that what you consider love... just saying to yourself and your partner that you love her/him, or to show that you love her/him by your actions ( I am not referring token pda that adi was showing to malini)

If you will see Imlie's character just from the surface, tab yahi lagega ke she is coming between adi and malini but havnt you noticed when adi strongly told her to move on (just bcz he wasn't unable to figure out what exactly his relationship is with imlie...marriage ko usne kabhi accept nhi kiya....malini ko aur apne aap ko daily reassure krna pdta ke vo sirf malini ka hai blah blah), she simply left his house....now as per your pov if Imlie really wanted to interfere adini relationship then why would she left Ts house? Now don't say vo Vapas bhi to aa gyi pls....🙏🙏🙏🙏

It's all adi's fault...yes agreed....but Noone is perfect..

Good thing is thst he is realizing his mistake...and vo khte hain na it's never too late for redemption.

And seriously the best thing for malini is to come out of this loveless marriage asap for herself.

At end I would say, pls rewatch first 100 episodes to rethink your pov....even then you don't get satisfaction about adilie connect then m sorry Noone can help.

Your tone is condescending but you are an Imlie fan. It's unnecessary though.

And with Adi/Imlie it is just the beginning of love, who knows he may have a 7-year itch again. They are main characters so they will end up together. With Malini, I don't think he was 100% comfortable given her mother and difference in status. With Imlie, he is more dominant, maybe he finds comfort in that now? She is younger, he is helping with her education etc. People can have different love languages in a relationship. Malini is probably more vocal while Adi believe in actions. It's up to them to understand and try to please their partner. Malini probably doesn't feel fulfilled so she keeps requesting it.

The point about Imlie returning is important because it renders her leaving moot. Why stay at their house when she could go hostel and focus on her education? Why put sindoor? She's not creating difference but these actions are not 100% without consequences. She can't try to express her love and call Malini her friend. I'm sure Malini would have tried to save Adi with her life if she could but alas script writers. That would also be seen as her blackmailing Adi into staying with her now that she saved his life.

I hope every Imlie supporter is as ardent of a true love supporter if they face this scenario in real life as they are in the serial. Because while I can accept Adi/Imlie's connections, I can't absolve them of faults because they are "in love". Love also means responsibilities. Maybe focus on existing ones before creating new ones.

I'm probably just miffed cause Malini gets bashed in this forum and Adi/Imlie's love is shamelessly celebrated when I believe all 3 are in the grey. I hope Adi/Imlie get together soon so Malini can rebuild her life but oh wait Imlie is her step-sister *facepalm* looks like none of the 3 can get a clean break.

awweeee poor baby Aditya lets give him a pacifier who does not understand love after 7 years. bunch of crap.