Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 7

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Re Ts - OMG! Finally I seem to have found a kindred soul regarding the Tripathis 😆 I love them. They are great but they have absolutely no idea about their son’s state of mind. And it is so absolutely sad to watch.

They are just simple-minded people and Adi is complicated, to say the least.😆 I found it funny how they insisted on him apologising to Malini in public, like they don't know that'll likely bruise his ego a little?😆 Malini at least knows him that much.🤣

They are always handing out simple se solutions to marital problems, ke biwi ke saamne murga ban jao, honeymoon pe le jaao and all will be sorted.😆 That might work for simple people, but Adi is not one of them. His dad has always given good advice to Adi before but in this matter he's a disappointment. *Sigh* It's obvious why they have been kept obtuse, but it still niggles that Adi is such a low priority in his own family. One more thing I forgot to mention was Imlie's comment yesterday to Prakash asking why she can't be Adi's love/pasand? Methinks this will likely be reiterated with the Ts' too who will likely overlook Adi-Imlie's closeness assuming that Adi can never like Imlie for the reasons cited. Like her age...background differences, yada yada. They also saw him yelling at her, scolding her and berating her too much and are the type of people to conclude that means he doesn't like her.😆 When we know that he was doing that out of fear that she will trespass into his heart.😆

Originally posted by: Krantikari

They are just simple-minded people and Adi is complicated, to say the least.😆 I found it funny how they insisted on him apologising to Malini in public, like they don't know that'll likely bruise his ego a little?😆 Malini at least knows him that much.🤣

They are always handing out simple se solutions to marital problems, ke biwi ke saamne murga ban jao, honeymoon pe le jaao and all will be sorted.😆 That might work for simple people, but Adi is not one of them. His had has always given good advice to Adi before but in this matter he's a disappointment. *Sigh* It's obvious why they have been kept obtuse, but it still niggles that Adi is such a low priority in his own family. One more thing I forgot to mention was Imlie's comment yesterday to Prakash asking why she can't be Adi's love/pasand? Methinks this will likely be reiterated with the Ts' too who will likely overlook Adi-Imlie's closeness assuming that Adi can never like Imlie for the reasons cited. Like her age...background differences, yada yada. They also saw him yelling at her, scolding her and berating her too much and are the type of people to conclude that means he doesn't like her.😆 When we know that he was doing that out of fear that she will trespass into his heart.😆

@bold - so much this 😆 It was probably a while ago that I had mentioned about their equation. There is an episode in which BKaki tells Aparna that even when Nishant was at fault, she would always lay the blame at Aditya’s door. That probably pushed the younger Aditya to just do things that were perceived to be right instead of what he really wanted to do - because who would really care right. And that probably led to the suppression that Imlie has now given an avenue of release for. Once he got complicated, the Ts stood no chance.

Re murga - why do i think Malini did it because she wanted to be able to say, hey see I’m still great after he lied and ran away for 4 days. But that’s me 😆

Re overlooking - Totally believe that could be the case. All of them except for Rupali I think however. She has been the only one who has had a broken relationship so if someone starts suspecting in that clan it might be her no

Originally posted by: pamk06

I doubt it will be easy for them. They have always consider Malini as the bahu and they have seen her getting married to him, like they brought her home with all band Baja and riti riwaaj so for them she is rightful one. To suddenly let go of that reality and accept a new reality would not be easy especially because of the 7 year relationship that Aditya and Malini share. They will definitely think that Aditya has lost his marbles and would try to talk him out of it. Imlie’s age would be another factor that will be difficult for them to digest. The more he delays, the less sympathy he will get plus now his feelings for Imlie will also go against him because unlike before he now wants to spend his life with Imlie rather than Malini. The T’s would not understand this and They will fully blame Aditya.

In February 17, 2021 episode where Imlie was mimicked Adi and she split out that Adi told her not to enter into his bedroom, after that everyone asking him for an explanation, and he said He hate her, village people sent her with him forcefully. Right after that Adi's dad said, Jab Gav walo ke samne teri nahi chali to iss bechari ki kaise chalti? This line has stuck in my mind.

Tripathis has shown as loving caring family. When adi will tell them that villagers got them married forcefully, will tripathis understand circumstance?

Just like Adi - introspected - how he never did love Malini - because he only now has experienced it with Imlie...I hope makers also give us a scene where he realizes that every time he was guilted out on account of Imli - by Malini - how he resorted to PDA during the poem episode, moti roti episode, holi episode.....

Also to close the loop - how everytime Malini feels insecure of Imlie - she says and does the most inane things like wardrobe mess during cursive writing scene, gas on during haldi milk scene.

Both of these defense mechanisms have been subtly highlighted thus far ... which is the charm of this show - but may be nice for Adi and Malini to see the subconscious reactions they have been experiencing and understand fully - that what is happening now was set in motion for a while now and has organically reached the final love realization.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Re Ts - OMG! Finally I seem to have found a kindred soul regarding the Tripathis 😆 I love them. They are great but they have absolutely no idea about their son’s state of mind. And it is so absolutely sad to watch.

I am so with you in this. One can sense a mood of a person even if they know him for a short time but here it just weird that they just don’t see it or don’t want to see it. Also After all their tall claims they made to AC and malini, no one even asked him where he was or what he was doing? There were no questions asked, no justification demanded. Bas bahu is home and they are all happy, not at all bothered about where Aditya was, what he was doing, how he has been doing or why he is looking so desolate. The most shocking was his mother. She gave him this big lecture and now that he is got Malini home, she did not given him his due nor enquirer about his missing 4 days. They all just walked away leaving him alone in his loneliness that no one is bothering to sense nor enquire.

Imlie for you 🤗

I think all my posts for Imlie will start with a 🤗until she is back with her BS because the separation from him is so painful & de-motivating for her. The poor kid is just crying missing her BS😭

I am glad that the writers are showing that the separation from Adi is equally hard for Imlie. Most of the times in ITV when the FL has to separate from the ML due to some reason for his own good, they try to portray her to be very stoic & putting a front of indifference before the ML. But Imlie is turning out to be a very special character due to all this small differences which sets her apart.

Imlie is unable to help herself & calls Adi once again. She just wants to talk with him. The way she was eager when he picked up her call & how her enthusiasm dimmed as the call went on was painful to watch. Hearing her BS's curt Hmms & ha she realised that he must not be alone to talk, but still the doubt creeps in that maybe he just is not missing her & doesn't want to talk to her😭 Finally after not hearing any reply to her "hum rakhein kya?" ,she dejectedly cuts the call & is tearing up.

She tries to be remind herself that this is what will happen now that she herself sent Adi back to be with Malini but is still not able to handle the heart break💔 She tries to console herself & informs her Amma of going back to Delhi soon after her exams & results & her Amma in turn being happy & her sasural walas being happy that Imlie would return soon to them. Hearing this Imlie once again gets dejected as she is now feeling that now even Adi may not be missing her so how can she expect it from his family. Hardening her resolve to stay in hostel after returning to Delhi.

Still she has not lost hope & was sleeping with the phone nearby in hope of receiving Adi's call. Poor baccha. Tough times are ahead still as she now has to deal with Prakash knowing about her true situation in Delhi. She will definitely face him with all her fire but then will have to continue to listen to his well-intentioned advice henceforth. All the best👍🏼

Both Adi & Imlie are burning in the intensity of their feelings for each other & will only get relief once they are back with each other. Come back soon to your BS Imeliya🤗

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - so much this 😆 It was probably a while ago that I had mentioned about their equation. There is an episode in which BKaki tells Aparna that even when Nishant was at fault, she would always lay the blame at Aditya’s door. That probably pushed the younger Aditya to just do things that were perceived to be right instead of what he really wanted to do - because who would really care right. And that probably led to the suppression that Imlie has now given an avenue of release for. Once he got complicated, the Ts stood no chance.

Re murga - why do i think Malini did it because she wanted to be able to say, hey see I’m still great after he lied and ran away for 4 days. But that’s me 😆

Re overlooking - Totally believe that could be the case. All of them except for Rupali I think however. She has been the only one who has had a broken relationship so if someone starts suspecting in that clan it might be her no

Re his family: Interesting! I actually have no memory of this.Do you remember which episode it was, i might go back and check it out. It makes sense though that that would lead to Adi suppressing himself and developing a self-righteous complex of always doing the right thing...not being able to express his true self. He’s so lucky Imlie came into his life, otherwise he would have been never been able to understand what living means.

Re Malini: I think you may be right.😆

Re Rupali: Hmm, may be! Let’s see. Right now Ts’ are all obtuse. I’m more interested in Malini Didi’s reaction now tbh cuz her antennas are up haha.

Malini

My irritation with her character keeps on increasing day by day. How much nautanki does she do to get validation? It is not even intentional but a force of habit for her.

All the fake declarations that you must have lied for an honest reason & I trust in you still only to further guilt trip Adi just made me angry. If you were so confident about his lie being for an honest reason then why the heck did you do all the drama for crying 24*7, leaving home & going on hunger strike?

You ask him valid questions but are not ready to hear the truthful answers. Today Adi was interrupted due to AC but this was an important discussion & she should have asked Adi for his explanation once again after returning home. But she didn't because she has an inkling that the answer she will hear will break down all her illusions of perfect life.

The scene with the family was ridiculous. When the family demanded Adi to apologise to her why didn't she freaking open her mouth & say that he has already apologised. Because I clearly remember him saying sorry to her. There was no need to act coy & being mahaan that no need, I have already forgiven him giving the impression that Adi has not apologised at all.

She continues to sense the distance from Adi's side but does not take initiative to start the conversation. Her suspicion alarm is ringing so loud now that she is invading his privacy & checking his call log, going to the extent of calling that unknown number to confirm her suspicions. Then next sec she is back to her oh I am such an idiot to have doubted Adi after hearing a male's voice instead of a female. Hadd hai

All her round about complaints to Adi that don't worry about my medicines, I will take them myself to guilt trip him was making me mad😡

She is the character for whom I should be feeling sympathy as much as I do for Imlie but her behaviour is such that it is making me feel satisfaction when her chop happens instead of sympathy. Either make her a villain or just let her have complete trust in Adi if she says so. This pendulumgiri that she is doing is not helping her case with the audience.

Best part of todays episode was Aditya❤️ not comfortable with Malini even her touch. they showed it twice. First when Malini tried to hug him. Then when she tried to cuddle him in the sleep. He literally jumped from sleep as if he saw a nightmare😆. Gash was so good 😳

Another thing is When Aditya realised what he felt for Malini 7 years is nothing compared to what he feel for Imlie now. ❤️ . Now he is in love.

Literally Aditya is in a frying pan🤣 for all the PDA he did with Malini infront of Imlie. 😆

Lol I kind of laughed when Aditya said Yeh toh humse itna pyar karte hai ki hum inke bare mai socha hi nahi🤣.( Adiiii😡Imlie did took Bullet for you. It's from there Adlie started❤️) If it was Imlie she would have stood with the family and give them strength . Even their son was missing .

What an ideal wife Malini didi is . You whine and cry. Then guilt trip inlaws and husband. Then leave the house . Start Bhook Hartal. Give more stress to inlaws and parents.😆.

Scared of Malini's dialogue That she will fight for their relationship means like she will be snooping around Aditya checking his phone , prying at office , literally making Adis life a living hell

And the most beautiful ❤️ part was chotu Adlie phone convo. Ufff the tadap in them.

Adi today decided to sail in two ship rather selecting one and giving pain to another😆. Drown and die himself🥺

Originally posted by: pamk06

I am so with you in this. One can sense a mood of a person even if they know him for a short time but here it just weird that they just don’t see it or don’t want to see it. Also After all their tall claims they made to AC and malini, no one even asked him where he was or what he was doing? There were no questions asked, no justification demanded. Bas bahu is home and they are all happy, not at all bothered about where Aditya was, what he was doing, how he has been doing or why he is looking so desolate. The most shocking was his mother. She gave him this big lecture and now that he is got Malini home, she did not given him his due nor enquirer about his missing 4 days. They all just walked away leaving him alone in his loneliness that no one is bothering to sense nor enquire.

Agree with everything. Their treatment of Aditya is pretty starkly bizarre that way. I mean, Aparna actually hid in the kitchen crying in one episode thinking that something may actually be wrong with him. All those things and they end up with nothing because he lied? And this was the guy who had been beaten up just before he went away. I understand why they need to keep them obtuse but at times their reactions are acutely lacking. No wonder he latched on to Imlie the way he did.