Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 4

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This exactly. We've seen Adi go through the motions by suppressing his emotions before also.....but this time it's just different. The realization has changed everything.....he was still in his delusion/denial before so going about his usual emotionally suppressed state was easier....but it's harder to do naap tol of your emotions when you actually experience genuine emotions for the first time which Adi has experienced with Imlie.

Toh ab woh naap tol bhi nahin ho paa raha with Malini that he could otherwise manage very easily ki kab Malini ki kitna dose of concern and affection dena hai.....now he isn't able to do any of that cuz ab aatma jaag gayi hai and jaagi hui aatma ko dhoka dena zyada mushkil hota hai.

I keep circling back to that dropped capsule scene from today.....his body language after Imlie cuts the call is just so well done by GM in showing how ekdum SUNN pad gaya hai Adi....you can see he's literally in a haze...usko Malini ki awaaz bhi 2-3 baar bulaane ke baad hi suni.....and he couldn't even gather his thoughts enough to remember the capsule....woh pura set was so well done in showing ki Imlie ki awaaz sunne ke baad Adi ka mann phir se aur zyada wahin ruk gaya uske paas.....he was finding it hard to pull himself out of it to function even for doing chores for Malini...bare minimum bhi nahin ho raha isse.

Yes he was almost like statue hi ho gaya hai jaise awaaz padh hi nahi iske kaan pe. Not remembering what he was doing a sec ago.. time stood still for him.. he was in a trance where only that phonecall existed everything around him just disappeared 👏

I am actually now wondering agar call na aati toh kya yeh so bhi paata itne sukoon se lagta toh nahi hai.. it is almost like that breathed a new hope inside him thoda sa more fodder to survive a bit more ..

He just cannot distract himself ek toh waise hi nahi kar paa raha dusra there is no effort either from his side.. isse woh bhi nahin ho raha ke koshish toh karo to do your routine stuff.. and see if that brings momentarily reprise

Imelia bache jaldi aa jaa tera desh bulaye re.. I keep coming back to his but iski oxygen supply is imlie for real and it just keeps getting more and more obvious.. he is low key slipping into deep deep sadness/ a bit of depression bina her and too quickly.. it doesn't help ke ek insaan aisa nahi hai jisse baat kar paaye

Who can can hug him and he can use the shoulder to let his feelings out.. woh faltu nishant ko laaye kyon and why they said he knows adi the best when all he can do is maaro badly timed juggatein and cannot read him whatsoever..

Originally posted by: pamk06

OMG, I am one happy person today... why do they insist on keeping him so vague and suddenly there is this 100 degree volt with all answers presented in one shot. We thought he will take days realize but BBSB was full of 4’s and sixers today... All realizations of what Malini stand in his life, what he feels for her, what he has been feeling for her in last 7 years, all answers in one shot. It seems like her already had them. When did this happen? He is seriously nothing to everything kind of a guy 😆Like he shows he is clueless but then it’s comes out as if he is the most observant person in the room with all answers 🤣

But he still has no clue on what to do so his default answer, “ I should just die”. Really, why does he always jumps to this conclusion, like why is there no midway with him. Why is his solution to all problems “dying”. 😆He really needs Imlie back in his life, then only his brains will start working and hopefully his solution would be fix things rather than just give up. Warna yeh BBSb se koi umeed hi nahin hain. He has become a shell. It’s so funny the way he was clinging to the pillow ki bas ab koi kheech le and he will fall in Majdar. What loyalty to Imlie... waah😝😝😝

LOL he was literally sleeping on the very EDGE of the bed and clinging to the bedcover and pillow like it was his security blanket🤣

Yes, once again Babusahib shows ki bas 0 ya 100 hi milega inke saath....we all keep thinking he doesn't get anything and one day he suddenly shows ki sab samajh aa gaya isko😆

Imlie is the first person in Adi's life who's made him want to truly live....uske bina toh he will always keep being casual about his life.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Word....and the other bit I keep forgetting to mention that broke my heart....the way Imlie said, "Rakh dein na?'....itna heatbreakingly dikhaya na woh bit.....even as she thinks he may not want to talk to her, she still can't help but keep asking him till the last minute if he wants her to hang up....and wahaan Adi silent on the other end but willing her in his mind to keep talking.....these two❤️.

Adi was just so so lost ke ek nahi bhi nahi nikali uske moonh se despite every fiber in his body saying otherwise..

It was just so so poignant .. the tehraav played the scene so well imlie still hoping for a reassurance ke shayad baat ksrna chabta hai and itna bhi na milna usse lagaooing stamp on her doubts ke sirf yeh akeli hi jal rahi hai.. my poor child.. all she was looking for a sign ke sirf yeh nahi paglaayi woh bhi itna hi deewana ho gaya hai usse farak padta hai but sadly the faraks can't be shown like this girl.. get yourself back jaldi you precious little thing.. ab toh mujbe bhi ghuttan ho rahi hai tumhare bina 🤗

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Here you go:

Can't repeat enough how well the nuances were done in this scene.....Adi trying to keep a blank mask up initially when he hears her voice on the phone and tries to step away so that he can talk to her....but he is still restricted about what he can say. Imlie on the other end is just so happy to hear his voice and wants to ask how he is....but then when he doesn't give more than a haan in a response, she starts to pull back thinking he doesn't want to talk to her.....but still ending up blurting out that she couldn't stop herself from calling him.....there again is that lovely honesty in their conversations that always sets it apart. Even in the middle of a bit of a miscommunication here where Imlie is thinking he doesn't want to talk to her, she tells him what she was feeling. And then Adi on the other end, unable to hold on to the mask much as his eyes start to reflect that pain of yearning for every bit of her voice he can hold on to in this convo even if he can't respond back to her.....the silences and pauses were so well used in this scene....superb direction and acting once again from both GM-ST👏.

+1000

I was just going to write about this.... what a beautiful scene!! The emotions restricted by circumstances, she immediately understanding that she has called at the wrong time from his tone, he just listening to her and hearing the words that he was yearning to hear and was feeling at the same time. Even with silence his reluctance to let her go and she trying her best to read that silence with uncertainty in her voice. He losing sight of everything around him and just focused on her voice, begging to hear it and Imlie bravery finally giving up. The silence, the pauses, the expressions spoke volumes. It was scene full of feels with so many emotions flowing through it. It was 100 percent “ TADAP” in the truest sense. Beautifully directly, Amazingly enacted 👏

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL he was literally sleeping on the very EDGE of the bed and clinging to the bedcover and pillow like it was his security blanket🤣

Yes, once again Babusahib shows ki bas 0 ya 100 hi milega inke saath....we all keep thinking he doesn't get anything and one day he suddenly shows ki sab samajh aa gaya isko😆

Imlie is the first person in Adi's life who's made him want to truly live....uske bina toh he will always keep being casual about his life.

Hahahah bohat funny tha yeh bit but aww bhi ke he is like clinging clinging pillow for emotional supoirt hugging his blanket so so scared for his life ke kahin phir se na chippak jaaye malini.😆 all alert ready to drown.. poori neend phur uski jagah khauf ne le li😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL he was literally sleeping on the very EDGE of the bed and clinging to the bedcover and pillow like it was his security blanket🤣

Yes, once again Babusahib shows ki bas 0 ya 100 hi milega inke saath....we all keep thinking he doesn't get anything and one day he suddenly shows ki sab samajh aa gaya isko😆

Imlie is the first person in Adi's life who's made him want to truly live....uske bina toh he will always keep being casual about his life.

Did you see how scared he was when he woke up almost trying to protect himself? 😆 All that PDA and look at him now.

So true, like it was as if he knew everything all along bas now he just wants to implement his thoughts but no guts or Clue on how to do it . I wonder what he would have said if AC would not have interfered.

Re: his life, when he said Majdaar, I remembered our discussions about how casual he is about his life and now again he wants to give up. She just needs to come back.

Imlie spoke about coming to town, I guess she will take Prakash’s help to come and get settled in hostel. Wonder how BBSB will know? May be he will call this unknown number to talk to Imlie and Prakash will enlighten him on whereabouts.

Originally posted by: nim_var

Good insight into the inner workings of BS ka dimaag.

2 scenes stood out for me the most - the Adi Imlie convo over the phone, both yearning for each other, unable to speak freely with each other. Very touching and it was a tough act for Adi to struggle to maintain his facade in front of Malini, talk to Imlie, his jaan, uttering only monosyllables. Imlie figured out that he was with someone and unable to speak, she guessed from his silence. The doubts that creeped in along with the distance to dilli, making her feel vulnerable, weighted by her own decision, to stay apart from Adi. Adi on the other hand, was going through the motions with Malini, who brought her back home and was thinking that no one missed Imlie.

The second was the hug from Malini, how Adi cannot even handle her slightest touch, he is totally committed to Imlie now. He looked like he had seen a ghost when he saw Malini. That was 🤣

The C's and T's were as expected, who glossed over the fact that Malini made a mountain of a molehill, welcomed her with open arms, treating her like a fragile doll. They are yet to see the full fragility of Malini, what they saw was just a small sample.

I was quite struck by the intuitiveness displayed by Malini today on her thoughts of Adi and their marriage. She could not decipher his moods or understand him fully. She was shown to be sensing the distance blah blah today. 😆

Guess Imlie will be soon at the hostel and Adi will go there to drench her in his colors.

As for the precap - Imlie's secretkeeper.

This was the most shocking moment for me. Never expected him to behave this way. He just freaked out when she touched him like some strange woman flirting with him. 🤣🤣🤣 There is now way he would be able to stay with her in same bedroom for long time.

T party was completely nuts. Waise bhi yeh thode pagal hai..pata nahi kab kuchh kar jaye.

Guys, humne toh notice kar liya that Adi isn't calling her "Moon" anymore......do you think SHE will notice it? 😆

I expected her to pick up on it instantly but abhi tak isne note hi nahin kiya hai that Adi has TOTALLY stopped calling her "Moon"😆.

Are they saving that "realization" for a special occasion? lol....also I feel like if she notices it and asks him to call her "Moon" again, he won't even be able to do that much anymore.....he's literally like in this STUCK sa mode where sach bhi nahin bol paa raha and token gestures bhi nahin kar paa raha pehle waale.

I am happy that they choose the option that he was never in love rather than he fell out of love. Never in love goes more with his character, and also that as he had never been in love before Malini, he thought he was in love with her.

I do wish though that they would have also made him realize that how incompatible they are. Him falling in love puts the guilt in his court as if he is wrong or may be that is to make Malini Mahaan with her “ bedaag” trust and “ I will do anything to save my relationship”

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Guys, humne toh notice kar liya that Adi isn't calling her "Moon" anymore......do you think SHE will notice it? 😆

I expected her to pick up on it instantly but abhi tak isne note hi nahin kiya hai that Adi has TOTALLY stopped calling her "Moon"😆.

Are they saving that "realization" for a special occasion? lol....also I feel like if she notices it and asks him to call her "Moon" again, he won't even be able to do that much anymore.....he's literally like in this STUCK sa mode where sach bhi nahin bol paa raha and token gestures bhi nahin kar paa raha pehle waale.

Didi abhi Denial mode main hai. Pata nahi use kab hosh ayega. Suprised she didn't pick i up right away.