Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 2

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They LOVE to bring us to our wit's end and THEN show Adi giving us the answers we wanted😆. Regardless, I'm happy we got that clear stance from Adi today.

As usual it's 0 or 100 with him.....many of us here were wondering if he'd gradually start to realize his incompatibility with Malini.....but isko sab ek jhatke mein samajh aa gaya just in time for his apology scene in front of Malini😆......that he THOUGHT he loved Malini cuz he'd never experienced love before this....but he didn't even know himself for so long so he doesn't know how to begin telling her.

Malini ko toh na bataa paaye, Imlie ko kaise bataayega😆....that poor thing is still not being able to help herself from calling him even as she tries to sacrifice him for Malini didi thinking that's his one true lowe😆

Re: Edit.....LOL you really think Malini will realize anything? I see full preps for whitewashing her part in all this and laying the blame only on Aditya for "leading her on" for 7 years😆.

The window of truth is never going to come with her cuz she only makes token efforts to find out and then proceeds to go back to swooning or playing the martyr.

Babusahib kuch slow and steady kar hi nahi sakte which results in him getting more and more trapped 😅 caz isko samjh hi nahi aati phir ke start kahan se kare undo karna the mess he phelaooed and with every day passing woh mess bhadhta jaa raha hai and jitna bhi safai ki koshish kar le woh saaf hi nahi ho raha .. caz he is just sooo out of control and lack of enotional support just keeps adding to his confusions.. there is just nobody to guide him Ina direction until imlie atkeats gives him the space to say all that muddled up toofans going inside his head. Matlab yeh kya kam tha ke he has feelings for imlie and it was so strong he was finding it impossible to be without her and that he was in live yeh isne pehle nahi feel kia ke ab isko yeh break bhi karna hai toh Malini.. didi koi toh kaam aasan kar do adi ke liye khud hi tell him to take a break 😆 her questions weren't wrong it is the way she asks valid things and then ghumaoows them to show she is oh so large hearted mahaan that makes her valid questions go into mehh zone too.. why can't they let behave like a normal human.. shikayat hai toh kar lo .. problems hai toh bata do.. saath chalo but yeh bhi bol do ke jaa rahi hai caz need of the hour and aur mess nahi karna and time lagega in normal hona after the lie why make it all about oh am so mahaan let me come.. any normal couple going through a rift any normal girl would be like sure you don't have answers let me go and we will aaram se suljhao and you can answer me .. but yeh toh phir se shush kar deti hai ke ohir answers hi Matt do while she keeps going in her head all into shakki mode.. doing shall at every thing he does...

The other thing is Imlie informed Amma of her admissions being near and return to city real soon toh I guess kal shayad kar dein Flash Forward and imlie will land in Delhi after her telling Prakash Prakash truth which is good for us . I can't stand uss aadmi ki shakal who seems to have parked himself at mithi ka ghar hi why we have no answers.. how is that not wrong?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They LOVE to bring us to our wit's end and THEN show Adi giving us the answers we wanted😆. Regardless, I'm happy we got that clear stance from Adi today.

As usual it's 0 or 100 with him.....many of us here were wondering if he'd gradually start to realize his incompatibility with Malini.....but isko sab ek jhatke mein samajh aa gaya just in time for his apology scene in front of Malini😆......that he THOUGHT he loved Malini cuz he'd never experienced love before this....but he didn't even know himself for so long so he doesn't know how to begin telling her.

Malini ko toh na bataa paaye, Imlie ko kaise bataayega😆....that poor thing is still not being able to help herself from calling him even as she tries to sacrifice him for Malini didi thinking that's his one true lowe😆

Re: Edit.....LOL you really think Malini will realize anything? I see full preps for whitewashing her part in all this and laying the blame only on Aditya for "leading her on" for 7 years😆.

The window of truth is never going to come with her cuz she only makes token efforts to find out and then proceeds to go back to swooning or playing the martyr.

Word on the stance. Glad they cleared that up about Aditya this early on.

On telling either Imlie or Malini, I hedge my bets more on him telling Imlie only because he word vomits his heart out every time he is around her. She will not believe it for a long time is a different issue. Circumstances have not worked in his favor either. That phone tag was plain sad for the both of them.

Re Malini, the problem I’ve had is she’s not been able to generate the level of sympathy in me that someone in her situation normally would have. Even if they make her a martyr, will it be believable, I do not know. Case in point, today’s flip flop between calling that unknown number and suddenly coming back all I trust you completely. I should never have done this. After a while, that flip is the only thing that gets noticed.

Aditya will no doubt get blamed for leading her on although his fault is in getting married to her knowing he was already married and then coming back from PD this time around and not telling her his truth. That is why the doubt in that edit....if she ever karke. I hope she does, but will she who knows.

It will be interesting to see what dhamki works on Prakash. He has pakaoed Imlie completely.

T family is over hyper , they over hype everything . They are sweet and fun. But they do too much sometimes. It was too cringy when they saw Malini come back home

Today’s episode was actually uncomfortable to watch in a sense. Three people going through their own version of living hell and no one completely deserves it.

Malini watching her relationship with Aditya crumble in front of her eyes.

Aditya unable to even exist.

Imlie unsure of how to navigate the emotional turmoil she is in.

This complicated web will only lure them in more before they are able to extract themselves from it.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

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GOD babusahib is a bada wala Namoona.. he is way way bigger namoona than I have ever given him credit for 🤣🤣

What is that let me drown since I can't pick a side..🙈🙉.. matlab sach main no wonder yeb do defeatists thought they were made for each other😆 so easy for them to just drown and give up up fighting.. it was kinda amusing to see him so traumatized he was 🤣 it was like saanp soongh ke gaya Oh boy the irony when say that given his experience with saanp recently.🤣 but he was so genuine scared ke she cuddled him rang udh gaya iska 🤣 how else are you suppose to be in 2 naav ke musafir babusahib agar itne main hi aapki jaan nikal gayi 🤨

The distance is too big now.. he is doing lesser thrn he has done for imlie in his denial zone too.. he just cannot answer anything give her anything on humanitarian level too woh bhi distract hongaya with the phone.. once again maze se so gaya ke aoni chinta aap karo sanu ki.. how difficult it was for him to say the bare minimum tell me the meds schedule 🤣

The clear not being able to hug malini back when she jumped on him

Hahah at martyr didi .. woh didi hi kya ji aoni galti maan le.. she was trying to be the bigger one ke Mai aa jaati hoon nahi chahiye jawab you are honest.. uhhh yeh pehle nahi pata tha aapko but iska wohi hai 9 sau chuhe kha ke billi haj ko chali.🤣 sab kuch kar bhi lo phir masoom ban jao.. the conversation was good atleast aaj didi ne itna to mana ke sab utna perfect hai nahi jitna lagta hai

But biggest is adi ka admitting over and over that it means he never loved malini caz woh toh pehli baar ehsaas ho raha hai and woh kisi aur ke liye hai.. woh Imlie hai his best partner his pyaar and now he is craving for her saath her support missing her so much ke gharwale not mentioning her also pinched him hard as he wanted some solace in hearing her name aww .. the phone conversation was very well done ...though there was hardly any direct communication the emotionw was felt the way he was going keep saying keep blabbing just don't hang up..aww I was as bechain as you..while.our poor girl.on the other end thought she was imposing herself and yeh toh miss kar hi nahi raha by his monosyllables awww 🤗 felt terrible for her.. if only she knew ke babusahib ab uske ho gaye for iss janam .. pakke wale and ab inse kuch na ho paayega like For God sake even breathing is seeming like a chore to him..😆

Moon se toh unhe phobia sa ho gaya hai and woh Dunia dikhawwe ke liye bhi pretend nahi.kar sak raha. 🤣 so much for his hum sirf aapke hain...iss janam uss janam yada yada..

I didn't like him being normal to dev though ya maybe his brain was processing too much je immediately nahi khayal aaya isse usse snub karne ka.. but mehh

The bottom line was Tujhse na ho paave ADitya.. iske doobti naiya jo imelia ka hi Sahara hai only she can return some discipline some calm warna yeh toh subah se pehle hi bhasm ho jaaye.. with the way he is doneee

@bold: Yeah, that was a bit of a disappointment to me too.....hum logon ne kuch zyada hi sapne dekh liye but Adi seems to still be trying to draw parallels between himself and Dev.....sigh chhodo best not to dwell on that for our sanity😆

Word on everything else you said.....Babusahib has indeed turned out to be an even bigger bailbuddhi than we expected😆.....direct give up mode mein chala gaya😆. But yeah, atleast the writers aren't trying to be sawaar in two naavs right now so that's some positive😆. As you said, aaj bahut clear ho gaya that Adi cannot keep up the facade with Malini anymore.....his mind and heart has total clarity about who it wants and he isn't being able to continue even a token obligation with Malini anymore.

It was so symbolic that Adi wasn't even able to hold on to Malini's medicine when he was talking to Imlie on the phone.....itni der tak toh yeh sab zimmedaari nibhaayi hai Adi ne....par ab zimmedaari bhi nahin nibh rahi kyunki jaan hi jaise nahin rahi na Adi ke andar.....jab jaan hi nahin hogi toh zimmedaari kaise nibhegi?

The bit when Adi wonders if the family waale have forgotten Imlie was brief yet so impactful.....again a part of the big shifts in Adi today.....the fact that he's feeling Imlie's absence to that extent ki use is baat ka bhi bura lag raha hai that his own family doesn't seem to be missing her as much as he's missing her😆

Malini ka aana/na aana didn't even really register....he just fulfilled the obligation of bringing her back....but his mind was on Imlie.....abhi bhi baar baar kehna, "Tumhein yahaan hona chahiye tha humaare saath"....that is all that's playing in his mind on a loop....that Imlie should be there with him.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

The other thing is Imlie informed Amma of her admissions being near and return to city real soon toh I guess kal shayad kar dein Flash Forward and imlie will land in Delhi after her telling Prakash Prakash truth which is good for us . I can't stand uss aadmi ki shakal who seems to have parked himself at mithi ka ghar hi why we have no answers.. how is that not wrong?

I genuinely think they either messed up somewhere with Prakash or we're not supposed to like him? But I think he's meant to be Imlie's genuine friend? Idk I just don't personally like him on screen. Pretty sure Imlie will sambalo the situation after all "Prakash has never been able to stop" her before 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Today’s episode was actually uncomfortable to watch in a sense. Three people going through their own version of living hell and no one completely deserves it.

Malini watching her relationship with Aditya crumble in front of her eyes.

Aditya unable to even exist.

Imlie unsure of how to navigate the emotional turmoil she is in.

This complicated web will only lure them in more before they are able to extract themselves from it.

Excellent review Areyaar!

It is interesting you say that Mute Button.

Some of these episodes have me emotionally drained out - they are quite intense for ITV. I love watching and have given up watching other serials as I cannot drum up the enthusiasm, interest or the energy after Imli. Pace of story has also been quite speedy. Almost all questions answered.

After today - all I want is for the CVS to give us an episode that shows Adi - how much his family loves Imli - and I hope its dhamakedaar in its difference from how they like Malini! It was painful to watch them over indulge her - and painfully prioritze her over their own son. For all they know - Adi could have been diagnosed with cancer and took 4 days off to deal with it like Nishant did for 10 years. T family needs some serious introspection. In trying to be good - they have lost their normalcy.

Poor Imli is thinking Adi does not remember her. Her trust is him is pretty low - no surprise there. Should Adi not have attempted to call her back - he must have realized how she must have felt. They don't have texting??

I think Prakash will be sworn to secrecy on the basis of their friendship and he will unwillingly agree to get more info.

I won't be surprised if she turns up in Delhi tomorrow in her blue salwar for admission and Holi scene is on Wednesday with Adi storming her hostel. I hope its not a dream.

I do feel its badke kaka who will get Imli back!

Forgot to add - what does Adi mean when he says - he'll drown in the choppy waters - keep both of them stringed along? or what?

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Today’s episode was actually uncomfortable to watch in a sense. Three people going through their own version of living hell and no one completely deserves it.

Malini watching her relationship with Aditya crumble in front of her eyes.

Aditya unable to even exist.

Imlie unsure of how to navigate the emotional turmoil she is in.

This complicated web will only lure them in more before they are able to extract themselves from it.

Aditya's zidd has caused them all a great deal more problems then they might have had otherwise... although I'm sure him returning from PD married would have still caused issues, this is just kind of heartbreaking from all sides.

Originally posted by: raaz19

Can we get caps if today’s phone call if possible.

Here you go:

Can't repeat enough how well the nuances were done in this scene.....Adi trying to keep a blank mask up initially when he hears her voice on the phone and tries to step away so that he can talk to her....but he is still restricted about what he can say. Imlie on the other end is just so happy to hear his voice and wants to ask how he is....but then when he doesn't give more than a haan in a response, she starts to pull back thinking he doesn't want to talk to her.....but still ending up blurting out that she couldn't stop herself from calling him.....there again is that lovely honesty in their conversations that always sets it apart. Even in the middle of a bit of a miscommunication here where Imlie is thinking he doesn't want to talk to her, she tells him what she was feeling. And then Adi on the other end, unable to hold on to the mask much as his eyes start to reflect that pain of yearning for every bit of her voice he can hold on to in this convo even if he can't respond back to her.....the silences and pauses were so well used in this scene....superb direction and acting once again from both GM-ST👏.