Imlie's resolve is tested - Page 8

Originally posted by: raaz19

For Aditya it was all about learning to not let his who anger affect his judgements and this is where each person was right to tell him how the felt. If only they knew how complicated it is for him to really lay out what he feels. I believe he has become this way bacause of his famliy need to protect his sister and deal with his brothers leaving. Throughout the episodes all we got to hear was Maline was a choice I made and destiny cannot change this. When he was taking of her to imlie he mentioned her as a friend and a woman that loves him. Was it his siblings failed relationships that forced him to close off his heart and become practical. I don’t know but I wish we get to see more of his emotional side through this jealousy / longing phase.

I know this is off topic but I wonder if he took the shirts she wore on there dinner with him or let her have it as a keep sake

Haha even I was wondering about that. I guess he did take his grey shirt back if he spent a whole extra night in PD😆. But Imlie might have kept the flower he gave her to put in her hair.....maybe they will show it in another one of her imaginations about him in the coming epis😆.

I'm also waiting to see if the white shirt with the sindoor daag also makes a reappearance before Imlie comes back to T house😆.

Re: Adi....I totally agree with your paragraph here....while I could understand why Aparna was upset with him but the way she laid it on him in that scene kinda showed why he doesn't feel he can share his feelings to that extent with his family. He always keeps it to the point and matter of fact.....it is only with Imlie that he feels comfortable laying out all his feelings - flawed or otherwise. It would be nice if they provided more background on why he has become this way over the years but dunno if we will get that between all the drama of Malini related things in the coming days....lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha even I was wondering about that. I guess he did take his grey shirt back if he spent a whole extra night in PD😆. But Imlie might have kept the flower he gave her to put in her hair.....maybe they will show it in another one of her imaginations about him in the coming epis😆.

I'm also waiting to see if the white shirt with the sindoor daag also makes a reappearance before Imlie comes back to T house😆.

Re: Adi....I totally agree with your paragraph here....while I could understand why Aparna was upset with him but the way she laid it on him in that scene kinda showed why he doesn't feel he can share his feelings to that extent with his family. He always keeps it to the point and matter of fact.....it is only with Imlie that he feels comfortable laying out all his feelings - flawed or otherwise. It would be nice if they provided more background on why he has become this way over the years but dunno if we will get that between all the drama of Malini related things in the coming days....lol

I hope so too 🤗 for the shirts have become so poignant in there relationship. One of him accepting the sindoor and the other a moment where he could just be himself. I really feel they will bring this into play when and if we get to see more off his longing for her. How and when that’s a good question but I hope it’s soon.

Just like the note where he wrote her name when teaching her to rose has made a special place too. She must have kept it too I hope. I wish they give a cross over scene where both remember the other through such items. For the item doesn’t have to be expensive but the moment you share become priceless. That what I feel holds them together for they treasure the time they have had.

It’s true I feel this is one layer we are missing and are yet to see. I hope the cvs give us this insight someday for it will explain a lot of his life choices and his validation of marriage, friendship and love too. I just feel his whole speech on truth and logic is also stemmed through the events of the past and something he may question when the siblings become a barrier to his happiness. 😊

Like you said only time shall tell but I hope it’s soon 😆

Honestly I was feeling a little bad for Aditya today when his mother scolded him. Yes, she was right in scolding him for lying & leaving home in the middle of a fight. But the entire Malini leaving home situation was not directly his fault.

It also bothered me that she did not take time to just talk to him & find out his reasons. She could have at least initiated a discussion about the so called issues jiski duhai de kar Malini left home. It is as if he is judged by some higher standards & is not allowed to make mistakes. No wonder he is reluctant to open himself to them if he is going to be judged so harshly.

Wasn't there a passing comment made by badi Kaki when news of Nishant coming back was being discussed where she mentioned that Aparna always blames Nishant's fault on Adi? Maybe he was always judged by higher standard by his parents since he is their only child & faced more scrutiny making him feel that he cannot make mistakes. I don't know what psychology analysis I have done😆 We may never get to know all these things in the story.

But honestly at the least the Tripathi elders need to hear both the sides of the argument before giving the verdict that everything is Adi's fault. They are totally going by the impression that Malini has given them. It is good that they are supportive in laws to their bahu but take into consideration both the parties points at least.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Honestly I was feeling a little bad for Aditya today when his mother scolded him. Yes, she was right in scolding him for lying & leaving home in the middle of a fight. But the entire Malini leaving home situation was not directly his fault.

It also bothered me that she did not take time to just talk to him & find out his reasons. She could have at least initiated a discussion about the so called issues jiski duhai de kar Malini left home. It is as if he is judged by some higher standards & is not allowed to make mistakes. No wonder he is reluctant to open himself to them if he is going to be judged so harshly.

Wasn't there a passing comment made by badi Kaki when news of Nishant coming back was being discussed where she mentioned that Aparna always blames Nishant's fault on Adi? Maybe he was always judged by higher standard by his parents since he is their only child & faced more scrutiny making him feel that he cannot make mistakes. I don't know what psychology analysis I have done😆 We may never get to know all these things in the story.

But honestly at the least the Tripathi elders need to hear both the sides of the argument before giving the verdict that everything is Adi's fault. They are totally going by the impression that Malini has given them. It is good that they are supportive in laws to their bahu but take into consideration both the parties points at least.

Yeah, I felt bad for Adi there too.

The thing that happens many times in this story is ki ek insaan ki galti hoti hai....like in this case, Adi was wrong to lie to his family waale and Malini.....but then the other side compounds the blunder so you start to forget who's fault it even was originally cuz the next person makes an even bigger blunder.

In this case, Aparna again isn't even trying to get answers dhang se from her own son.....she has fully laid the blame on him in her anger/hurt and announced judgement - case closed. One could just see Adi totally retreating into himself in that scene rather than wanting to reach out to explain himself to his mom.....all that judgement makes him want to explain himself even less even though yes, he is in the wrong here.....but the way his family waale and Malini handle it just makes you begin to feel sorry overall for the lack of communication that makes people retreat into a shell to this extent from their own loved ones.

Dunno how much the story will ever bother exploring the background of Adi's emotional state and how he's become this way.....why his family also never tries to get to the root cause of his personality....but yeah it would be an interesting angle to explore. Imlie's return into their lives can help bridge these gaps long term cuz she is the only person he truly opens up to.....she can help his own family understand him better too.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Achha was it not clear to some here that Adi cut Imlie's call cuz he didn't recognize the number she called from? 😆 I mean I thought I conveyed that in my original post, but I guess woh vague reh gaya.....lol

Yeah, even though he was in the middle of going to Malini, the reason he didn't pick up Imlie's call was not that....it was cuz he didn't recognize the number. But ab baat toh wohi lagegi Imlie ko that he cut the call cuz he was with Malini....and yehi ab Adi ko resolve karna padega whenever she asks him😆

Also gotta love the irony ki Adi ne itna bola jaane se pehle ki mujhe phone karna, mujhse milne aana.....but jab Imlie ka phone aaya, he himself didn't pick it up due to a miscommunication😆

Lol at the call disconnect miscommunication😆

But Prakash called Adi in evening but Malini is calling him back late in the night because he is irritatingly asking her who she is when she is the one who has called so late.

Are they really going to show Malini as the shakki biwi who goes through husband's call & text history. Not only that but going to the extent of calling back at an unknown number. That is stalker level territory right there😆 Dangerous times are ahead for Adi & Imlie when Imlie will be back in T house because she will be watching them like a hawk or is she going to be randomly be oblivious anything related to Adi-Imlie as usual😆

Writers have to give her a clear MO. They can't show her to be such a suspicious wife one step ahead of even AC at one moment & then be dismissive of all the Adi Imlie undercurrents in another moment😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, I felt bad for Adi there too.

The thing that happens many times in this story is ki ek insaan ki galti hoti hai....like in this case, Adi was wrong to lie to his family waale and Malini.....but then the other side compounds the blunder so you start to forget who's fault it even was originally cuz the next person makes an even bigger blunder.

In this case, Aparna again isn't even trying to get answers dhang se from her own son.....she has fully laid the blame on him in her anger/hurt and announced judgement - case closed. One could just see Adi totally retreating into himself in that scene rather than wanting to reach out to explain himself to his mom.....all that judgement makes him want to explain himself even less even though yes, he is in the wrong here.....but the way his family waale and Malini handle it just makes you begin to feel sorry overall for the lack of communication that makes people retreat into a shell to this extent from their own loved ones.

Dunno how much the story will ever bother exploring the background of Adi's emotional state and how he's become this way.....why his family also never tries to get to the root cause of his personality....but yeah it would be an interesting angle to explore. Imlie's return into their lives can help bridge these gaps long term cuz she is the only person he truly opens up to.....she can help his own family understand him better too.

Yes the lack of communication between Adi & his family comes into glaring focus during such times. This much disconnect where they are not even interested in hearing his reasons or excuses is absurd.

I agree that eventually Imlie will be the one who will be the link between Adi & his family. But that time is still a long time away.

Let's see if we get a better understanding of Adi- family dynamics as the story progresses because though Adi may not care for their approval but they are still a joint family where every member will have their own reaction when the truth comes out.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

+1 to all of this. The Sundar-Imlie friendship is more fun anyday than Prakash-Imlie.

Prakash ka sabse irritating mujhe yeh lagta hai that he tries to project all this "concern" for Imlie but most of it is coming from a super jealous and petty place cuz he mainly just wants to break off her relationship with Adi. Everything he mentioned to Imlie yesterday was only on the surface supposed to show concern for the weirdness of her marriage.....but his motives are not those of selfless friend.....he couldn't hide his own contempt for the relationship.....and most of his excuses were about surface things....ki sheheri log kaise kisi gaaonwaale ke saath nibhaa sakte hain.....if he's really a friend, shouldn't his concern show before his contempt or suspicions? But the way he was talking to Imlie lacked that softness or kindness of a friend.

Sundar on the other hand, for all the bickering and fighting he's done with Imlie is still 100% genuine in whatever he expresses to her.....lol so it just feels like a more natural and real friendship even though they are like Tom and Jerry mostly.

Prakash just feels like a plot device....while with Sundar, many times a genuine poignant moment has come across with Imlie.

Yes.. with sundar there is more of a genuine concern , care , wali friendship friendship whom.she can show her vulnerability and who would not use it instead give her the best advice.. I really enjoy sundar and imlie that is the friendship that better sail..I just really like the sensitivity they use to deal with sundar ka character too like even in this episode he isn't the one to announce malini left and why he simply said woh chali gayi at first and then adi questioned further to that also his reluctant but simple to the point she went after getting angry..he didn't added mirch masale and took maze of the matter unlike woh Prakash who's only purpose is the constantly judge adi imlie ka relationship make assumptions and then do his faltu 2 rs overactive wali nautanki.. I pick sundar ka genuineess in any matter and knowing his lines and still being practical and warm over this tucha Prakash... send him back to where he came from. We are content with bandar chukandar

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Lol at the call disconnect miscommunication😆

But Prakash called Adi in evening but Malini is calling him back late in the night because he is irritatingly asking her who she is when she is the one who has called so late.

Are they really going to show Malini as the shakki biwi who goes through husband's call & text history. Not only that but going to the extent of calling back at an unknown number. That is stalker level territory right there😆 Dangerous times are ahead for Adi & Imlie when Imlie will be back in T house because she will be watching them like a hawk or is she going to be randomly be oblivious anything related to Adi-Imlie as usual😆

Writers have to give her a clear MO. They can't show her to be such a suspicious wife one step ahead of even AC at one moment & then be dismissive of all the Adi Imlie undercurrents in another moment😆

LOL oh come on....the writers have already been showing her like this for a while....kuch naya nahin hoga😆. They'll put in a token scene of Malini thinking to herself ki main yeh sab kya kar rahi hoon - mujhe typical shakki biwi nahin banna chahiye.....haha and then back to her usual smiling/happy wife mode. She did this in the past also when she was feeling upset over the Moti Roti incident, then woh V'day wala receipt incident. She will go back to that mode in some form I think.....suspicion bhi hoga but she will still keep trying to downplay it.

Yeah, so far it does look like Malini herself was checking through Adi ka call log and dialed the last missed call number😆. Unless Prakash called this number again later and then Malini called back....but I doubt that.....it does look like Malini picked up Adi's phone on her own to call back this number and find out ki kaun hai.....cuz Prakash was responding like someone called him rather than the exchange one would have for a call being returned.

Anyways, hum log itna soch rahe hain but they can as usual go the route of axing the whole precap and go with the usual oblivious happy Malini route rather than showing her checking through Adi's phone logs just yet😆....I fully expect her to stick to oblivious mode as long as she can.....lol

Jaise Prakash ne soch kar bol diya ki it's hard to believe Adi could ever love a gaaon ki girl like Imlie, Malini ko bhi aisa kuch sochte huye dikhaa denge😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha even I was wondering about that. I guess he did take his grey shirt back if he spent a whole extra night in PD😆. But Imlie might have kept the flower he gave her to put in her hair.....maybe they will show it in another one of her imaginations about him in the coming epis😆.

I'm also waiting to see if the white shirt with the sindoor daag also makes a reappearance before Imlie comes back to T house😆.

Re: Adi....I totally agree with your paragraph here....while I could understand why Aparna was upset with him but the way she laid it on him in that scene kinda showed why he doesn't feel he can share his feelings to that extent with his family. He always keeps it to the point and matter of fact.....it is only with Imlie that he feels comfortable laying out all his feelings - flawed or otherwise. It would be nice if they provided more background on why he has become this way over the years but dunno if we will get that between all the drama of Malini related things in the coming days....lol

Aparna ka daantna and call out karma jhoot bolna tak theek tha but she really toom it further with poor malini jaap and you can't respect women like what ? Just stop aparna

What else really made me go🤪 Was she was also like batao and then his such a vulnerable bata sakte toh bata dete and again aparna's not to me ..am like seriously these so called apne of his everytime.he musters some courage to show some vulnerability show his weakness itna sa try to open up they 🤫 him in a sec.. let him say plz sunane ki koshish karo..apni side bolke kaam khatam nahi ho jaata...I felt that was such a different side of adi he probably did wanted some comfort from his mother despite her anger showing her he can be hurt too and isn't all that strong afterall and bada hi gaya toh shikayat nahi kar sakta.. I wish they had switched at that point to aparna going a bit soft and atleast trying to listen then going all auraton ki izzat stuff.

I would like to see that in future plz show us ke they are willing into listen too when he shows itna naazuk side to them...I mean can't really put the blame on him for shutting himself up emotionally like this when it is always shhhushh Don't say a word phir malini and her surf excel vishwaas ho ya mummy darling..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL oh come on....the writers have already been showing her like this for a while....kuch naya nahin hoga😆. They'll put in a token scene of Malini thinking to herself ki main yeh sab kya kar rahi hoon - mujhe typical shakki biwi nahin banna chahiye.....haha and then back to her usual smiling/happy wife mode. She did this in the past also when she was feeling upset over the Moti Roti incident, then woh V'day wala receipt incident. She will go back to that mode in some form I think.....suspicion bhi hoga but she will still keep trying to downplay it.

Yeah, so far it does look like Malini herself was checking through Adi ka call log and dialed the last missed call number😆. Unless Prakash called this number again later and then Malini called back....but I doubt that.....it does look like Malini picked up Adi's phone on her own to call back this number and find out ki kaun hai.....cuz Prakash was responding like someone called him rather than the exchange one would have for a call being returned.

Anyways, hum log itna soch rahe hain but they can as usual go the route of axing the whole precap and go with the usual oblivious happy Malini route rather than showing her checking through Adi's phone logs just yet😆....I fully expect her to stick to oblivious mode as long as she can.....lol

Jaise Prakash ne soch kar bol diya ki it's hard to believe Adi could ever love a gaaon ki girl like Imlie, Malini ko bhi aisa kuch sochte huye dikhaa denge😆

Ha ha at kuch naya nahi hoga with Malini😆

But if they still keep her stagnant it will be just ridiculous. Itna tamasha karne ke baad now things can't go back to how they were previously even in Malini's case. Her character also needs to show some progression be it negative or positive.

Yes chances are also there that they might chop off the precap scene altogether as they have done a few times before & do chop of all our musings😆