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Hi AY ji can u please post the recent aditya and imli scenes link

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Catching up on the thread just now and enjoyed reading all the analysis :). Apologies for not being able to respond as much to the posts today. It’s been a hectic weekend. Hope to be able to respond tomorrow.

One random thing that I forgot to mention earlier and I don’t know if someone has already mentioned it here. I was struck by this in the epi also that Adi entered his house and didn’t sense Malini’s absence. Such a contrast from that time when he instantly felt something (Imlie) missing when he came home and Imlie had gone to C house. Even when he didn’t know what was missing, he felt something was missing. This time, Malini has left the house and he can’t sense her absence....or I guess even her presence. He never really could to begin with. It’s only becoming more obvious now.

Absolutely!I’m not surprised by his reaction or lack thereof especially after the bridge scene.LOl, did he even see Malini while supposedly lying for her Aditya to come and save her?Nope!!

What I really want from the show is to show a strong Malini as well, there is so much potential in her character if you pleel back all the rauna dona and clinginess .This show is watched by millions of women around the country and I’m sure there are women who is probably going through what Malini is going through. It’ll be great to show a woman who rise strongly after her supposedly perfect relationship fall apart. It would be amazing to watch and be a great motivation for others.I know this is a remake and from what I read on wiki about the show is that Malini have a tragic ending but I hope the writers give her a different ending where she learns from her mistakes and her past and become a strong and formidable woman.Just my wish!😃

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Catching up on the thread just now and enjoyed reading all the analysis :). Apologies for not being able to respond as much to the posts today. It’s been a hectic weekend. Hope to be able to respond tomorrow.

One random thing that I forgot to mention earlier and I don’t know if someone has already mentioned it here. I was struck by this in the epi also that Adi entered his house and didn’t sense Malini’s absence. Such a contrast from that time when he instantly felt something (Imlie) missing when he came home and Imlie had gone to C house. Even when he didn’t know what was missing, he felt something was missing. This time, Malini has left the house and he can’t sense her absence....or I guess even her presence. He never really could to begin with. It’s only becoming more obvious now.

BS's sensors are active only for Imlie detection. Inko baaki kisi ke hone na hone se koi farak nahi padta. I really don't understand how Adi has turned out to be such a detached person raised in such a warm family. Iski na apne gharwalon se na baharwalon se koi khaas attachment. Maybe he was always a misfit in the family & hence developed high barriers for protecting his actual vulnerable side.

Only Imlie has managed to move past the barriers right from the start. They just clicked on an elemental level. It was as if he recognised a kindred spirit when he met her. He bonded with her so quickly on all levels. And now she is a part of himself. He recognises Imlie as his own person & not a separate entity.

I also now seem to recall that Rupi had commented that Adi had started to come home on a regular time after his marriage due to Bhabhi in the same epi. She was considering it to be Malini but really Adi must have changed his routine for Imlie only. Because we have seen how disconnected he is with Malini.

First time he had come home for lunch pre-marriage when Malini had informed him that his family and her would go shopping after lunch at home. The family & Malini had thought that it was because of her but he actually came because he was fearful about Imlie revealing their secret. That would have been his excuse to himself for returning home at an earlier regular time but he must have been subconsciously trying to be at home due to Imlie's presence.

The Tripathi family giving cold shoulder to Adi after his return is justified. We are feeling sympathy for Adi because we know what kind of emotional turmoil he is going through. But the T's anger is not without any reason.

Adi left home in a middle of a full fledged argument with his family giving the reason of work. Malini became a crybaby after that. They didn't know what issues Adi Malini are actually having to help them to sort it out. Later they found out that he had lied to them as well as in the office.

This increased their worry for him. On the other hand Malini continued to throw tantrums all day long. Their attempts to cheer her up were also wasted. Then Malini took the extreme step of leaving their home even after requesting her to wait for Adi to come back.

Then came Malini's mom who did not leave this opportunity to berate them. After all this, it is only right that they have targeted all their anger, resentment & worry towards Adi who is their own son. He left but the family was put through the wringer by Malini & her mom. Let's see how long they manage to stay angry with him.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

The Tripathi family giving cold shoulder to Adi after his return is justified. We are feeling sympathy for Adi because we know what kind of emotional turmoil he is going through. But the T's anger is not without any reason.

Adi left home in a middle of a full fledged argument with his family giving the reason of work. Malini became a crybaby after that. They didn't know what issues Adi Malini are actually having to help them to sort it out. Later they found out that he had lied to them as well as in the office.

This increased their worry for him. On the other hand Malini continued to throw tantrums all day long. Their attempts to cheer her up were also wasted. Then Malini took the extreme step of leaving their home even after requesting her to wait for Adi to come back.

Then came Malini's mom who did not leave this opportunity to berate them. After all this, it is only right that they have targeted all their anger, resentment & worry towards Adi who is their own son. He left but the family was put through the wringer by Malini & her mom. Let's see how long they manage to stay angry with him.

Exactly and due to all this i didn't find them giving him cold shouder extreme either.. they did suffer This time and thoda bohat ok seh lete but malini really exaggerated it and itna bada Mudda bana dia bechare tripathis ki 2 kodi ki izzat na chodi what else are they supposed to do.. lol so much for we couldn't find a better bahu 😆 the girl who literally gave No Hoots about them being humiliated in the process for no fault of theirs and tryign to pamper her haha

Originally posted by: jj0812

Absolutely!I’m not surprised by his reaction or lack thereof especially after the bridge scene.LOl, did he even see Malini while supposedly lying for her Aditya to come and save her?Nope!!

What I really want from the show is to show a strong Malini as well, there is so much potential in her character if you pleel back all the rauna dona and clinginess .This show is watched by millions of women around the country and I’m sure there are women who is probably going through what Malini is going through. It’ll be great to show a woman who rise strongly after her supposedly perfect relationship fall apart. It would be amazing to watch and be a great motivation for others.I know this is a remake and from what I read on wiki about the show is that Malini have a tragic ending but I hope the writers give her a different ending where she learns from her mistakes and her past and become a strong and formidable woman.Just my wish!😃

we all would like to see that However this is Indian television they cannot show you 2 Strong women at the same time.. it requires too much of Writing for them and one has to be a scapegoat in the bigger Frame and that will be malini unfortunately which is why she is made such a Toekn 3rd wheel now.. you can sympathize with her or hate her but she will not Be anything more unfortunately other then a sidey character... esp Later on.. they might even pack her up permanently depening on how things go but i don't see them Putting effort in writing a parallel Lead with the smae enthusiasm.. it is More then enough if we get stable and Continuity with the principal characters too caz after a while That becomes a chore for writers too and they start doing kuch Bhi.. 😆

One of my wishes is that Imlie starts calling BS as Aditya once they have both come to terms with their feelings for each other. Babushaeb is also endearing & I have got attached to it but frankly it is not exclusive. Even Mithi calls Dev BS & Imlie also calls Nishant as chote BS. I don't understand the logic in calling him chote BS. I thought Nishant was elder than Aditya. Please correct me if I am wrong.

As far as I recall Imlie has called him Aditya only once during some sort of ritual during 2nd PD trip. Adi was zapped when she called him as Aditya. She has called out his full name AKT many times but never calls him Aditya. I would like her to call him Aditya at least when they are alone in the future.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

One of my wishes is that Imlie starts calling BS as Aditya once they have both come to terms with their feelings for each other. Babushaeb is also endearing & I have got attached to it but frankly it is not exclusive. Even Mithi calls Dev BS & Imlie also calls Nishant as chote BS. I don't understand the logic in calling him chote BS. I thought Nishant was elder than Aditya. Please correct me if I am wrong.

As far as I recall Imlie has called him Aditya only once during some sort of ritual during 2nd PD trip. Adi was zapped when she called him as Aditya. She has called out his full name AKT many times but never calls him Aditya. I would like her to call him Aditya at least when they are alone in the future.

i am a bit too attached to Babusahib.. I mean yes it will definitely change to adi at some Point But I still would want It to be babusahib only for as long as possible.. Mujhe usmein bohat zyada apnapan lagta hai the way she says it.. Plus i have memories attached with another Chutki si ladki and her saab forever.. so emre ko Imeliya ki babusahibbbbb bohat pyari lagti hai.. i wish others stop using it.. ya imelia better find a more Exclusive term that is not just plain adi.. hhaha

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

i am a bit too attached to Babusahib.. I mean yes it will definitely change to adi at some Point But I still would want It to be babusahib only for as long as possible.. Mujhe usmein bohat zyada apnapan lagta hai the way she says it.. Plus i have memories attached with another Chutki si ladki and her saab forever.. so emre ko Imeliya ki babusahibbbbb bohat pyari lagti hai.. i wish others stop using it.. ya imelia better find a more Exclusive term that is not just plain adi.. hhaha

I am also attached to Imlie calling him BS. My only problem is that it is not exclusive to him😔.

If it was exclusive then I wouldn't have wished him to be called Aditya.

Also in case of Imlie & BS, this term is also a demarcation between their status. Her status in his life has already been so devalued, she was not given the haq to call him as her own.

So, now after becoming equal partners for each other, I would prefer her to call him Aditya. I wouldn't mind if the writers have some other exclusive name for him.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I am also attached to Imlie calling him BS. My only problem is that it is not exclusive to him😔.

If it was exclusive then I wouldn't have wished him to be called Aditya.

Also in case of Imlie & BS, this term is also a demarcation between their status. Her status in his life has already been so devalued, she was not given the haq to call him as her own.

So, now after becoming equal partners for each other, I would prefer her to call him Aditya. I wouldn't mind if the writers have some other exclusive name for him.

Yes, the term BS is used for people above you,right?It does not give her an equal standing in the relationship.I prefer something other than BS,something just between them?Also, someone please give her nice clothes , please!!Imlie herself is saying she does not want to be the naukrani, but she will probably go back to T house as one, the least they can do is give her some nice clothes