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Posted: 10 years ago
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Some people are unfortunate enough to not find true love in first try...we cant tell thm to stop looking...its their life their choice...nothing is right or wrong...
What is emotionally exhaustive for us might not be for others who are we to judge.

In olden times woman didnt hav a choice they were basically objects to be bartered from one family to other...no one has ever asked were our grandmothers really happy ?

Wen both ganders have a choice and economic independence thn def they will be more choosy divorce will increase I dont consider tht a bad thing...atleast it will make people cautious to choose right partner
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Blukitten

Some people are unfortunate enough to not find true love in first try...we can tell thm to stop looking...its their life their choice...nothing is right or wrong...

What is emotionally exhaustive for us might not be for others who are we to judge.

In olden times woman didnt hav a choice they were basically objects to be bartered from one family to other...no one has ever asked were our grandmothers really happy ?

Wen both ganders have a choice and economic independence thn def they will be more choosy divorce will increase I dont consider tht a bad thing...atleast it will make people cautious to choose right partner


Actually in the earlier days, there had been several instances of estrangement and separation but seldom got reported owing to certain dogmatic approach of the society. But , with economic and social independence and gender equality ,coupled with awareness of several legal clauses in the present day , we are getting more information of several unfortunate incidences of divorces.

But, it is true that rather than suffering violence and mental trauma , it is better to come out of the shackles and enjoy the freedom to get mental happiness and peace . It is a sin to aid the sinner to commit more sins.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually this is Ammaji's modus operandi...outwardly, she gave in to Bunty's emotional appeal and let him get married to his love, Sagarika.
Inside, she was raging!

Now her ultimate objective is to break Bunty-Sags marriage and get him married to her first choice Satya.

That is why she emotionally blackmailed Bunty into waiting to consummate his marriage.

She knows this oath of celibacy by Bunty is going to lead to marital problems between Bunty-Sags and then she will add fuel to the fire by mistreating and insulting Sags at every chance she gets.

Eventually Sags will get sick and tired of the Momma's boy puppet son Bunty and his evil Momma's daily bashing and she will go back to her maayka (Ammaji is praying everyday for this to happen)

Then Ammaji will get their marriage annulled (not consummated marriages can be easily annulled)

And then she will grin showing all her 32 teeth and get Bunty married to her favorite Daayan Satya. 😆
Edited by pallavi25 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Actually this is Ammaji's modus operandi...outwardly, she gave in to Bunty's emotional appeal and let him get married to his love, Sagarika.

Inside, she was raging!

Now her ultimate objective is to break Bunty-Sags marriage and get him married to her first choice Satya.

That is why she emotionally blackmailed Bunty into waiting to consummate his marriage.

She knows this oath of celibacy by Bunty is going to lead to marital problems between Bunty-Sags and then she will add fuel to the fire by mistreating and insulting Sags at every chance she gets.

Eventually Sags will get sick and tired of the Momma's boy puppet son Bunty and his evil Momma's daily bashing and she will go back to her maayka (Ammaji is praying everyday for this to happen)

Then Ammaji will get their marriage annulled (not consummated marriages can be easily annulled)

And then she will grin showing all her 32 teeth and get Bunty married to her favorite Daayan Satya. 😆

Ur 100% right I have actually seen some MILs using this tactic...same happned with my frn...they had a love marriage...the mil was suggary sweet before marriage...after few months she arrived at their place n drama started...u know she actually had the audacity to tell my frn's hubby not to have kids...coz then he would have a family of his own n forget abt her😕

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Blukitten

Ur 100% right I have actually seen some MILs using this tactic...same happned with my frn...they had a love marriage...the mil was suggary sweet before marriage...after few months she arrived at their place n drama started...u know she actually had the audacity to tell my frn's hubby not to have kids...coz then he would have a family of his own n forget abt her😕


Exactly! All this drama is nothing but to separate son from his wife!
Actually if they had kids, then it would be even more difficult for her to break her son's marriage!
God knows what these mothers are made of...😕 deliberately ruining their son's life!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Since this show is about Bunty and his dilemma to deal with two ladies of his life and his quest to become both the obedient and perfect son on one hand and to be a perfect husband on another hand , ultimately he will be the one who will be suffering the most for this act of sadism exercised by Ammaji and the infliction of the mental injury to Sagarika ..lets see how the CVs deal with this problem which is the root cause of several broken homes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pussycat

Since this show is about Bunty and his dilemma to deal with two ladies of his life and his quest to become both the obedient and perfect son on one hand and to be a perfect husband on another hand , ultimately he will be the one who will be suffering the most for this act of sadism exercised by Ammaji and the infliction of the mental injury to Sagarika ..lets see how the CVs deal with this problem which is the root cause of several broken homes.


Mishraji's father didnt accept Ammaji as they had a love marriage so Mishraji set up separate household for his wife.
When Sags gets totally disgusted by all this, Bunty will also separate from his family and set up house with Sagarika!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pussycat


Actually in the earlier days, there had been several instances of estrangement and separation but seldom got reported owing to certain dogmatic approach of the society. But , with economic and social independence and gender equality ,coupled with awareness of several legal clauses in the present day , we are getting more information of several unfortunate incidences of divorces.

But, it is true that rather than suffering violence and mental trauma , it is better to come out of the shackles and enjoy the freedom to get mental happiness and peace . It is a sin to aid the sinner to commit more sins.

With wide eyes ,with great appreciation I read your post and yes ..with high esteem ,approved your words !👏An assertive decision with highly effective and appropriate words !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Mishraji's father didnt accept Ammaji as they had a love marriage so Mishraji set up separate household for his wife.
When Sags gets totally disgusted by all this, Bunty will also separate from his family and set up house with Sagarika!



That is what Babuji said to Amma the other day. I wonder what sadistic plan Amma and Satya use to separate Bunty and Sag's. I am sure they will fail big time.
Edited by ppp333 - 10 years ago

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