How do you feel right now?"
"I hurt like hell."
"You'll feel worse tomorrow."
"So?"
"So, better get a jump on this while you still feel...not as bad."
"What kind of logic is that?"
" logic that works for me "
So I am going to take this illogical show and try to make logical sense out if it
When I am watching HD , Sometimes I'm confused by what I think is really obvious. But what I think is really obvious obviously isn't obvious.
Whenever a man does a thoroughly stupid thing, it is always from the noblest motives.( I read this some where and stuck in my mind ) Is Rishi playing game ? He did tell Indira that she needs to go with every thing he does so is this game plan? Try to remember his expression when he close the front door, his behavior with Zara . Specially when she tried to hug him . His expression proves my point . He looked like he was sorry and confused . So far, about morals, I know only that what is moral is what you feel good after and what is immoral is what you feel bad after. So what are Rishi's real feeling?
Please donot agree with me because Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.
Now Indira ,I used to love this charecter because she had my philosophy of life which is ",If anyone hits me, they can expect to be hit back, and harder. I never turn the other cheek because in my experience that doesn't work." ( sorry I am not Gandhi follower .i donot want to heart your feeling ) so what happened now . Why didn't she stopped Rishi from inflicting wound or man handling her ? I am not saying Rishi is right . He is 100x wrong . But I am talking about Hitler.my mother once told me and I follow this advise till today. "Never let a man put his hands on you without your permission." What happen to Indira today ? Why did not she answer him back ? Indira who fights for every ones rights , wants to give justice to CC people , why was she so passive and,lets him mistreat her?
Why no one is talking about perfect test name DNA with Indu and Indira ? Logic is easier said than done, emotions are easier done than said.
How did Radhe , Vanraj Seher know all this and came out if support ? Indu , I understand she is Indira's child and I know I will know my mother any where and any time . think about this .. why is Kutumb not able to recognize Indira ?
Now about HD writers . They want to spread Social massages . Surrogacy .,Violence against women . Cheating , child trafficking and many others . We sat infront of TV and watch this nonsense for different reasons.
But same time they are giving wrong massages too and we are tolerating them too. multipal shadia .grand father with mistress . After molesting young women Grand father is kept home with two young grand daughters? spousal abuse . Physical abuse with slaps and Chappals . Verbal abuse by mom Kutumb . girls are not excelling in school . We donot even see them going to school. Men with out work . Drinking doing stupid things and girls are raised in this home? Husband like Kulbhushan is tolerated by Nanda Bhabhi who is educated girl? Many many examples .
If we tolerated all this with" Just grunt and bear it"mentality . why are we raising our voices now ? No relationship is positive in this show .they did even cross limit with Ma and Beti relationship and made it negative .
We are reacting this way because we are in love with Inshi and we not able to tolerate pain . But think about Rishi and Shweta relationships . was Rishi right then? So many of us encourage that behaviors of mistreatment then why now? we are voicing frustration ? Only for Inshi ? Is this Double standard?
My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration is ,set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual.
Soory I am very emotional and once my best teacher told me that when I write with my heart I make many Spelling mistakes . Sorry in advance .