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Posted: 12 years ago

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ma ka shraap definitely lagta hai 🤣

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Walden

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Let me clarify my position...If Indira/Husna decided to have a relationship with Kabir (even after knowing that he was married to Noor), then she should follow-thru with that emotion and decision even after her memory comes back. Her memory, or lack thereof, does not and should not diminish the feelings she had for Kabir. Just because she had no memory of Rishi at that point does not, in my books, nullify the emotions she felt for Kabir. Don't know if that makes any sense!

About living in Pakistan or India...I would argue that Indira had little freedom (or didn't allow herself the freedom at times) to live her life even when she lived in CC all those years. Kinda ironic right!
In cc she had enjoyed her full freedom.' to take care of sharma's 'was her own decision 1)not to rescue munna from police custudy 2) to search dukha for mandira 3) to return money of sameer ---- there is big list

I understand what you want to say.(but did not like it) ' one should continue with his current decision and try to compromise with present . try to search happiness in that instate of becoming sad with past memories. In some cases ,rather many cases this policy is useful to spend life happily .
but where you have chance and capacity to change the situation then you should use it.
indira should give second thought . whom she love more Rishi or saheb. where she will get scope and happiness . if answer is rishi her past then she should return to him . no need to continue with saheb.
I hate this dilemma and story of two two wives and three husbands. I want to see story of dashing dominating lady fighting for justice and survival with the help of rishi.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: nutan7

@red...I agree with you

@blue...I don't know, to me this sounds like saying...hey Saheb, back then, you were the best option I had so I went with you but now that I have a different option which I like better, I'm going to chose that one. I don't know, it just sounds wrong to me. Anyway, I think people should look at the situation the same way they looked at Rishi's situation back in the day- so in the interest of maintaining consistency, I'll apply the same logic to Indira's situation that I applied to rishi-zara scenario.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Walden

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@red...I agree with you
@blue...I don't know, to me this sounds like saying...hey Saheb, back then, you were the best option I had so I went with you but now that I have a different option which I like better, I'm going to chose that one. I don't know, it just sounds wrong to me. Anyway, I think people should look at the situation the same way they looked at Rishi's situation back in the day- so in the interest of maintaining consistency, I'll apply the same logic to Indira's situation that I applied to rishi-zara scenario.

I don't know Dia but may be after she gets her memory back, she might want to stay back with Rishi... I an not making a decision for her but there is a high possibility that sheer might choose him over saheb. I would respect both her decisions. With Rishi , the scenario was different... Rishi had married zara in all his conscience... leaving her would have been unfair, not only to zara but it would mean that he somewhere cheated himself... But India had an excuse of memory loss... She can still say that being unaware of past, she had made the decision but she now realises that she loves Rishi the most and would choose to live with him... Rishi didn't have this choice...

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Posted: 12 years ago

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font color="#0000ff">I understand what you want to say.(but did not like it) ' one should continue with his current decision and try tocompromisewith present . try to search happiness in that instate of becoming sad with past memories. In some cases ,rather many cases this policy is useful to spend life happily .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">but where you have chance andcapacity to change the situation then you should use it.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">indira should give second thought . whom she love more Rishi or saheb. where she will get scope and happiness . if answer is rishi her past then she should return to him . no need to continue with saheb.</font>

<font color="#339900">I hate thisdilemma and story of two two wives and three husbands.I want to see story of dashing dominating lady</font>fighting for justice and survival with the help of rishi.

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@red...I agree with you

@blue...I don't know, to me this sounds like saying...hey Saheb, back then, you were the best option I had so I went with you but now that I have a different option which I like better, I'm going to chose that one. I don't know, it just sounds wrong to me. Anyway, I think people should look at the situation the same way they looked at Rishi's situation back in the day- so in the interest of maintaining consistency, I'll apply the same logic to Indira's situation that I applied to rishi-zara scenario.

I don't know Dia but may be after she gets her memory back, she might want to stay back with Rishi... I an not making a decision for her but there is a high possibility that sheer might choose him over saheb. I would respect both her decisions. With Rishi , the scenario was different... Rishi had married zara in all his conscience... leaving her would have been unfair, not only to zara but it would mean that he somewhere cheated himself... But India had an excuse of memory loss... She can still say that being unaware of past, she had made the decision but she now realises that she loves Rishi the most and would choose to live with him... Rishi didn't have this choice...

Saumya, knowing what I know so far about Indira/Husna and Kabir (which I suppose is not much), I can only imagine one scenario where Indira chosing Rishi would make sense to me. That would be if she gains all her memories back and realizes that the person that she truly is (with all her memories intact) can not be attracted to a person like Kabir. Basically she would be saying that the person who fell for Kabir was not her (which I find difficult to believe- Even with ML, I feel like you still retain some sense of who you are). But this is HD and I suppose they'll go with the idea that with ML, you lose every sense of your identity, your likes/dislikes, your sense of right/wrong/morality, and so Husna was really not Indira. In this case then, the decision will not be between deciding who she loves more (if she is Indira, then she only loves Rishi), it will be chosing between love and zimmedari (in the sense that does she owe Kabir and babli anything now that she is not Husna) 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Actually, now that I think about it, both Kabir and Rishi are married to other women at this time 🤣 so I don't think it matters who Indira chooses 🤣 I kinda hope that she chooses herself and tries to be happy on her own (without having any husbands 😆), at least for a little white. Companionship is important, but it should not be our only identity. And Indira has never had a identity of her own...its always been either the sharma's, Rishi, or Kabir. Same goes for Rishi too.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Ok... You mean after a memory loss you still love the same person... 😕

If not, then after getting her memory back she very well has a right to choose.
Likes/dislikes... Morality and all, I can understand... But then we boil down to your golgappa and chocolate analogy 😆
I think, we have a different set of axioms... To me.losing your memory will make you forget your love... And after you get your memory back completely you have all rights to be confused 😆 instead I just tried putting myself in the same scenario and I didn't know who to choose. But I think she should choose saheb... But I don't see why it would be wrong if she chooses Rishi.

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Saumya

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Basically she would be saying that the person who fell for Kabir was not her...

That would be hilarious... How can someone just deny getting attracted 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: _saumya_
Basically she would be saying that the person who fell for Kabir was not her...

That would be hilarious... How can someone just deny getting attracted 😆

Stop laughing at and mocking my out of box ideas 🤣 Bashing ke liye report karna padega mujhe aapko 😆

But you and me are actually on the same page...I also agree that ML is not an excuse to say that she didn't or does not still love Kabir...so she will have to accept that she loves two people.

Okay regarding why I think she should chose Kabir, I will explain in detail at a later time 😆 Yeh confusing bakwas situations ke baare me soch kar my head hurts 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hi every one!! Now my time to put my two cents in.

Power of first love is incredible !! It always wins!!! And you never loose interest in your first love. After death of first love if someone remarries they try to find their frist love in second love.

Now . We do not know circumstance with Kabir and Husna! We still do not know who is Husna!! He calls Indira Husna. If Husna was Kabir's fist love and he was forced to marry Noor then he has every right to love Husna and find her . But it might not be our Indira !!! I have strong feelings that its Zara!! There has to be reason for Zara's presence and MK's last dialog ." I made you"

Rishi loved Zara and still married to her . He still in love with his first love !! He has dedicated his time and efforts to get her well and give mother to Indu! . He is wiling to do any thing for her.

when Indira gets her memory back and has full thinking powers and she has to decide between Kabir and Rishi . I think she will choose Rishi , her first love !! She will come to know Kabir was in love with Husna!! Not Indira!! This happened during memory loss and she had no control over it , just the way , same thing happened with Rishi and Zara . Nothing wrong with either situation. They both are victim of circumstance!! They both will choose their first love .

On other hand if Indira chooses Kabir most of my friends will not return and I will say good buy because I cherish first love phenomenon !!! I just cannot approve Indira's division to stay with Kabir.

She carried her Wedding Joda and mangalsutra with her. She had only Rishi's memory, she was fighting to get him back!! Off course this has change with the song !!! For me she should be with her fist love!!!it ment to be!!!

DIA ,I do not think Indira will have more Freedom in Pakistan or she will have her identify back! She will be more confused and will live very dependent life . She is used to independent and fearless life. I know about Muslim law about multiple wives and I cannot believe any one in their right mind will be happy with Sautan!! Staying with Noor will be one big disaster for her! In CC she will be happier because she will be in her own environment .I know it's not the best but its her OWN! It's like bad mother is better than no mother !

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