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Heema and Pari, again without knowing or speculating about what they are going to show, with the advent of these modern advances which make IVF, egg/sperm donation, and surrogacy possible, one has to wonder if this is all okay or is a means of exploiting people, especially people who are financially struggling. Kinda similar to organ donation- I think many poor people in India sell their organs for financial compensation. Is being a surrogate for a fee the same thing? I don't know. But I do agree with you that, in my opinion, marrying a second time to have children is basically saying that your wife's primary role is to give you kids. And the women to ask their husbands to marry for children are just as wrong. I wonder what happens if the man is the one who is infertile. Are women allowed to have a second husband in those cases?[/QUOTE.Dia. You wrote exactly what i was thinking ! we have seen men remarrying for a child but never ever seen any women , going that route . Woman swallows her pride and stays with Sautan or returns back to her family. This has happened in my family but with my cousins bad luck or good luck her husband was infertile ! ( After the second marrige they went for testing ) and he ended up with no child and lots of head aches !! Adaption was never consider by my cousins husband !!For infertile couple adaption should be the fist choice not remarriage !! Remarrying some one for a child makes me furious !!!we ladies have long way to go !!!! Good points !!
Anupamaa
