Some questions- Edited Pg2 - Page 3

By God, Walden! If my memory serves me right, you and I had a bit of a shuttlecock on some of this 😛 Haven't read Pari's thread, so no idea about the context, really. Will hunt it down and read.

Originally posted by: Walden

Keeping myself at Rishi's place if this happened, I would have said Zara you are my love and Indira is my responsibility. I will never be able to pay off her debt. Since Indira is mentally challenged and no one out of SF is ready to take care of hers, so i wont be able to leave Indira in the hands of those butchers who are only after money. Honestly, I don't know what I would have done, but I have to applaud Rishi for having such clarity of thought even in such absurd circumstances. But I agree that what he did and said was completely appropriate. I can't think of another word that Rishi could have used...should he have said to Zara...hey she's my 1st love, my soulmate?

@underlined: D i am just like 🤣 reading that; Its less even if he have had said that he would have been bashed, he must have said She is My current wife 🤣 now you are my past zara ji 🤣

on a serious note he said what all a sensible person would have said!!! If either of above he have, had said then i wouldnt have minded tagging him as selfish person, but he did what was apt for the circumstances!!!

about the word Zimmedari a person who can not take care of themselves are referred as Zimmedari like SF were zimmedari for Indira, though love of Indira for her family was never any less yet she called them zimmedari!!! No love stories are like Romeo and Juliet nowadays exist I don't think they have ever existed in real life but I guess thats what people expect to see onscreen- something completely unrealistic and made up like...if you love person X, then you can have no emotion or cocnern for person Y

See walden, Our statements can never change the thinking of anyone; because everyone is preoccupied wit concept of Love happening for once, but its only life which can make them learn, such thoughs arise because either people didnt see world yet or dont want to see!!

after all someone said; its upon us if we see glass half empty or half full

Yes I sometimes wonder as well if people who make those claims are just too young, or live lives that are extremely sheltered. Because anyone who has seen real life will not have such a narrow view of these circumstances. Now let's just hope that the CV's are not narrow-minded.

About CVS walden i can only say they themselves dont know what they are writing for the show Yes you said it true anyone who has seen the real life would have understood all these dimensions of love

, we all must live a practical life, sometimes it sounds great listening big words but in real no one can follow those great sayings!! I think in Rishi's case, it has been even better. He has let his actions speak louder than his words and thats what matters the most!

Yes but actions can be felt only by the one for whom it is being done, as for now its Indira who can feel what rishi did for her; the third person can never understand it, words are seen by others but only indira can only feel the warmth of what he did for her.

That is very true. I did not think of it this way.

We all assume ideal situations but when it comes on ourselves; we realize how difficult is to stand on those words which we were telling for other, So before questiong Rishi for his word zimmedari and accepting zara, why cant we question ourselves that if we were at his place??? Life will be better if everyone starts thinking what i would have done if this has happened to us!! Yes absoultely...thats why I posed this question..put me in Rishi's shoes and tell me what you would have done. But not many people want to tell me 😭
aww D dont cry 😭 here healthy debates are overlooked always!!
Yes I think I should learn my lession now. Its easy to make baseless claims and accusations against characters but difficult to defend them with reason and logic. I thought I would give people a platform to do that but guessing by the dismal response, I don't think reason and logic interest too many people. When I make these topics, I honestly am not interested in the characters (because we all know that CV's make them do inconsistent things all the time)...but I do think that there is some utility in trying to understand and contemplate some larger issues using these characters as the backdrop. But like you said, most people are not interested in personal introspection.

Yes exactly, i understand; even i know your topics are more about general situations which you co-relate with the characters but here only Criticism/Appreciation of characters plays a major role!! People are least bothered to discuss situations/conditions.

Zimmedari just means a responsibility!! as i said earlier a person who can not take care of himself is definately zimmedari. As SF was for Indira, but love for them was not less ever. Its called Gender Discrimination or other category discriminations 😆 When the same word was used by Indira it was all greatness and if Rishi used that he was tagged with bad names.

Ye Andha Kanoon 🤣

Shweta was also a replacement D, and if would have accepted her, there would have been lots of enjoyment on forum, but since he never accepted her, he was attacked!! and as he accepted Zara who was a look alike of Indira dats only the fault of rishi :P has zara been played by different actress no one would have bothered about his love for hers. Very true. Asli sach!!! But I don't understand why people have a problem with Rishi falling for someone who is similar to Indira...isin't this the most natural thing for a person to do?

its all about role played by SV falling for role played by RP!! here lies the absolute problem

sorry if it went off topic but some questions are clear when seen from the neutral eyes keeping our feelings for a particular character aside!! You stayed right on topic 😊 Thanks for your comments

🤗 Your Topics are really interesting D!! its always fun answering your posts!! i have to use brains for it over heart 😃 Thank you for that compliment;)) And I have fun reading your responses 😃

Wish I had so much of energy to do the whole thing... Neways nice post...

Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

By God, Walden! If my memory serves me right, you and I had a bit of a shuttlecock on some of this 😛 Haven't read Pari's thread, so no idea about the context, really. Will hunt it down and read.

Originally posted by: sumitbigfan

Wish I had so much of energy to do the whole thing... Neways nice post...