Zara: darkest and most powerful tragedy - Page 2

Originally posted by: ashne

Wrote this in the AT - copy pasting it here😊

Nikhi, ur feelings are echoed by many. Others have different ways of looking at the current situation and everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

Till now it was Rishi's dil ki awaaz and how he is always right. What tortured life he has had. He is suffering between 3 women. My foot (just like what u said). If he was so abused by these women, why didn't he cut himself free. People who remain in such abusive relationships are to be equally blamed. I don't think he wanted to be free. Just like people say that Indira didn't have an identity outside of looking after SN, Rishi didn't have one with out Indira, Shweta, Indu etc. he always had a choice. He fell in love with a girl who never gave him priority in her life. I think she was very clear that her family would always come first. He could have walked away from her then, but I never saw him cribbing that he came second in Indira's life - then why are people getting so angry at Indira for. After Indira died he could have again walked away from Shweta, but he did not do that either. So my view is that, if he walks out of SN and that life where would he go. If you let urself be used by others time and again then u have none to blame but urself. In this case Indira was the same too. I agree with some of what you have said. I've said this in many of my posts. for a long time now (but no one seemed to agree before- iI wonder why 😉) While all these characters have faced difficult circumstances, all 4 of them..Indira, Shweta, Zara, and Rishi...have coped with them in the most unhealthy of ways! But regarding being abused by these women (I don't thnk anyone has said that- at least I haven't- yes when we are joking around we say things like teeno auraten uske peeche hain and all:).

Till 2 days before he was all over zara, fooled/lied to his own daughter to marry his so called love. Never gave or had one ounce of sincerity in his love for Zara. She was just a replacement till Indira arrived. I'm not sure what the basis of these accusations is...if you are interested, I responded to them in my thread "some questions pg2" feel free to read and let me know what your thoughts are I used to feel weird when zara kept saying to prove his love. But why wouldn't she say that. he says one thing and does another. One time he says zara is his life the next minute he is all my shrimathiji this, my shrimathiji that. So according to you, sincerely loving Zara means that he should turn off all his care and concern for Indira. The two have to be mutually exclusive? Is that right? When he comes home and sees Indira unconscious, he should go to Zara and ask her "how was your day honey?" I will agree that Rishi accusing Zara of Indira's kidnapping wasn't right...but what about Zara's trust in Rishi. Why doesen't anyone question that? You may say that Rishi has given her plenty of reasons to be suspicious...i'd say isin't that the same with Rishi..hasn't Zara given him enough reasons to be suspicous...leaving Indira at the mental asylum (just 24 hrs after Indira came back), watching as a mute spectator while guruma and savita were doing their voodoo magic, grabbing Indira and throwing her to the floor...So yes there is no trust from either side...why just blame rishi? I also discussed this in my thread...feel free to read if you like. How can anyone tolerate. i have also read view points on how Zara is not the same person that rishi fell in love with. i'm sure Zara feels the same way about rishi too.

Actually I disagree...Rishi is exactly the same person Zara fell in love with and he has proven that. Do you remember the conversation that Rishi and Zara had right after they returned from Mumbai when Indira had scratched Rishi's arm. Zara said to Rishi "you can't see anyone getting hurt." She was right. Ex-wife or not, Rishi could not see Indira being mistreated or neglected.

I'm so unhappy that the cvs decided to take this turn to gain trps. It just doesn't make sense, like u said that a cop - who was seemingly well settled in her life - would loose herself so. i don't find rishi's love for Indira great anymore. it was so before the leap not anymore. One minute he is willing to put her in a mental asylum at zara's behest and at other times he pushes and shoves her to show anger - now he is crying that Indira is dead. Aren't you just contradicting what you just said in the last paragraph...you said he had no love for Zara and was always concerend about Indira..and now you are saying that he has no love for Indira and he only loves Zara? Maybe if you try to see things from Rishi's perspective, it will be a bit clearer because

I really truly honestly don't understand what Rishi gains from any of this??? If he just wanted Zara (as she was fit and fine and just like Indira and he doesen't love Indira anymore anyway), then why not just walk away from SN with Zara? And if he just wanted Indira (Indira is back, don't need her replacement), why would be waste his time trying to work things out with Zara??? Please explain this to me...what does Rishi gain by this? Because at one instant you claim that he never loved Zara and the next instant you claim that his love for Indira is not there anymore. So I'm super confused. Wouldn't it be easier for him to just give up his responsbility or committment to one of these women and say to hell with her? He can easily say this to Indira because theoretically he does now owe her anything- who in this world expects a dead person to come back from the grave? But what baffles me the most is how people cannot even show an ounce of appreciation for the guy who is trying to do the right thing in the most difficult of circumstances? And why do people expect something so unnatural from him-- that if he loves one woman, he can have no love or concern for the other? When he moved on with Zara, does that imply that all his love for Indira had been turned off (if Indira had come back or not is besides the point). Is that really how you think real human emotions work? ( if it is, then I guess there is no room for further discussion). I don't know about you, but I've seen many real life couples where one of the spouses have lost their 1st husband or wife but they remember them fondly. And their 2nd spouse understands that the deceased will always hold a special place in their partners heart (and may even always be their partners soulmate) but how does this diminish the truthfulness or sincerity of the love they feel for the 2nd spouse. I guess it all comes down to how open one's interpretation of love, human emotions, and human acceptance is. I like to think that people are capable of a lot. I guess you think otherwise. Please don't misunderstand me--I'm not implying that Rishi should have both women in his life- I think you will agree that this has never been his intention. But to expect someone to just turn off their feelings for someone they held so dearly is completely beyond me.

what was that dialogue - we came alone, but will go together' . I didn't find any sincerity in it either. Suddenly for everyone his so called pure love for zara is just a galath faimy I don't think its a galath faimy...I think he did love Zara...now what the CV's show from hereon is their perogative and they may ruin his character but not so far - how come. I guess there is no point in believing in rishi's dil now. so everybody is rooting for the next best thing his so called love for Indira.