Kanan . Have been ever angery with your self or with some one up to the point that you are not responsible for your action? I have experience this anger many times. I am not explosive but some thing makes you so mad that you just cannot think about reaction after your action !! Angry person cannot be calm down unless that anger is replaced by another emotion like crying or screaming ? Which one would you pick? VERY EASY TO RIGHT BUT EXTREAMLY DIFFICULT TO FOLLOW!!
To answer the point in bold, yes, I have 😛 But very very few times...it takes a lot for me to lose my temper and once lost, takes a lot to make me sane.
Let me clarify what I meant about Rishi calming down...he needs to do this. What I meant is that he has slapped Zara...that cannot be reversed. Being Rishi, who does not resort to violence ever, he will think about this later. And also feel guilty about having slapped her.
But all guilt and remorse aside, at that time, when he is rid of his temper and is able to take an objective view of the situation, he should also step back and think about what brought it on. He will realize that it was his own indecision (or tendency to allow others too much space) that has caused it. Then, from there on, instead of reacting to situations, he should act. Even if it means reversing some of his own decisions, which he might have left to others or made for the happiness of others.
This is a fervent hope, and I am sure the CVs cannot afford to give him a brain. They need someone to sacrifice and it will be him again.