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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22

Kanan . Have been ever angery with your self or with some one up to the point that you are not responsible for your action? I have experience this anger many times. I am not explosive but some thing makes you so mad that you just cannot think about reaction after your action !! Angry person cannot be calm down unless that anger is replaced by another emotion like crying or screaming ? Which one would you pick? VERY EASY TO RIGHT BUT EXTREAMLY DIFFICULT TO FOLLOW!!


To answer the point in bold, yes, I have 😛 But very very few times...it takes a lot for me to lose my temper and once lost, takes a lot to make me sane.

Let me clarify what I meant about Rishi calming down...he needs to do this. What I meant is that he has slapped Zara...that cannot be reversed. Being Rishi, who does not resort to violence ever, he will think about this later. And also feel guilty about having slapped her.

But all guilt and remorse aside, at that time, when he is rid of his temper and is able to take an objective view of the situation, he should also step back and think about what brought it on. He will realize that it was his own indecision (or tendency to allow others too much space) that has caused it. Then, from there on, instead of reacting to situations, he should act. Even if it means reversing some of his own decisions, which he might have left to others or made for the happiness of others.

This is a fervent hope, and I am sure the CVs cannot afford to give him a brain. They need someone to sacrifice and it will be him again.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Walden

@ bold- absolutely. I mean you'd think that he would learn by now that allowing others to make decisions for him has only turned out miserably (be it marriage with Shweta, hiding Indira's truth from Indu etc.) Please cv's, I beg of you- please give this guy his brain back! In the meantime, I have some suggestions for him. Since he is unable to make a rational decision in these circumstances, I advise him to use some tried and tested ways of decision making. I find "Eeny, meeny, miny, moe" to be the best. But if that's too unromantic, taking off flower petals will work too...I love zara...I must care for LW...I love Zara. 🤣

@bold: 🤣🤣

I can picture this. But the last petal might present him with a dilemma again. What then? Chits? Tossing a coin?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

To answer the point in bold, yes, I have 😛 But very very few times...it takes a lot for me to lose my temper and once lost, takes a lot to make me sane.

Let me clarify what I meant about Rishi calming down...he needs to do this. What I meant is that he has slapped Zara...that cannot be reversed. Being Rishi, who does not resort to violence ever, he will think about this later. And also feel guilty about having slapped her.

But all guilt and remorse aside, at that time, when he is rid of his temper and is able to take an objective view of the situation, he should also step back and think about what brought it on. He will realize that it was his own indecision (or tendency to allow others too much space) that has caused it. Then, from there on, instead of reacting to situations, he should act. Even if it means reversing some of his own decisions, which he might have left to others or made for the happiness of others.

This is a fervent hope, and I am sure the CVs cannot afford to give him a brain. They need someone to sacrifice and it will be him again.


I am not taking CVs side but I want you to go on Pari's thread about RIshi and read my answer to Walden . And you will,understand the way CV is portraying RIshi. They are showing him as Depressed person . All of us want every thing to be perfect ! Do not agree with them 100 % of the times I am do not approve of their writting but I understand Rishi the way they are writing it, lso I am tring to understand ZARA . I never understood Indira . That's beyond me . I have lost my temper few times but after that I learn to manage it !! I have to be pushed very hard for me to loose control too!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

@bold: 🤣🤣

I can picture this. But the last petal might present him with a dilemma again. What then? Chits? Tossing a coin?

Arre nahi, he has to go with whatever the flower decides for him. But the chits idea is good too. A neutral third party can make sure that both chits have different names and maybe he can have Indu make the selection (this way he'll feel less guilty about whatever the final decision may be- transferring blame to Indu😉)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22


I am not taking CVs side but I want you to go on Pari's thread about RIshi and read my answer to Walden . And you will,understand the way CV is portraying RIshi. They are showing him as Depressed person . All of us want every thing to be perfect ! Do not agree with them 100 % of the times I am do not approve of their writting but I understand Rishi the way they are writing it, lso I am tring to understand ZARA . I never understood Indira . That's beyond me . I have lost my temper few times but after that I learn to manage it !! I have to be pushed very hard for me to loose control too!!

Heema, I read the post in Pari's thread and a lot of things do make sense now. The perspective does change now. Hopefully, they'll show him healing also.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Walden

Arre nahi, he has to go with whatever the flower decides for him. But the chits idea is good too. A neutral third party can make sure that both chits have different names and maybe he can have Indu make the selection (this way he'll feel less guilty about whatever the final decision may be- transferring blame to Indu😉)

@bold: If he is suicidal enough to leave anything to Indu, then that's the end of all discussion. She just has to blackmail him one more time and the decision will be made! By her, of course 😃

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Zara should leave rishi

Rishi is not deserve for zara
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rishi give full freedom to indu what indu demand he always give us


Fiinally he marry with indira to keep indu happy

This is disgusting

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