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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

Jes I agree with you never ever once did she try to talk to Barkha to stop blaming him...she does wat ever makes Barkha happy...But laajo did told Barkh to stop blaming Nikhil as it was accident and he was A child and to forgive him...cause he craves for his mothers love...

i can bet she ddi it coz Nikhil was not being cosy with her .he wants chipku Nikhil just like her ..n bcoz of Barkha he was not doing chipku things ..so she tried to convince butt hat too just once in near 10 years!!!! and Laajo even before leaving the house,this is what she asked for Brakha ..to forgive Nikhil and Love him at least now :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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aww JesšŸ¤—I guess we have the same kind of feeling about all thisšŸ˜†

Just tell me if you can remember...is there going to ishana downfall cause I soo wanted...I cant stand her her being mahaan...I want Nikhil to shout at her for herting our laajo and for not trusting his love...Even though its not lovešŸ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

aww JesšŸ¤—I guess we have the same kind of feeling about all thisšŸ˜†

Just tell me if you can remember...is there going to ishana downfall cause I soo wanted...I cant stand her her being mahaan...I want Nikhil to shout at her for herting our laajo and for not trusting his love...Even though its not lovešŸ˜†

yes we do! šŸ˜†šŸ¤—

i simply forgot that yaar and i m not even trying to remember it and then leak the news to u all ..maybe u all wil not feel happy or something like that ..let it be a secret ..our top secret about kuchiku chipku Ishu! šŸ˜‰šŸ˜ƒ
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...

Thank you for ue comment dear ..u totally said all ..and i can't agree more! :D
at the end Love is about loving urself and various ppl choose various way ..but they do it for same reason!

totally agree on your points about Laajo and Ishana .. both defies totally opposite forms of Love ..one believes in giving others happiness at any cost and one believes in being happy at any cost!

And,about Nikhil i can't agree more than this ..the reason for this post was Nikhil ..one friends here ziks believes that he doesn't love Laajo(don't feel offered,just saying for clearing my point) and says ' He admires her, likes her character likes her innocence, likes her cheerfulness . Thats it not more than that .' ..now this is what i believe is Love .. when it comes to Laajo,he is guilt free ..he always find positive vibes around her. he feels Laajo defies Life(said by him) ..he is not asked to care for Laajo but he is for Ishana ..everyone keeps pushing him towards Ishana ..but he always runs towards Laajo .. that simply can prove whom he loves .. and guilt works in case of Ishana,not Laajo's ..so vivid! and ishana has always used him ..she never tried to make him guilt free but keeps pushing him harder ..she never loved him anyways .. but Laajo even before leaving house all she asked from Barkha was to forgive her son as he needs his mom more than anything!


u totally amde the points clear and thank you! 😳



I have been reading the replies you have made in this post and I can see and that we are on the same page. I absolutely agree with the points you have pointed out in the reply to my post. Like you said for Nikhil Lajoo is the epitome of Life !!

That is why guilt doesn't work on him when it comes to Lajoo because he knows how strong she is, knows it is better for him to divorce her, so she can stay with her family, and not spend her life with him, because things will never change for her if she goes back with him. He keeps saying he loves Ishana and wants to spend his life with her, and that is why he wants to divorce Lajoo, but deep down his reason for divorcing Lajoo, is more for HER sake then HIS, because he knows at some level that he is a weak person, and he isn't strong enough to take Lajoo back and protect her from the mentality and cruelty of his family and the so called society.

He doesn't realize, all his actions is that a man in love, who wants the best for the woman he loves. And he does love her, if he didn't, he wouldn't have sensed the danger Lajoo was in beforehand. He may have spent many years with Ishana, but he is only connected to Lajoo. That what love is !!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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so many beautiful thoughts yaar am crying so much...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have been reading the replies you have made in this post and I can see and that we are on the same page. I absolutely agree with the points you have pointed out in the reply to my post. Like you said for Nikhil Lajoo is the epitome of Life !!

That is why guilt doesn't work on him when it comes to Lajoo because he knows how strong she is, knows it is better for him to divorce her, so she can stay with her family, and not spend her life with him, because things will never change for her if she goes back with him. He keeps saying he loves Ishana and wants to spend his life with her, and that is why he wants to divorce Lajoo, but deep down his reason for divorcing Lajoo, is more for HER sake then HIS, because he knows at some level that he is a weak person, and he isn't strong enough to take Lajoo back and protect her from the mentality and cruelty of his family and the so called society.

He doesn't realize, all his actions is that a man in love, who wants the best for the woman he loves. And he does love her, if he didn't, he wouldn't have sensed the danger Lajoo was in beforehand. He may have spent many years with Ishana, but he is only connected to Lajoo. That what love is !!

awww .. i m glad that we r on same page! :D

Exactly .. He exactly feels the same you said ..he is week and won't be able to give her what she deserves .. he wants betterment of HER .. and he just can't make others believe so .. it is so evident to see his face that he doesn't even feel for ishana now .. Ishana is one barrier in his life and he is too weak to aside her so he better believes in letting Laajo free ..
and i may sound unpractical but his inetraction with ishana are dsigusting for me! seriously .. how can u call each other 'tu' when u love each other? i may sound back dated,yet i m from this generation,i mean how? it lacks respect so much and even understanding?is it some road side guy-girl roamcing around? it feels baseless to me ..i knw many ppl won't agree on this with me ..but i really feel disgusted to such interactions!

agreed ..he is too much in Love with Laajo .. so what if he can't realize it? but i can sense it ..it has been his instinct from day one ..to protect her .. to save her .. to be with her .. he is just smitten by her .. so what if he doesn't accept it?!!!! Love is something really simple,honest and beautiful thing ..it doesn't demand such promises or guarantees .. even if that person is not with you,you will always feel completed .. this si why it is beautiful <3
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

so many beautiful thoughts yaar am crying so much...

aww Di <3 u know I m again loving Sakhi Saiyaan ..somehow this whole week has taught me another level of Love ..i am again smitten by this song .. just can't have enough of it .. <3
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Sami DI : Di,save soem tears ..my individual thoughts are yet to come <3 let's see if u cry or not? ;) :*
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...



Exactly .. He exactly feels the same you said ..he is week and won't be able to give her what she deserves .. he wants betterment of HER .. and he just can't make others believe so .. it is so evident to see his face that he doesn't even feel for ishana now .. Ishana is one barrier in his life and he is too weak to aside her so he better believes in letting Laajo free ..
and i may sound unpractical but his inetraction with ishana are dsigusting for me! seriously .. how can u call each other 'tu' when u love each other? i may sound back dated,yet i m from this generation,i mean how? it lacks respect so much and even understanding?is it some road side guy-girl roamcing around? it feels baseless to me ..i knw many ppl won't agree on this with me ..but i really feel disgusted to such interactions!

agreed ..he is too much in Love with Laajo .. so what if he can't realize it? but i can sense it ..it has been his instinct from day one ..to protect her .. to save her .. to be with her .. he is just smitten by her .. so what if he doesn't accept it?!!!! Love is something really simple,honest and beautiful thing ..it doesn't demand such promises or guarantees .. even if that person is not with you,you will always feel completed .. this si why it is beautiful <3



Oh I absolutely agree with you regarding Ishaana and Nikhil calling each other by 'Tu', I find it baseless in the sense, that it would be okay if they were best friends, because with friends u get so frank, that u resort to calling each other by TU, but when two people who love each other and are to become life partners, then it is very essential to give each other that respect your love and relationship deserves.

Anther aspect of Nikhil-Ishana which irritates me that is their constant's 'I love you Ishana' and 'I Love you Nikhil', because it really sounds shallow coming from them now, because their isn't any depth to their love or feelings for each other anymore. In fact it sounds more like they say it all the time, more to convince themselves rather then each other that they are still in love.

Its so weird how their constant I love you don't mean anything, whereas the unspoken words because Nikhil and Lajoo, convey so much love, concern, understanding, trust and respect for each other.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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ok yaar am just thinking Nikhil is moved by her care for him ,what will happen to him when he finds out depth of her feelings for him. OMG yaar ita jyada jabardast chemistry .makers need to cash on it and I really lied How Nikhil was not at all upset about not going back ,he was laughing at the prank of his saalis

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