Hmm-- what should I think now? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ninag

I agree I don't think she intentionally wanted to catch the disease to die, but she didn't prevent it either...she just didn't care what happend to her anymore.

and this is the only thing i m objecting dear ..i don't hare her ..rather i love her the most ..i m here since very start and watching it .. but i just can't approve girls being such weak ..see this is their weakness .. they r very easily swept away by emotions .. i have always supported Laajo and Nikhil both .. but this dying thing is way too unacceptable for me ..she still has her parents who r craving for their daughter and she is only thinking about Nikhil and her sasural's misbehavior which is way too selfish for me .. that's it! if she was tortured by her family,then i wld even tried to sympathize but here it is just not acceptable .. and i also agree she wil wake up and get stronger .. i m aginst this weakness of girls .. not only Laajo,they need to stand up and be there for themselves and the biggest thing they need to adapt the art of surviving .. they lack it big time,girl from any society or class lacks this!

And,still u need to observe very deeply,all she is doing just bcoz of Nikhil and her sasural's bad behavior ..and she got the disease willingly .. she knew everything and still continued working there day and night..now isn't it willingly falling ill???and her mother stopped her time to time ..she just wanted to fall sick and die .. u can't ignore this fact!

Yes Lajjo was wrong and she should have been stronger but as I keep on saying you need to look at the whole picture. She is a human with emotions. Everyone reacts differently. The last six months have changed her life beyond recognition. The only way is up as they say. To some people others reputation is more important than their own self respect. So if she dies her parents would be relieved of the shame of announcing their daughter is seperated/divorced. Of course the parents would be shattered by her death but in indian mentality their izzat would be preserved. If It was revealed Lajjo is divorced who would marry her sisters? Their lives would be ruined too. This is the sad fact of most of indian society. The actions of a daughter reflect on the whole family and affect them for the rest of their lives.

Originally posted by: ninag

Yes Lajjo was wrong and she should have been stronger but as I keep on saying you need to look at the whole picture. She is a human with emotions. Everyone reacts differently. The last six months have changed her life beyond recognition. The only way is up as they say. To some people others reputation is more important than their own self respect. So if she dies her parents would be relieved of the shame of announcing their daughter is seperated/divorced. Of course the parents would be shattered by her death but in indian mentality their izzat would be preserved. If It was revealed Lajjo is divorced who would marry her sisters? Their lives would be ruined too. This is the sad fact of most of indian society. The actions of a daughter reflect on the whole family and affect them for the rest of their lives.

i so agree with u yaar on this.I feel it is unfortunate part of indian mentality and it sin our dna unfortunately.I still feel she is also doing this for sake of her parents too,

Originally posted by: ninag

I agree I don't think she intentionally wanted to catch the disease to die, but she didn't prevent it either...she just didn't care what happend to her anymore.

Thank you Paljay. Lajjos story isn't as straightforward as it appears there are so many layers to it. It can be hard to understand what is going on in her mind! In a way her mindset is just as complicated as Nikhils now!

yes guys..i understood that u all feel for her and i too :) i m always with her .. but i m saying all this coz i want girls to become stronger and they need to believe dying is not the solution and can't never be.. and i m talking against Indina or any society mentality ..u all think only in India such things happen? in abroad too things happen .there also girls get raped and they get their lives destroyed,they get bullied ..it is not only about India .. everywhere in the world women folk is faced with discrimination and suffer alot! that's why i think their outside view should be changed.

But,for me my parents are ultimate thing..i just can't waste my life over some useless and worthless so called lover or husband .. and i can't force anyone to believe it ..fair enough! :)

And,thank you for bearing me till now! 😳 and don't take me wrong guys ..i love Laajo and GD most and will always do so .. :D take care all :)

After reading all the posts I think everyone is right in their own way. But Look at things from Laajo's perspective. What is her state now? She is just 19 , she has gone through a troubled marriage, she wanted to forget and move on, but she caught this disease. Her self respect is hurt, she feels guilty of giving pain to her family, she loves her husband but cannot disclose it to him. I think this is too much for her young age. 😭 .Maybe anyone in her place however enduring she may be at one point of time may feel worthless and take life to be baseless. This happens when a person doesn't know what future has in store for her/him. So we cant blame Laajo for this, instead with love , support and guidance from her family and well wishers she will surely be able to pull through.

^^yes i agree to all ur points and they r really good actually :D

and i m always with Laajo and have been .. but this attempt to die,i can't support it,that's all .. and abt being strong it means u need to stand up for urself siding those motions which degrade ur self respect bcoz simply i won't compromise with my self respect at any point of my life,so this is my view ..and abt Laajo,yes she has suffered a lot and she deserves love in return.. i m loving the drama and everything :) ... waiting them to unite :')

Nice post sami...

Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

Nice post sami...

@ all I agree with all of you...

Jes I wished too that she stood up for her self respect in that house when all where being rude to her...but alas she didnt...N I wish she didnt even think of giving up on life...but poor girl is at the weakest point of her life now...but yh girls lives get destroyed for sake of society and family's izat...

thank you for getting the point Hanna! 🤗
i know about Laajo's circumstances and all .. but every girl faces some or other problems ..i just want them to strong and evaluated themselves properly and not to give in to the circumstances .. that's it ! :) .. yah let's see .. now she wil regain her lost faith :)