Originally posted by: vista90pro
Hey Sanam😊,
You make very valid points........life has not dealt him a good hand........his life has undergone immense tragedy and that is what has made him what he is........I am not disputing that, nor is, I suspect, Sona. All we are saying is that he is not very emotionally mature.........plain statement of fact, no blame assigned.😊
As you say, there is a reason why he is what he is...........but that doesn't take away from the fact that he is what he is😉
We love our Bhayyaji, but ours is not blind love😃
Like all great Shakeperean heroes, he too has a flaw ..............let's just hope that the CV's don't make it a fatal one.😭
vista baby, i couldnt have put it better myself...muaaaaaaahhhhhhhh...love the real avdheswa...but the poor man is a creature of his circumstances. so even though it is not his fault, he has lacked a sane, stable, stabilizing and secure upbringing which has made slightly bereft of these qualities in turn...infact, he has been trained to behave in an unquestioning, hot headed , violent manner to all provocations...to react before thinking, or rather not to think at all. unfortunately, that is what is ruining his life and his happiness right now and he is too unthinking and impetuous and stubborn and set in his ways to be able to see it...
that is the flaw in his character, as vista puts it, is the hallmark of most shakespearean heroes be it an othello, macbeth, romeo or an orlando...whether tragedy or comedy , the malady remains the same. but unlike them , in avi , so far it is merely a flaw , not a dark aspect of his character, coz i believe though there is darkness in his past, so far there has been no darkness in his character or his heart. and i , like vista , hope this is flaw wont be fatal ....but these cvs are slowly showing their true colours...i am much in fear...
and vista, i did see your post my love...i know what u wrote.....🤗