Dad & Son - is it the case always?

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shibz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Mandeep's Dad took me by surprise...or shall i say shock?😲 Can there be fathers as violent? and to his son? a grown up son? How must he be treating the wife then? An educated Man?
He was extremely violent and Mandeep - Horrible.. It was disgusting to see him behave like that at least with a girl..he was literally harassing her..

I've heard of Bullies in smaller classes..heard ragging in college but among teens and to this extent that one breaks a fellow mates hands and legs? I don't understand why the school committee took no major action! And why did those students not complain earlier? Prateek could've done it again when he was beaten up for complaining.. But No, he chose to teach him a lesson the other way!👎🏼

Now to the main point - Does every Bully has a reason related to family in such a way that he is forced to Bully?

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sakmhlove

@sakmhlove

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Posted: 13 years ago

I was also wodering abt this.it just made me think very deeply that itis imp. To giv a good environment n good upbringing to children.if they cannot giv then they dont hav right to bring them in this world where they suffer n bcome reason of other sufferings.maa papa r holiest words n it is their responsibilty to giv full justice to these holy words but other than it if they make life of their kids a horrible one then this is just ridiculous.

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@Almas.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Upbringing matters but it's not d same reason in every case...

Y didnt dey complaint.. Dats Straight way right...

Dey went 'gumraah' n comittd crime

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kavyasam

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Posted: 13 years ago

ditto to everything u said shibz. it was appalling to see the dad hit a grown up son. kaun maarta hai aisa, and mandeep did not utter a single word in protest. instead he took it out on his school mates. and the kids tolerated him and reacted in the most extreme way. They should have gone and complained , when he hit arun openly with a bat the other students should have reported mandeep wld be suspended. what prateek did was outrageous and wrong 👎🏼

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-Olly-

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Posted: 13 years ago

agree shibz !.mandeep bullied them really hard ..and he was the result of his father's anger and animal like behaviour ..

and now to ur question ..yes deffo there is always the other side of a coin ..may be not everytime its the parents or home reasons that are responsible but there may be other reasons too ..like i heard a story of boy who was very softspoken and good but when he was repeatedly treated harshly by his seniors ..he lost all of his softness he too became a very bad bully at the end!

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perfectsoul

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Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you Shibz.

And about your question, I don't think that the reason is always family for a person to be a bully. Sometimes kids do it to be popular too or to fit in a group. But definitely family plays an important part in the character building. And if a bully's family environment is filled with positivity and compassion, he will surely realize his mistakes and change himself. Parents play an important factor in everyone's life. Sometimes, it does happen that one parent is very short tempered and strict due to work pressure or any other issues. Here, the other parent should take up the responsibility and fill up the void by being very friendly, loving, caring and understanding the child. The parents should see to it that their child is not demoralized in any way.

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shibz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: perfectsoul
Agree with you Shibz.

And about your question, I don't think that the reason is always family for a person to be a bully. Sometimes kids do it to be popular too or to fit in a group. But definitely family plays an important part in the character building. And if a bully's family environment is filled with positivity and compassion, he will surely realize his mistakes and change himself. Parents play an important factor in everyone's life. Sometimes, it does happen that one parent is very short tempered and strict due to work pressure or any other issues. Here, the other parent should take up the responsibility and fill up the void by being very friendly, loving, caring and understanding the child. The parents should see to it that their child is not demoralized in any way.

agree with u.. specially the bold parts... here we see that the mother was very sweet and caring...still Mandeep had no effect of Mom's love n care on him?😕

olly...thanx for sharing that story...

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Anchal Uppal

@anchalluvskaran

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Posted: 13 years ago

tottaly agree with u

The environment around a child has a very big impact on them. Parents need to know what they see is what they learn so they should put their issues aside when they are with their kids

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arjuhi4evr

@arjuhi4evr

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Posted: 13 years ago

yess...d schul was supposed to tk sum action..! d teacher stoppd d fight btwn dem bt...they shud have taken sum severe action against mandeep...atleast it wud have been btr dan death fr him

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