I need serious help

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Posted: 14 years ago
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gosh i havent watched th episode yet but just tell me one thing if dulha n dulhan take 6 pheras and dont do the last one so is the marriage not complete..am like this now
gosh they exhanged varmalas,then six pheras ..now what is left..only 1 phera right?
..is tht the most important one.?
when does dulha fills the sindoor ..i need serious help...am so ignorant abt all these...😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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From what i know, if the final phera is left or incomplete then the shaadi is not complete at all - it means no value at all to shaadi at all
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I mean in even in english wedding, you say i do and all that, and say your vows but if they leave it half way, they arent exactly married are they
Filling the maang/sindoor i suppose is after the pheras i think
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

From what i know, if the final phera is left or incomplete then the shaadi is not complete at all - it means no value at all to shaadi at all

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I mean in even in english wedding, you say i do and all that, and say your vows but if they leave it half way, they arent exactly married are they
Filling the maang/sindoor i suppose is after the pheras i think

Thanks Lennie for clearing my doubt.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In Gujarati weddings there are only 4 pheras and apparently the loyal one is the 3rd one.

Mangalsutra and Sindoor comes later..from what I've heard.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

In Gujarati weddings there are only 4 pheras and apparently the loyal one is the 3rd one.


Mangalsutra and Sindoor comes later..from what I've heard.

I was wondering what it means for the gujju wedding in how it will be in the show, funny that i am gujju myself 😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tut tut lennie, you don't know about the 4 pheras?? :P Thats all I know about actually 🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think it is important to complete all the pheras and you cannot leave between them too.The marriage is considered invalid if this happens.Also sindoor and the mangalsutra are also important.Without these three the marriage is considered invalid in our custom.I had heard about it from somewhere i don't remember now.Hope it helps. Even the pundit(was it really?) had asked him not to stop between the pheras,in the precap.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lets use Gulaal the show itself for reference.

Looking at Gulaal and Vasant wedding.

The lovely Vasant actually explains the pheres too 😃

Sindoor and Mangalsutra comes later


Credit goes to the uploader couplescenes

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Tut tut lennie, you don't know about the 4 pheras?? :P Thats all I know about actually 🤣

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I dont pay attention to weddings i go to - i actually hate going to weddings, in the sense dressing up and going and seeing the whole community and so on 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie


<div></div><font color="#0066ff">I was wondering what it means for the gujju wedding in how it will be in the show, funny that i am gujju myself 😆😆</font>



LOl! Same I'm gujju and this is the first time I have heard of this, next time I go to a wedding I'm gonna pay attention to the pheras. 😆

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