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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: arti07

this slap is just a building stone for talli and kesar marriage now he will hate gulaal and will accept talli the jhalli i guess..🤢...pure gulaal fans no offence but she is torturing kesar a lot she is not developing any feeling right then who gave a right to a stranger to slap kesar ...😡😡...and that too coz of dushy...🤢🤢🤢..i think she doesnt belong to kesar now really i missed caring loving gulaal's kesar so badly that i m about to lose all hopes i dont know y i m supporting kes-gul if her highness wants to live in lonely life talking to noone ( yes he has gone life is to move forward untill cv makes him come back ) then y should i support kes-gul..😕...i know i m overreacting but if talli doesnt deserve kesar so is gulaal 🤢i think kesar should throw the letters and go to police station confess what he has listened land gulaal and dushy in jail (yes gulaal is criminal too she has hidden her husband murder mystery ok she is his wife but vasant was someone bother and son too she has no right to forgive dushy on their behalf...) and then get married to a sensible girl not a saint thats it happy ending .😕...sorry but i m highly disgusted...😡😡😡😡..gulaal has left me no option😡😡😡😡😡😡

Arti, so right, Gulaal is torturing Kesar and seems to abuse him no end, and I don't see how they will get this story righted by making her meaner and not gentler. There is no story with Talli and Kesar, and Kesar and that jhalli's marriage is not an option. Better he goes to the police station as you say, I would rather see that than this silliness. I would rather Kesar walked away from both of these dames and find a great gal in the city. Between being abused by Gulaal and being killed by kindness and silliness by Talli, this is a lose lose situation for him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neil-fan

First of all slapping is never justified and doesn't achieve anything. 😕The fact is Gulaal overstepped her bounds when she slapped Kesar no matter what. I do not want to wait until tomorrow to hear if the slap is justified or not...Kesar is now a grown up and loves Gulaal and considers Gulaal as his wife. Gulaal is aware of Kesar's feelings towards her...no matter what Kesar said I dont care, slapping is not justified. 😲Motaba and Panba all elders were present...who the hell Gulaal thinks she is.😡..I think she is taking this fulfilling her promise to Vasant a bit too seriously and in that process is missing the most obvious signs of a family disintegrating.

All of us here can understand that Gulaal does not have any husbandly feelings for Kesar, but I feel she is devoid of any feelings right now. Kesar opened his heart out to her and cried and what does Ms. Highness do runs off and chickens out to her mom's house with Dushyant right in front of Kesar's eyes, knowing very well also how Kesar feels about Dushyant. Then she comes back because her mom sends her back I knew Poonamba would do this🤗🤗 only to be bombarded by JK about an illicit relationship with Dushyant. OK she cries feels sorry for herself alll acceptable. No self respecting woman would be able to take this.

But still several things bother me, Firstly the mature mighty Gulaal has still not even bothered to get down to the bottom of Kesar's dislike for Dushyant. She has had several warnings already. I would say it is being very unfair to Kesar. She wants Kesar to step into Vasant's mojiris but does not even make an effort to understand him. All she wants is for him to become a puppet and dance according to her tunes, just like Dushyant does now.😲

Secondly Dushyant suspects that Kesar knows about Vasant's murder yet he keeps shut in front of Gulaal and even goes to the extent of threatening that guy.😡

Thirdly Gulaal who has so much respect of what is right and wrong is pushing Talli towards Kesar knowing very well they will never be able to lead a happy married life. She disgusts me...highly hypocritical woman. Whatever she does is right because her intentions are good and what anyone else does is wrong. 😕

From the beginning of this show I have always felt the character of Gulaal was too unreal and unrealistic but after today it is gone completely out of control. I just cant relate to her at all. Sorry but I absolutely dont see any sort of a Kesar-Gulaal pair if this is how the track is going. The CV's should have been working on a softening of Gulaal's feelings and her general attitude and demeanour but most of the time she is so stony faced around Kesar as if he has comitted a big crime and I am frankly sick of that look of hers.

So all Kes-Gul fans enjoy more thappad from Miss Highness because obvioulsy the CV's think that is where the chemistry lies. ugh!!!!!. There can be no love in a relatioship if it is not of equal standing at least for me. Till the day Gulaal starts respecting and looking up to Kesar as a grown individual I can not even think of the possibility of love. What kind of love is this where this woman has the upper hand all the time. I just cannot visualize both of them together anymore after today.😔 Bhagwan jaane Kesar ka kyo hoga, for me his future at present looks bleak with no relief in sight. He will be forced to become Vasant and if he does not he will be admonished and chided for immature behavior. If Gulaal herself does not understand Kesar then who will??


the whole family seems to painting kesar some kind of villain when what he sed is true. no one appreciates him for being kesar..everyone just thinks he's some doora janam of vasant.. like he doesnt have any dreams or wants of his own...and dont get me started on maha gulaal ..i hope her truth is exposed soon.. cuz i dont think even vasant wud stand for how she is acting...when he sed he wanted to keep the family together i dont think he meant ...'dont punish my killer who is his own brother..' one thing to forgive him but she'd downright friendly with her precious vasant's killer...and now slapping kesar for it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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precap is such a ache in heart i m shocked to see ! gulaal is crossing her limits...she is not his mother nor his father nor wants to be his wife nor wants to keep any realtion then y the salp all of sudden i m mad at gulaal as well
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with Neil fan and Simi👏👏👏, I am sorry, don't know your names.

It was her choice and she has to deal with the outcome as well. She knows there is an issue regarding the marriage for a long time and I don't ever see her explain or putting any boundaries with Kesar regarding their relationship. I feel somewhere deep within she wants Kesar as a whole (only for herself) but she is refusing to see him as her husband and even worse she almost thinks she is unworthy of any happiness. A person who can't love herself, what can she give to others? An empty jar doesn't have anything to give.

One word of hers during the dervattu really bothers me now: before the marriage she asked Kesar whether he trusts her? He said yes. I see her betraying his trust now. If not accepting the marriage she should have at least explained her side. Give him some light to their relationship. She is keeping him in dark in too many issues: the marriage, Thalli, Vasanth murder. It would have been different if she gave some hints to him about Thalli.

I hear many people describing Kesar as immature, but isn't he matured enough not to let loose of his haunting secret out at least until he knows the truth. He is seen as spoiled one in the eyes of his family still he has the capacity to keep everything with in him. Ironically the Gulaal whose only mission is to keep the family together is ignoring too much of signs and Kesar who is unintentionally doing the job. I do feel empathy for this woman but that doesn't justify her actions. Especially the way she is ignoring Kesar, I really don't get what is she achieving by that. I didn't see her coming to terms with her shock while at her mayaka, she was too busy shopping and the sarpanch issue. I don't see her joining the dots, Kesar's overnight changed behaviour with D and her (even the teacher got note of it), him refusing to ever meet her at the hostel, despite all the hatred him caring for her, giving importance to her happiness (his first question is always been r u happy), the way he behaves with D, his tears, out of nowhere him supporting Raman and respect him and other as well.

Regarding her treatment with D-I am not connecting with her either.

I think forgiving is a way of saying I am not going to spend my energy hating you. And in this case she chose to forgive him for Vasanth's dream. To me it is more of a guilt and blaming herself game, after all It is because of the lust for her that D killed Vasanth and in that accident she was present too so why not her but Vasanth sort of guilt.

The Birthday incident was originally to please JK who was complaining about whom give importance to her family but in the end Gulaal would get all the credits for remembering which she didn't. But if u remembers the scene where Kesar throw the vase at D, she immediately went to D and not Kesar even if it is to scold. That was a bit too much; she took care of D in motabaa's present. She is too civil with D in other scenes as well.

Today I do sympathize for Gulaal about the rumours but again she is responsible for it. After all she should have seen it coming, she once accused him in front of the villagers, then being too civil with D, going out, going against Kesar, would trigger things so why the play victim game? I wonder what would happen when the whole truth comes out. How is she going to justify? For god's sake she knows the secret is not a secret since more than one person knows it. There is one more thing any woman would fear or be aware of while being civil with D, what if his feeling rise again? What if her actions provoke those feelings again? What if he misinterprets them?

Kesar is the most important thing in Vasanth's life; he was "the dream". I don't see her working out to shape him as she declares. She is the only one who had a peek on his darker sides, still not dwelling too much as to why, how, what?

I see Kesar as a punch bag for Gulaal, stuffing all her desires, dreams, pressure, anger, obsession and what not. No human in this world could be normal at the same time bottle up things. Sorry but human psychology doesn't works that way however strong one is, there is always different phase to go through while grieving. To me Gulaal is not through her grieving phases. Ironically I see Kesar once he gets to know the truth getting her out of all the knots she made for herself. I see them as great companions in future, and I don't in any way see her upper hand I see her more of a strong but at the moment a messed up woman. Once they start to become each other's support system and evolve, I see them very compatible. (it's just Gulaal needs to learn that she is not right all the time and every time and love her flaws too, better chance for character development and a better way for her look Kesar as a man, her shield, her mirror).

In total I see it in a positive side for Gulsar character development.

Having said all these Indian serials do have all the high dramas so I don't know how cvs will surprise me?😡😡😡 Sorry for the long post Iam not so good writer as you all are.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Surithy, you have beautifully conveyed your feelings. Absolutely brilliant points. So we all dont need to be good or best writers. We all just get the message across.

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