What is the future of Kesar?

First of all slapping is never justified and doesn't achieve anything. 😕The fact is Gulaal overstepped her bounds when she slapped Kesar no matter what. I do not want to wait until tomorrow to hear if the slap is justified or not...Kesar is now a grown up and loves Gulaal and considers Gulaal as his wife. Gulaal is aware of Kesar's feelings towards her...no matter what Kesar said I dont care, slapping is not justified. 😲Motaba and Panba all elders were present...who the hell Gulaal thinks she is.😡..I think she is taking this fulfilling her promise to Vasant a bit too seriously and in that process is missing the most obvious signs of a family disintegrating.

All of us here can understand that Gulaal does not have any husbandly feelings for Kesar, but I feel she is devoid of any feelings right now. Kesar opened his heart out to her and cried and what does Ms. Highness do runs off and chickens out to her mom's house with Dushyant right in front of Kesar's eyes, knowing very well also how Kesar feels about Dushyant. Then she comes back because her mom sends her back I knew Poonamba would do this🤗🤗 only to be bombarded by JK about an illicit relationship with Dushyant. OK she cries feels sorry for herself alll acceptable. No self respecting woman would be able to take this.

But still several things bother me, Firstly the mature mighty Gulaal has still not even bothered to get down to the bottom of Kesar's dislike for Dushyant. She has had several warnings already. I would say it is being very unfair to Kesar. She wants Kesar to step into Vasant's mojiris but does not even make an effort to understand him. All she wants is for him to become a puppet and dance according to her tunes, just like Dushyant does now.😲

Secondly Dushyant suspects that Kesar knows about Vasant's murder yet he keeps shut in front of Gulaal and even goes to the extent of threatening that guy.😡

Thirdly Gulaal who has so much respect of what is right and wrong is pushing Talli towards Kesar knowing very well they will never be able to lead a happy married life. She disgusts me...highly hypocritical woman. Whatever she does is right because her intentions are good and what anyone else does is wrong. 😕

From the beginning of this show I have always felt the character of Gulaal was too unreal and unrealistic but after today it is gone completely out of control. I just cant relate to her at all. Sorry but I absolutely dont see any sort of a Kesar-Gulaal pair if this is how the track is going. The CV's should have been working on a softening of Gulaal's feelings and her general attitude and demeanour but most of the time she is so stony faced around Kesar as if he has comitted a big crime and I am frankly sick of that look of hers.

So all Kes-Gul fans enjoy more thappad from Miss Highness because obvioulsy the CV's think that is where the chemistry lies. ugh!!!!!. There can be no love in a relatioship if it is not of equal standing at least for me. Till the day Gulaal starts respecting and looking up to Kesar as a grown individual I can not even think of the possibility of love. What kind of love is this where this woman has the upper hand all the time. I just cannot visualize both of them together anymore after today.😔 Bhagwan jaane Kesar ka kyo hoga, for me his future at present looks bleak with no relief in sight. He will be forced to become Vasant and if he does not he will be admonished and chided for immature behavior. If Gulaal herself does not understand Kesar then who will??

Btw very strong points👏

Originally posted by: Neil-fan

First of all slapping is never justified and doesn't achieve anything. 😕

Yes using physical force that too on a grown up person never helps

The fact is Gulaal overstepped her bounds when she slapped Kesar no matter what. I do not want to wait until tomorrow to hear if the slap is justified or not...Kesar is now a grown up and loves Gulaal and considers Gulaal as his wife. Gulaal is aware of Kesar's feelings towards her...no matter what Kesar said I dont care, slapping is not justified. 😲Motaba and Panba all elders were present...who the hell Gulaal thinks she is.😡..I think sheis taking this fulfilling her promise to Vasant a bit too seriously and in that process is missing the most obvious signs of a family disintegrating.

Of course when all the elders are present she always has to step in😡

All of us here can understand that Gulaal does not have any husbandly feelings for Kesar, but I feel she is devoid of any feelings right now. Kesar opened his heart out to her and cried and what does Ms. Highness do runs off and chickens out to her mom's house with Dushyant right in front of Kesar's eyes, knowing very well also how Kesar feels about Dushyant. Then she comes back because her mom sends her back I knew Poonamba would do this🤗🤗 only to be bombarded by JK about an illicit relationship with Dushyant. OK she cries feels sorry for herself alll acceptable. No self respecting woman would be able to take this.

But still several things bother me, Firstly the mature mighty Gulaal has still not even bothered to get down to the bottom of Kesar's dislike for Dushyant. She has had several warnings already. I would say it is being very unfair to Kesar. She wants Kesar to step into Vasant's mojiris but does not even make an effort to understand him. All she wants is for him to become a puppet and dance according to her tunes, just like Dushyant does now.😲

She never tries to get to the root cause of Kesar's dislike but only runs and hides

Secondly Dushyant suspects that Kesar knows about Vasant's murder yet he keeps shut in front of Gulaal and even goes to the extent of threatening that guy.😡

Thirdly Gulaal who has so much respect of what is right and wrong is pushing Talli towards Kesar knowing very well they will never be able to lead a happy married life. She disgusts me...highly hypocritical woman. Whatever she does is right because her intentions are good and what anyone else does is wrong. 😕

Forcing someone into a loveless marriage and feeding Talli with false hopes even after getting hints about Kesar's feelings...highly hypocritical

From the beginning of this show I have always felt the character of Gulaal was too unreal and unrealistic but after today it is gone completely out of control. I just cant relate to her at all. Sorry but I absolutely dont see any sort of a Kesar-Gulaal pair if this is how the track is going. The CV's should have been working on a softening of Gulaal's feelings and her general attitude and demeanour but most of the time she is so stony faced around Kesar as if he has comitted a big crime and I am frankly sick of that look of hers.

So all Kes-Gul fans enjoy more thappad from Miss Highness because obvioulsy the CV's think that is where the chemistry lies. ugh!!!!!. There can be no love in a relatioship if it is not of equal standing at least for me. Till the day Gulaal starts respecting and looking up to Kesar as a grown individual I can not even think of the possibility of love. What kind of love is this where this woman has the upper hand all the time. I just cannot visualize both of them together anymore after today.😔Bhagwan jaane Kesar ka kyo hoga, for me his future at present looks bleak with no relief in sight. He will be forced to become Vasant and if he does not he will be admonished and chided for immature behavior. If Gulaal herself does not understand Kesar then who will??

Also she herself made sacrifices for the family everybody wanted her to be happy but she was adament so it's not that she had been tortured by anyone😕...so here Gulaal is not the victim😡

From the beginning of this show I have always felt the character of Gulaal was too unreal and unrealistic but after today it is gone completely out of control. I just cant relate to her at all. Sorry but I absolutely dont see any sort of a Kesar-Gulaal pair if this is how the track is going. The CV's should have been working on a softening of Gulaal's feelings and her general attitude and demeanour but most of the time she is so stony faced around Kesar as if he has comitted a big crime and I am frankly sick of that look of hers.

Neil fan, Absolutely rightly said. I understand she is lonely. But she has chosen this life. Then she needs to meet the relity as well.

I can't relate to Gulaal as well. Her intentions being good is not a pass for all her behavior. She is immature. I have written on another thread that she treated Dushyant in a more civilised way when he had kidnapped her for all the lust. He killed her husband, forgiving is one thing but organising birthday party for the husband's murderer is beyond my comprehension. She took Kesar's support and involved that kid in the marriage. Now seeing Kesar's interest in her, she takes her husband's murderer's support to be dropped at home. Seems to be an oppurtunist.

I was hesitant for Kesar and Gulaal together initially but then seeing the life both were leading, it led me to acknowledge the fact that they have to find solace in each other's love and support.

Originally posted by: KesariBlueMoon

From the beginning of this show I have always felt the character of Gulaal was too unreal and unrealistic but after today it is gone completely out of control. I just cant relate to her at all. Sorry but I absolutely dont see any sort of a Kesar-Gulaal pair if this is how the track is going. The CV's should have been working on a softening of Gulaal's feelings and her general attitude and demeanour but most of the time she is so stony faced around Kesar as if he has comitted a big crime and I am frankly sick of that look of hers.

hahaha, I agree!

So all Kes-Gul fans enjoy more thappad from Miss Highness because obvioulsy the CV's think that is where the chemistry lies. ugh!!!!!. There can be no love in a relatioship if it is not of equal standing at least for me. Till the day Gulaal starts respecting and looking up to Kesar as a grown individual I can not even think of the possibility of love. What kind of love is this where this woman has the upper hand all the time. I just cannot visualize both of them together anymore after today.😔 Bhagwan jaane Kesar ka kyo hoga, for me his future at present looks bleak with no relief in sight. He will be forced to become Vasant and if he does not he will be admonished and chided for immature behavior. If Gulaal herself does not understand Kesar then who will??

Neil fan, thank you for stating the obvious but not so obvious to those that are writing this crap. The Gulaal characterization is too mahanta-ish to relate to, and I have been giving the benefit of the doubt to it, hoping that her behavior would eventually make sense but alas it never did. And today, what an insult to us, the viewers, that they rewarded us with this final insult to Kesar for his undying love with a sharp thappad from his beloved and not ours, Gulaal. I am so outraged today I feel betrayed by the writers. I thought this was going to be a good story but more and more it is becoming absurd. I cannot digest this lack of sense. And the scene with Talli and Kesar talking wasn't necessary, no depth nor reason for that at all. Paanba and Kesar scene was good, Paanba was gentler here than in the precap and explains herself. Neil is doing a great job but unfortunately, the story is going nowhere.

this slap is just a building stone for talli and kesar marriage now he will hate gulaal and will accept talli the jhalli i guess..🤢...pure gulaal fans no offence but she is torturing kesar a lot she is not developing any feeling right then who gave a right to a stranger to slap kesar ...😡😡...and that too coz of dushy...🤢🤢🤢..i think she doesnt belong to kesar now really i missed caring loving gulaal's kesar so badly that i m about to lose all hopes i dont know y i m supporting kes-gul if her highness wants to live in lonely life talking to noone ( yes he has gone life is to move forward untill cv makes him come back ) then y should i support kes-gul..😕...i know i m overreacting but if talli doesnt deserve kesar so is gulaal 🤢i think kesar should throw the letters and go to police station confess what he has listened land gulaal and dushy in jail (yes gulaal is criminal too she has hidden her husband murder mystery ok she is his wife but vasant was someone bother and son too she has no right to forgive dushy on their behalf...) and then get married to a sensible girl not a saint thats it happy ending .😕...sorry but i m highly disgusted...😡😡😡😡..gulaal has left me no option😡😡😡😡😡😡

Originally posted by: MeySimi

Neil fan, Absolutely rightly said. I understand she is lonely. But she has chosen this life. Then she needs to meet the relity as well.

I can't relate to Gulaal as well. Her intentions being good is not a pass for all her behavior. She is immature. I have written on another thread that she treated Dushyant in a more civilised way when he had kidnapped her for all the lust. He killed her husband, forgiving is one thing but organising birthday party for the husband's murderer is beyond my comprehension. She took Kesar's support and involved that kid in the marriage. Now seeing Kesar's interest in her, she takes her husband's murderer's support to be dropped at home. Seems to be an oppurtunist.

I was hesitant for Kesar and Gulaal together initially but then seeing the life both were leading, it led me to acknowledge the fact that they have to find solace in each other's love and support.

This is what I had replied on the article

A member is saying that because of Gulaal's behavior.

Now a wife's high-handedness in a husband-wife relation is not so practical in everyday life. After the initial passion dies out, the reality would frustrate a man that he is not considered on emotional par with her. Had it been Kesar who slapped Gulaal in his anger while questioning her, the 99% of the K-G group would have brought the roof down.
I too want Kesar and Gulaal together, but I would not appreciate Gulaal's high-handedness in this relationship. I empathise with the pressures she is dealing with but that doesn't qualify for a support.

Empathy is for the pressures a woman has to deal, but her behavior does not make me whole-heartedly sympathise with her. If anyone is affected because of her trial and error method to keep the family united, it has been Kesar. And being united should not be the physical presence in the same household. Over the 10 years she has failed to unify the hearts in this household.

Originally posted by: arti07

this slap is just a building stone for talli and kesar marriage now he will hate gulaal and will accept talli the jhalli i guess..🤢...pure gulaal fans no offence but she is torturing kesar a lot she is not developing any feeling right then who gave a right to a stranger to slap kesar ...😡😡...and that too coz of dushy...🤢🤢🤢..i think she doesnt belong to kesar now really i missed caring loving gulaal's kesar so badly that i m about to lose all hopes i dont know y i m supporting kes-gul if her highness wants to live in lonely life talking to noone ( yes he has gone life is to move forward untill cv makes him come back ) then y should i support kes-gul..😕...i know i m overreacting but if talli doesnt deserve kesar so is gulaal 🤢i think kesar should throw the letters and go to police station confess what he has listened land gulaal and dushy in jail (yes gulaal is criminal too she has hidden her husband murder mystery ok she is not her husband only but someone bother and son she has no right to forgive dushy from their behalf...) and then get married to a sensible girl not a saint thats it happy ending .😕...sorry but i m highly disgusted...😡😡😡😡..gulaal has left me no option😡😡😡😡😡😡

serousily we love kesar but that doesnt means we will support him in his sucidial attempt...🤢🤢...now i will not support kes-gul until gulaal gives me proper clue that she deserves him ...but talli doesnt deserve kesar either...🤢🤢🤢...ise acha kesar bachelor rahe😆