Why is Talli being lead wrong?

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nirv

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don't get why Talli is being lead to think that she is going to be meant for Kesar. Gulaal did it and now even her adoptive mom said it to her despite knowing that Kesar was married to Gulaal 10 years ago. Even the Pandit said that only his wife sits beside him during pooja and Gulaal wanted her to sit in the pooja too, why is Taali still being lead on?

What I fail to understand is that the house members either think that Kesar marrying twice is ok or that they don't take Gulaal and Kesar's marriage seriously at all. What do you guys think?

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Posted: 14 years ago

They don't take Gulaal and Kesar's marriage seriously at all. I mean they know it exists but they'd rather forget about it because they all assumed that it will be broken when Kesar becomes an adult. No-one, including Gulaal expects the marriage to last for long but I do think leading Talli on is rather daft because they don't know what Kesar wants.

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Lennie

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Posted: 14 years ago

Talli is even leading herself on, she has fallen in love with him over the years so i think thats was going to happen, she thinks and esp all that Kes-Talli will happen not knowing what Kesar will want

If you think about esp from Kesar's pov, another thing is being forced on him, and i dont think he will like that

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Posted: 14 years ago

Like Reemz I think the family are alittle draft for leading Talli on. Not only is Kesar married, which is kind of ok since no one expects the marriage to last. But he has been away from the family for 8 years! That is one hell of a long time. Why doesnt anyone think that he might have found another girl at boarding school? Also he hasn't been in touch with Talli for all these years...

How the program is progressing it doesn't seem like there is another girl from his time at boarding school but there could be a chance and the family don't know that.

Lennie I agree....Kesar doesnt like things being forced on him. And he won't like people pushing Talli towards him. If anything is to happen between Talli and himself...he will be the one wanting it also.

If Talli and Kesar are to have a relationship...Talli needs to understand him, the hurt his been living with and his and Gulaal bond. We will see how Talli's personality develops atm she is very immature and young.

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Lennie

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Posted: 14 years ago

Talli does need to understand Kesar if anything is going to happen between them, but i just dont see it - she too wrapped up in the notion of it all

From Kesar's pov its seems like another decision is forced upon him again, but we all know where others have stem from, the deeyavatu and the boarding school and now this Talli marriage, atm its hard to see if Kesar will ever like Talli like that etc

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peacefulblossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don;t see Tali understanding Kesar atm too. But Tali is young and there is still time for development. If not a romantic partner it will be nice to see Tali and Kesar friendship there.

I don;t see Kesar liking Talli in a romantic context atm too.

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Lennie

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Posted: 14 years ago

Kesar hasnt seen Talli more then a friend even back then when they were little, it was always Gulaal - she will be the first one to put colour on me, whilst Talli wanted to do it and so on etc

Its hard to see if Kesar can develop feelings for her, coz all his emotions seems to go towards Gulaal - which are all intense emotions and feelings at the moment......

Gul i say is an ideal woman for any person, so to choose Talli over Gul is hard to see lol

I think at the moment Kesar just needs a friend someone who he can be somewhat himself and content with coz with Gulaal at the moment its all tense and so much going on........

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prernacda

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Posted: 14 years ago

true....

but there is a saying that friendship is the foundation stone of love...

talli has been encouraged by sudha and gulaal from day 1, when she did not to leave them....that she could stay inhouse by marrying kesar. and when she said he is my friend...the reaction was so what.....

lots of friendships have successfully conver

gulaal wants this to happen and knowing her determination....she has to make it clear to kesar...the limits...before things get worse and stop confusing him further and ask him why the anger and clear it before it gets worse. gulaal is the classic case...1 foot in 2 seperate boats, and does not want to let go of either one....or know what to do.

not going to work....anymore.

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Incense

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Posted: 14 years ago

well on contrary y gulaal thinks she has right to take all decisions for kesar first she married him later she sent him to bording school now she determined to marry talli to kesar......without knowing his choice i think gulaal needs zor ka jatkha from kesar......which she will get when kesar will know wht she is upto....😉

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