Gulaal & Kesar WILL end up together

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: nneeiill
OMG why cant viewers understand the basic thing that if ever gulaal had seen him as son she would have not done deeyarvattu at first place come what may. So those who think there was something like mother-son relation is stating on total baseless assumptions without watching the episodes..

You cannot judge the characters by seeing few episodes especialy in gulaal where each scene is new revelation.
I never knew people once upon a time had these kind of negative thoughts.

what????
she havve never seen him like that..

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alanta

@alanta

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

I never ever felt their relation as mother-son. No way at all. Kesar was her little friend and when she met Kesar for the first time she was a girl of 18 and he was of 12 and she offered friendship to Kesar from that point of time Gulaal is the girl in his dreams. I dont know from which aspect you are taging it a name. Gulaal fed Kesar food bcoz Kesar asked her to do so believing it was his right over her. Esp Gulaal has never said anything like that even before. She never tagged their relationship.

Dont make Gulaal sound too old by making her his mother. See, Kesar is 22 and Gulaal is 28 now and how can you expect a mother/son relation btw them????Esp when neither Kesar nor Gulaal has not thought like that. Their age difference is not huge. I've fed up saying it again and again. Plz try to understand an age difference of 6 is very common among couples.

For Gulaal, Kesar is Vasanth's dream and she is always attached to Kesar too, but in what way that even she does'nt know.

I know once Paanba and Daiba addressed Gulaal as Yashoda, but even they didnt took it as serious. On the other hand Kesar was not even ready to see Gulaal as his Bhabhi. For Gulaal Kesar was just Kesar, nothing more or less, but as years passed she developed a right over him unconciously, but not in the name of any relation and the eternal bond is the only reason I can see here.

Above all in a society where a custom like Deeyarvattu is followed, I dont think they consider devar/bhabi as mother-son as it, it would be a blunder. In this show Gulaal was shown as Rukmini where Kesar was once the Krishna.

@MeySimi by reading your threads I felt you were in support of Gulsar. But today I came across ur post in this thread. It really disappointed me. So you also believe that Gulaal considered kesar as her son! Oh no I dont want to repeat this again.

Recently no one seems to respond to my posts. I think my posts became boring, so I kept away for a while. But for this one I seriously need a reply. Plz be kind to make a reply post. 😊

Edited by alanta - 14 years ago

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EXOL

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

@alanta..

i completely agree with you.

very apt words. u have described it beautifully.

even am astonished to see how come ppl can make such baseless conclusion. its a pity those who watch the show themselves fail to understand this. I know there are ppl who without even watching the show or may be from hearsay allege that it is gross to see such relation but I expected atleast people who watch Gulaal can get the essence of the show.

Even if there is 10 years gap..so wat. Love has no bound. In olden times also, after husband died then devar was the first choice for the widow. if husband is alive then we say bhabi n devar relation should be pious. Here CV's right from the beginning have portrayed Kes-Gul relation more of friends and caretaker. He already had a mother he dint needed another one for god sake.

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EXOL

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

@meysimi..

I was shocked to see your post but then I realised you wrote it when you were new to the show.

Edited by nneeiill - 14 years ago

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

@Nneeiill,

I have always and still state that I had my own apprehensions about this relation. Even in my post about Gulaal and family a day ago, I have admitted about my apprehension. Without watching the show, I haven't made conclusions.

My post in this thread is proof where I have said that Daiba mentioned the word see it as mother-son. I have never stated that Gulaal called him her son. I was apprehensive how then this relation would carry forward.

The dialogue where she talks about lack of proper Paalan Poshan to Kesar definitely reveals what she thinks of him as. There is an article on Manasi's page, where she herself says that Gulaal is like a mom to him BUT they are bound by the relation of husband and wife. Now for the actor herself to mention that gives clue of how the story had been initially planned. Here is the link http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/photo.php?fbid=165415416845149&set=pu.147702845283073&type=1&theater

Star plus had initially thrown open a poll naming Kesar and Talli as young couple. Obviously the audience was not in favor of it. When the poll came by asking Do Kesar and Gulaal belong together, they got the highest votes. I have many other reasons to believe that the story has been in tune with audience favor.

In the scenes where Gulaal makes Kesar sit on the lap for the Rasm after marriage, when she used to give him a peck on the cheek whenever he did something good, the scene where she says "Tu hai hi bahut pyaara, who wouldn't love you" certainly makes you feel that Gulaal treats him as a little kid. That is why I mentioned it as almost parenting. Kesar treated her as friend and guide.He has been clear about that very well. Its about Gulaal's state of mind towars Kesar.

Like many others who do, I did not make statements without watching the show. I had completed watching all episodes and I have read every possible/available piece of information available on the net about Gulaal before I made my first post in this Gulaal forum. That is my sincerity to anything that I do. And like I have already said, I started to watch the show for Neil Bhatt. I have been a fan of his for a while now. So I was open to such a story because of the complexity involved in Kesar's character. And though I am not definitely in favor of such a relationship from a personal point of view, I have been able to gracefully accept the story in spite of such earlier references by other characters about the "relationship".

I have no problem with age issue, I have no problem in a woman finding love in another person, I have no issues about the Deeyarvatu concept since it is a practice still prevalent in certain rural background.

So before you come to conclusions and dismiss my understanding of the show to be due to me being "new member", I would suggest you to go to my IF profile and go to "My posts section and read what all i have written till date.

My concept hasn't changed. If they show Gulaal opening up to Kesar, I am welcome provided, she too feels for him. If Gulaal is going to be shown as someone who will never ever accept Kesar as husband, the "woman" in me would still admire her but honestly I would want her to move on with the person who loves her the most.

Edited by MeySimi - 14 years ago

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EXOL

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

@Meysimi:

sorry if u felt offended.

But i want to clarify one thing, in all the posts I made it was a general comments for all the viewers who considered it as mother-son relation.It was not specifically for you. What i wanted to convey you i wrote in separate post.And you urself had mentioned u were new to the show when u wrote it. I just repeated it.Again no offence.

Even today in NBTRS i saw comments stating the relation is gross which is why i felt the need to write here again .Else I would have ignored this post like I always do

P.S: What could be more convincing than the fact that Gulaal chose to do deeyarvattu with Kesar. Is that not enough reason to understand mother-son relation was never there. An outsider(daima)can always be wrong in judging the relation.

Edited by nneeiill - 14 years ago

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

@Nneeill, I have edited my post with more clarification. Do take time to read it. I have provided a link too. By mentioning as being new, it was my inability to recollect her as Daiba.

Edited by MeySimi - 14 years ago

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alanta

@alanta

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Posted: 14 years ago

#38

@MeySimi

Daiba once said so, but only once,while the show is/was constantly hinting for the Gulsar pairing from Day1. Daiba adviced Panba so, for she can give an easy way out for her whenever she sees Gulsar together, for Kesar was just 12 then.

Relation btw 2 can be easily interpreted in any way by an outsider (here Daiba) but what the concerned persons(here Gulaal and Kesar) feel for each other matters in the true sense. I just cant think of Gulaal ever considered Kesar as her child. It is like a nightmare for me.

After all it is a matter of concern, but I really dont think so. If it was so, she might have voiced out it atleast for once, esp in such a pressurised present situation, that what she actually felt/feels for Kesar. bcoz she too never felt like that ever.

She is not accepting Kesar because she just dont want to get out of Vasanth's shell. By accepting Kesar as her husband she should be loyal to him. Gulaal believes that she can be only loyal to Vasanth. So she thinks that if she accepts Kesar she will be betraying both Vasanth and Kesar.

After all dont forget that Daiba was the first and foremost person to address Gulaal and Kesar as husband and wife after the leap, seems like she herself forgot what she said years ago, shows that she didnt mean it in the full sense and it was just to console Panba.

Now even Panba wants to see them as hubby/wife.

Apart from the love aspect, I do think that Gulaal is young enough to lead a married life with Kesar,all of them wholeheartedly accepts/accepted their marriage, but they just dont want to force it on Gulaal. Age is not a matter of concern for them too(I guess) for which I said in the first line of this para.

Plz do reply.

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EXOL

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Posted: 14 years ago

#39

@meysimi

I understand your POV but for me still it is not convincing coz what i give relevance is what is shown on the screen and not offscreen. Manasi might have said something like that ..they tend to keep things secret ...even in latest SBS she said something like KEsar shaadi kar raha hai Thali se..and she quite cleverly misguided the viewers .so we cant go by what the actors say behind the screen

Another thing I want to give importance to what panditji had predicted in the show and not on polls created by the channel. Polls are created to grab eye balls of viewers for new characters or to the show-marketing strategy and i dont think it is apt to change my understanding of the show based on such things

I still remember the voice over for Kesar and Talli;s entry after the leap

they described how Talli was far from her love and then they say kahi dhoor koi aur apne pyaar se dhoor tha. I am so sure they meant the pyaar word for Gulaal and not Talli. Kes-Gul hint was there right from the first promo.

Gulaal has forgotten to live life for herself . She has locked herself and if there is one person who can break the wall she has build around herself it is Kesar.

Edited by nneeiill - 14 years ago