Precap - Page 5

Originally posted by: sumatra1234

AJ is a serious character, the character of justice.
This is what he does with Guddan, to me it's called injustice.
He made her guilty and did not find out the whole story.

You see we can always find an excuse for AJ behavior but that's not fair.

AJ hide too many things from her, but she was not angry and insulted him in front of the whole family. She did not took from him right that he is her husband.

When she learned true of Parv she just confronted him with the truth.
She did not go in front of the whole family said, as he was the one who lied. She respects him, AJ do not respect Guddan. He do not respect Guddan as his wife.

Originally posted by: inlieu

We know why he's doing it, but it's still wrong of him to behave this way. I wouldn't be surprised if things go out of hand because of it and then something really bad happens that AJ will regret. He also needs to realize that he's not perfect either and in no way can he take the moral high ground with Guddan whenever he feels like.

Originally posted by: captainplus

AJ & Guddu are two different characters with different personalities.

Both can't be expected to behave & react in the same way.

+ when Guddu came to know about Pervy, Akshan's relation dynamic were different. When he came to know about Rawat, their relation dynamic had already changed alot. Both have formed a bond. Both situations can't be compared.

When she came to know about Pervy, at that time she didn't used to see or respect him as her husband but as a respectable figure.

Not to forget, on the wedding night when she got proofs against him, she accused him in front of both the families & threatened to hand him over to police.

Had he known about that at the same time when Guddu came to know about Pervy, his reaction would have been much different cause at that time he didn't share anything with her on top of that she believed he is behind her sister's kidnapping.

At that time he would have given her full chance to explain herself cause at that time he hadn't shared anything with her & so he won't have been this much hurt.

But now after spending so much time together, clearing all of the initial MU between them when he finally started to get some peace by sharing his pain with her, he came to know of this. He is hurt beyond the point from where he can think clearly.

He doesn't want to get the same hurt again & somewhere he knows if he listens to Guddu, he will once again start believing in her & trusting her.

He doesn't want to do that.

In this case, if he is doing injustice to Guddu, he is doing the same injustice to himself too by stubbornly denying the peace that he would get by hearing Guddu's side of story.

& somewhere he is knows that.

Both respect each other in their own ways, under their own terms & conditions.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, yes it's about his convenience. He needs to give Guddan the same respect and space to make her own decisions as the other half of this couple. Guddan's refusal to wear the MS is a great way for her to show that she's not to be taken lightly.

Ah! I can't wait for tomorrow's episode. I'm actually worried that I'll be disappointed by my over excitement if things don't turn out the way we think. 😆

Originally posted by: sumatra1234

Yes Guddan and AJ are different people. We are talking about respecting one person to another.

like both characters are different, both of their ways of showing respect is also different.

Respect goes both sides, it's just Guddan respect him a lot.

If we're talking about a situation that occurred when Parv and his truth came to light. He even did not even want to explain that it is not his fault.
Here she wants to explain what has happened and he was not to listen.

Back than their relation dynamics were different & now its different.

Right now his state of mind isn't ready listen, his emotions are overpowering him. He is being impulsive.

Worse yet is the fact that he spent so much time with her, he does not know how to respect the relationship that the two of them have.

He respects the relation that's why he didn't say her anything much in the hall except for the most relevant parts which he couldn't control in the heat of the moment. Rest he chose to vent out inside the room.

I can understand when he learned that he was angry, but after that, he did not gave a one chance to her, to explain what it was the problem.
It is not fair.

yes what he is doing is not fair to both of them.

You say that he respects her. When?

very recently in the bed room conversation regarding Angad.

There was no flinch in his expression nor he made an attempt to argue when she stated she is his wife.

He didn't interrupt once when she spoke instead, listened to her quietly.
If that's where he yelling at her.

Yelling is part of his personality, I don't think he would change that even if he starts worshiping her tomorrow
Or when her side of the story AJ is not interested listen.

that doesn't mean he doesn't respect her, currently his emotions are over powering him.

Or when he ripped her MS.

he was hurt, angry & felt betrayed & committed that in the heat of the moment.

Or when he said that she was not a good wife.

Or how she betrayed his trust.

He felt betrayed & played with so he said that but that doesn't mean he doesn't respect her.

This is the exchange of opinions so it's nothing personal.

Originally posted by: captainplus

I strongly believe, both of them respect each other in their own individual ways.

& would always completely refuse to accept or agree otherwise cause so far, I can clearly see respect from both sides.

Everyone has their own ways of seeing things & this is my way.

Originally posted by: sumatra1234

You just want to prove that he is right.
I do not think so.
For me AJ is wrong.

Originally posted by: Kammy02

Yay precap was mast rocky will get his left dhulai frim chef Aj

Lekin rocky ne Aj ko gussa dila diya

Akshan remarriage tommorow

Guddan stop Aj for making her wear ms good job Guddan

Ab buddhe ko shayad thori sadbuddhi aa jaye😆

Originally posted by: captainplus

nope i don't intent to prove anything to anyone cause proving will mean imposing my views on others.

But since my replies has been quoted, & my opinions questioned, i am just replying with the basis of my belief & opinion.

Everyone has their own views /opinion/ way of seeing things & are completely free to have that. It isn't necessary that everyone has to agrees with me & one is free to disagree.

For me, I believe both do respect each other, in their own individual ways.

I am not judging a character simply on the scale of right & wrong rather seeing the overall picture & analyzing what is leading one to behave or react in a certain way.