December 26th 2018 Written Update: Nazrana Apna Apna
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Miya aur Biwi Ka Saath, 👏 Nok Jhok😆
3 Devils Ka Mini Karma😈👏
December 26th 2018 Written Update: Nazrana Apna Apna
DKJ says what's going on here, gift exchange happened when there was Love & Respect btw 2 families.
Guddan tries to remind of the affection 2 families share with the presents. The presents in the bag are what 2 families had bought for each other. DKJ was about to throw the shawl made by Revati away but Dadi hold her hand saying that "A person gives someone Gift when there is Affection & Respect, 👏says I know Guddan lied but her purpose was good in reuniting the two families. (Someone send DKJ in Anger Management Class & Counseling Sessions😡)
Bushan says "People in Anger, they forget everything & the same happened with me, & I forgot the SNEH & Respect you gave us. He says let BYGONES Be BYGONES, I am willing to apologize to you. He folds his hands but from the doorway AJ says NO, he approaches his FIL & says that you are "OLDER than US, Elder should not APOLOGIZE but GIVING FORGIVENESS AJ continues that Aap didn't do anything wrong for which you should apologize for. He says you are "GIRLS Father but you will not APOLOGIZE UNNECESSARY👏 Dadi breaks the ice, by aksing Santa Claus to pass the gifts to everyone (Kaushaliya- Necklace Set,3 Bahus)
AJ says to Bushan"WE should be Apologizing NOT U because you got Disrespected in this house He folds his hands and apologizes👏 (May all the unmarried girls get a husband like AJ who respects their FIL & His Wife First Hero Her Dad) 3 Devils are shocked, Guddan is touched, Dadi is smiling. AJ a man of many Shades, a perfect son, husband, father, SIL, & Role MODEL.❤️👏
Bushan says NO Damadji we consider SIL as Bhagwan, Bhagwan doesn't do anything wrong that they should apologize by folding hands. Seriously along with Dadi-Guddans Bond, Love Bushan-AJ bond, (For some reason, Reminded me of Raja Janak & Lord Ram)
AJ turns to DKJ, tells his "DKJ Bahu you are Responsible for handling this House, You are Responsible for all the events (insults & tamsha) happened in this house, when people OLDER than you are folding their hands & apologizing to you, so it's the FARZ of you 3 DILS, DKJ Bahu FARZ BANTA Hai "⭐️👏(Love u AJ & your justice) An reluctant DKJ, LVJ, SJ Bahu, apologizes to GUPTA Family.👏 (Best X-MAS Gift, Priceless) Love how they obeyed their FIL AJ after all he is still the HEAD of the FAMILY.
^DKJ MINI KARMA SERVED In her EGO & INORDER to prove Guddan Jindal WRONG for JINDAL BHAVAN, she forgot that as Keeper of the Keys she is responsible for the Drama/ Tamsha that happens especially when Guest are invited. No matter where ever we live for us "Guest are considered Bhawgan, as the Lady Responsible for House, she should have made sure that All of her Guests are not insulted whether she likes them or not. AJ was fair with Durga, even though Guddan was Not Directly but Indirectly Responsible she took the BLAME & admitted her Fault and tried to find the belongings.
AS DIL & Keeper of Keys of Jindal Family, DKJ has no right in interfering between the decisions that her SAAS-SASUR take in their personal life or regarding their two families-both Sasural because its their business and none of her business.
DKJ fails to understand that neither AJ or Guddan are interfering with her position as keeper of the keys, but both her MIL & FIL are trying to maintain the peace between the two families because if DIL can be the Beti of her Sasural, why cannot a SIL be son of his sasural. Marriage are not forming a bond between two couples but also forming a Relationship & bond between two families where there is certain amount of Affection & Respect despite the difference of POV or upbringing.
Dadi praises Guddan for reuniting 2 families, AJ is about to leave but Guddan says I did all this Karnama but it was AJ's idea- they share eye lock👏, LALLA is surprised for credit. Guddan says I was following the Script of my Husband, he said to give everyone their favorite gifts n remind the love they share. Guddan says I should not be receiving the praises but her Hubby Should be the receiving the credit. Aww what a WIFE- all the credit should be given to her Deserving Husband. If she wanted she could have been Selfish n taken the credit. Guddan's KC words came true when both HUSBAND & WIFE are together, they can find and solve a solution to any problem that arises.
She says to her Hubby, I wanted to just say "THANK YOU!!! AJ leaves from there.
^ "Thank You two small words sometimes has & held more value than materialistic & monetary value. Thank you it shows the receiver that you appreciate their efforts & them, you have respect for their thoughts n value. Today these two small word "Thank You will hold more value to AJ because his wife was meaning it sincerely from her heart, respected & appreciated him, regarding how he handled & helped her erasing the distance between two families. But Lalla was surprised, he was like OH Man why did she wanted to relive this side of his too the family? It's only for his wifey!!!
Guddan remembers that it's Kathor's X-MAS also, n she goes upstairs to feed him. Dadi is like together Akshan solved a big problem between the 2 families in a minute. Dadi prays to LORD KRISHNA to keep her Son & DIL together. Seething DKJ says that I thought Guddan did her magic on only Dadi but now on AJ. Na Na DKJ you don't understand their BOND they can communicate verbally n nonverbally with their eyes. Amidst all the misunderstanding; both Guddan & AJ slowly earned & built each other's respect & trust, they are always honest with each other, listen to each other POV, n they communicate.
AKSHAN ROOM: In front of her mirror, Guddan is trying to remove the remaining beard sticking on her cheekbones. Guddan tells herself don't be afraid of the pain, she counts 1,2,3,4, tilts her head sideways to remove the beard. In her titling position, she sees AJ coming in, blinking her eyes cutley, she asks her "hubby why are you standing crooked.😆 AJ goes to his wife and straightens her. He teases his wife your viewing of way are CROOKED. Wifey says when I do mistakes you catch instantly but sometimes understand my Joke Jindal Saab. I love how Guddan calls her hubby Jindal Saab in Private.
Hubby tells wifey sarcastically you have great sense of humor. He leaves n goes to seat down on the bed with his laptop but he is watching his wife antics like how she is having trouble removing her beard. Without her speaking, hubby dearest promptly goes stands behind his wife and tells her I will help you. Wife who was seating in front of her dressing table turns n stands up. She says "I don't need your help, you will help n give me 2 hours of lecture. " He says then your thread from beard is removed, you will remain standing here all night, "you won't sleep n I won't sleep.
^ "You won't sleep n I won't sleep- After the separation this words of his will come true, they are 2 bodies but 1 soul bonded by the Ghatbhandan, if a husband is restless how can a wife get her Sleep & Sukoon. If a wife is worried, how can husband find his peace & happiness of his mind, body or soul. Right now only their mind & soul are connected but they have powerful relationship n bond stronger they trust & respect each other.
AJ tells his wife to Palto, before touching asks her permission her, he says May I, (Jindal saab is such a gentleman) Wifey says "in order to remove it do it slowly n carefully, because I applied extra GUM(glue) & its paining really badly. AJ is looking at the jawline to remove the thread of beard, he tilts her head, wifey also tilts her head in the same direction-cute scene😳 (Reminds me of Hum Aapke Hai Koun when Prem & Nisha meant they both tilted their hands, both were blinking their eyes)
Guddan told her hubby "in order to remove it do it slowly n carefully, because I its paining really badly- This will be applied in their separation track when Guddan leaves the house & mess behind her for her Dignity. AJ the husband, the mature one, head of the house, will have to handle the situation carefully, try to do the investigation of why Guddan married him, what actual happened! Where is the CD of their wedding video, there should be clues there.
AJ tells Wifey to Look Up, but she asks him to promise him to do it slowly. He gently and carefully trys to remove the thread of beard, understands that she added extra glue. He distracts his wife from the pain, by asking about the Santa, she is distracted like a child, he proceeds to clean the thread. He pulls the thread, she jumps in pain n catches him, they share a half hug, she is holding her hubby as a support but her eyes are closed, AJ is facing the mirror. She lets go of him, he applies the lotion on her skin to sooth the pain on her irritate skin. He says I was not interested in your story, or Santa Costume. He finishes says Welcome. (For the downstairs & beard thread removing)
^ AJ is going to be the mender in Akshan relationship, indirectly he caused his wife pain. No matter how irritated his wife will be Jindal Saab will be the one to remove the distance/pain: gently, carefully with patience. Remember he was the one who was holding the Gahtbhandan from falling, its was always Guddan walking away even in the Lakeerien MV.
Wifey say to her Hubby: "You are very horrible, you are horrible, I said Thank you to in front of everyone for your idea & appreciated you!! But you don't valuable my idea, I shouldn't have taken your help, because I knew you would have lectured me. He says are you done, Excuse Me n goes to his bed.
Hubby: AJ says you don't help me. While working on the laptop, he says "when I gave you the Gift Giving Idea, you said to me First that you don't need my suggestion, and then you were thanking me. AJ says: "You know Guddan, you cannot be alone for couple of hours without asking my help." ----This is going to be hard for both AKshan, in 2 months time Guddan has come to trust, rely, seek her hubby's help, she knows he is always there for her time of need or when a problem arises he is her solution & answer to her problems. For AJ he will be restless to know if she is safe or not, if his wife didn't get into any trouble, how will she manage without him. He will be concerned for her whether she is crying or not, or if she has any Sukoon or not.
AJ says: Guddan Jindal you always need the help of Everyone but has anyone asked or needed your help. Think about it. Let me work! Guddan turns toward the dressing mirror says to herself: Within 24 hours you will need my help or else my name is not Guddan Jindal.
Kitchen Drama:
LVJ is looking at the water holding her both her palms. DKJ comes, sees the food is not ready, orders her 2 Devranis to cook food but LVJ rebels. LVJ says no matter who has the Keys whether You: DKJ, AJ or Guddan, we will have no value in this house, we will be servants. LVJ gives good wake up call DKJ & slap at her ego, says the Keys are useless in your hands, and has no value, its just a toy, she refuses to cook food for Gupta family & Guddan. She leaves with SJ. After they leave DKJ got huge blow on her ego, she is seething in rage.
^ I am glad LVJ realizes that no matter what DKJ says, the Keys holds no value because both AJ & Guddan are head of the Household, she is their SAAS no matter what they say or hate or dislike her. To me it looks like LVJ is one of the Bahus who will leave team DKJ. My assumption is she will be the one Bahu who we least suspect of making her own Identity besides being the wife of Vardhan Jindal or the daughter-in-law of Jindal House. LVJ dream regarding Guddan & keys, she realized that she has no value in the house and she is useless. DKJ is responsible while SJ is educated, but what is LVJ? Everyone thinks she is Comedy or USELESS. After Guddan-AJ separation, I think (hope) she will be one of the cupids in helping them reunite, after she realizes how Lonely her FIL is because she never wanted AJ to spend rest of his life without love or be lonely.
DKJ is just selfish, in her ego she is forgetting that SJ and LVJ are Bahus like her, both of them also wanted respect of a Bahu & Love. Before Guddan, DKJ had 2.5 years to know LVJ & understand her, become sisters but she forgot all that in Rules, Regulations & Responsibilities of Jindal House. There is no love & respect between the 3 Bahus of the house, all are ready to backstab each other. Even though LVJ& SJ disliked their Saasuma, they were happy that at least she tried to fulfill their dreams for one second.
Living Room near downstairs.
Dadi calls Guddan downstairs and asks her where her Hubby is. Gudday says he must be frying his brains out by reading a book. AJ says by "reading your memory becomes sharp!-After separation, why does it feel like that Guddan will start to read books in order to keep herself busy!!!
Dadi says its my DIL first Christmas, where is her present? Guddan is surprised and excited regarding the PRESENT. Dadi opens the box, takes out 2 beautful diamond braclets. (DKJ is seething, LVJ is surprise, SJ has evil eyes-temptation to steal, Revati happy for her Di, Kushaliya greedy, Bushan happy for daughter ) Guddan says the bangles are too big for her, she is not used to it! Dadi says get use to it because she is Jindal Bahu!! Guddan to overexcited to wear her gift (such an impatient child), wants to know how the Bangles will look in her hands. Dadi says whats the rush, Lalla will put it on you!! Kaushaliya wishes those bangles were for her daughter. Felt like AJ was surprise that his mum, asked him to make Guddan wear the bangles! He looks out of his comfort zone! Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal not fair, you got Kangans from hubby, but where is his gift?
AJ puts the kangans on his wife looks at her over excited expression while a soothing flute music plays in the background, reminding us of Lord Krishna ji's blessing on the couple. Super excited, Guddan who is admiring her bangles says thank you! Did anyone notice that after AJ put the Bangles on that Guddan's wedding Churas got completed? Indicating in the future she will have the complete love from her husband, in everything from his love, support, guidance to making her complete WOMAN in physical sense! But also AJ will give Guddan time to accept him as her husband, he will not do anything that will make her uncomfortable.
^ To me Guddan didn't least expect to receive any kinds of Gift, because of all the troubles that arose in her house. So she was just as excited like a child to receive a gift. She didn't care about the value of the gift. She just cared about receiving gifts, if instead of Expensive Kangans if it was Motichoor Ladoos, she would have shown the same excitement. Her antics reminds me of my 2 year old niece, whom I gave her x-mas present, she was happy to carry the big box by herself and open & rip the papers all by herself. Her expression was similar like Guddan filled with cuteness, excitement, lots of blabber half I didn't understand. I only understood Mere & Tank You!!
^Guddan reminded me of myself, when I get new fashion jewelry or anything new I just love to try on n see how it looks. Thora to normal hai. But also in way her super excitement made her look greedy too!
^ SJ & Kaushaliya Buri Nazar wala tere Mouh Kala. Don't you guys dare try to steal that Kangana's? It's not for you!!! Chorni & Lalchis!!!
^ In DKJ mind, I bet Majnu's Moti Machli dialogue is replying regarding Guddan's marriage to AJ, how she married him for $.
Is it just me or AJ's expression regarding the Kangans feel different? It feels like annoyance ya irritation. He is not the same person that was upstairs!
Precap: Christmas Special, Akshan play parcel game similar to HAHK!!! Kamdev Perv brings the Snake in, Guddan afraid sees snake!! Akshan 2nd Dance: 1st has married couple
But why is it after each Akshan dance, Guddan becomes Bhag Guddan Bhag! After Sangeet, she ran away, we know after this she will leave Jindal House for her self respect!
My Rants
Todays Episode was about PERSPECTIVE OF Viewing things, One person has different POV and Another Person has DIFFERENT view of same object.
Example: if we have glass filled with 50% of water. Person A may say its Half EMPTY while Person B may say its Half Filled. Neither Person A or B are wrong but their Perspective is different.
Apologizing POV
AJ as the Head of the House, FIL saw that his 3 Bahus made a mistake by insulting his Sasural & in-laws, he corrected their mistake and made them apologize. Especially since it was his Bahus fault and they forgot their Tameez of not respecting someone who is elder to them in age & status. Like in away Bushan & Kaushaliya are their Nana & Naniji
For 3 Bahus by apologizing to Gupta Family hurted their ego made them feel less valuable in the house. All of them are too selfish to realize what their prank or insult left. They only want Guddan Jindal out of the house.
For Guddan: by making 3 Devils apologize for to her Papa, made her respect her husband more, in a way he corrected their 3 devils mistake, & also kept her word regarding giving her family apologize from the 3 Bahus. AJ always knows how to play his cards right, so by hook & crook he used the FIL authority on his 3 Bahus!!! It was with a deadly warning tone.
Keys
Akshat Jindal: FIL & Head of the House: After Antara's demise, along with handling his Holding & Restaurant Business, taking care of his Mum & 3 sons, it was his responsibility to handle the House Hold. If AJ thought his Eldest DIL DKJ, who he knows is capable of handling the family responsibility well but he never thought of handing her the keys? I think from the interaction, his X-Rays knows that his Bahu is not never ready for the responsibility because of her ego! Even though AJ is Tycoon, he knows how to talk to all sort of people despite their social status without making them feel uncomfortable.
But with his guilt of not saving Antara & his love for her, he became emotionless that he forgot about Love, so instead of his Pyar, they offered his Krodh. So he became a Ringmaster with hunter aka Hilter Jindal for his DILS. That had Rules & Regulations in running the house, with no mistakes to be made or done. Because for him mistakes are made in Majboori.
Guddan Jindal: MIL & Head of the House: She didn't like how her husband was running the house with his rules & regulations like Ringmaster running a circus with a Hunter. Her big talks, landed her the Keys Along with Responsibility of the Jindal Bhavan & Family Member. For which she was not ready for especially without a proper guidance on how to run the house. First Guddan tried running the away by bribing everyone with their favorite food, pleasing them. Due to her mistake n overconfidence, not thinking properly, her decision led to the Restaurant Kand blunder.
Badlav: During her Era as Keeper of the House, she wanted to bring Badlav in Jindal House. She wanted the unity of family, husband & wife time for her DIL & her son, working woman: SJ. But she never tried to force them on anyone, it was take it or ignore it.
After the restaurant kand blunder, & Dadi's explanation Guddan realized the importance of the Keys & its responsibility, she vowed that she will fulfill her duty fully. She wanted the Honor, Dignity, Respect, Name of Jindal Family to be intact that her husband earned with his hard work through out the years.
Before going to the audition she did a blunder of leaving the keys with Kathor instead of Dadi. Which cause the Chori Kand! Even though this was indirectly her fault Guddan expected all the blame, tried to correct her mistakes properly. Even once did she not try to force her thinking or POV on anyone or DILS. But to save the house, husband respect, she herself willingly stepped down n handed the KEYS to DKJ her eldest Bahu.
DKJ Ego: She is smart, responsible, sharp, female version of AJ, but her ego & Jindal family status is on her way. Sometimes she is too old fashion for her age, she doesn't like changes. In her Anger, Ego, Revenge, Lower Guddan Down, she is forgetting all her Cultural Values, Rules & Regulations of the House.
She doesn't feel honored to have the responsibilities has the Keeper of the Keys. She only sees the Rules, Regulations & Responsibilities but she doesn't value the relationship with the people living in the house. She sees them has Puppets that can do what she says. She herself is ruining the Izzat of Jindal Family by having insults done at her home.
LVJ: wanted to rule the house, thought she will have the luxury& free from slavery. But she realize no matter who has the hosue keys their decision will be useless. The final call will always be of FIL AJ & MIL Guddan because they are Head of House & older in status too.
Kananga POV
For Dada it was giving her DIL what she deserve as the Eldest DIL, MIL of Jindal Family & wife of her Lalla. Dadi has seen that Guddan does all the responsibilities that come her way in her style. When she makes mistakes her DIL Guddan is never scared to admit them, she corrects & learns for them.
Guddan Akshat Jindal: She never expected to receive such a beautiful, equisite Kangana's from her hubby. She was excited like to receive her. But her over excitment might have left bad expression on some of her family members, made her look Greedy.
DKJ: she married AJ for money. She was the nosy Chuglakhor Aunty who wanted to know why Guddan wanted to marry a man twice her age. She didn't see Guddan's excitement or innocent child look. She saw Greedy young woman whoses dreams of having Name, Fame, Money of Jindal House (rolleyes)
LVJ: was shock to see the diamond Kangana of her Saasuma. She was like my Babyboo has not given me anything like this. She has completely done Vashi on AJ to get expensive gifts.
SJ: Jahan Teri Nazar Hai, Meri Jaa Mujhe Khabar Hai, the Chorni in her is eyeing the two diamond Kangana's in her Saasuma's hands. Her brain is calculating the $ its worth & 1700 ideas to steal them; while her hands will be tempted & itching to steal them.
In OLV: When Guddan is leaving the house, her hands are empty from the Kangana's. So did she leave them with AJ with note or something. If SJ steals them, will she be caught?
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