Sai doesn't want to be Sai Chavan page 6 - Page 22

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Sai was "separated" from Virat for some 7 years. The reason of separation was Virat chosing his ex who destroyed Sai's life after trying to give her, Sai's son. What happened with her before she left Virat , what triggered her to leave him was enough for her to be not in love with him.What followed after she came back, in his life, the way he behaved, should take away any guilt from her, if at all she felt wrong in not being love with this man.. RIght now the whole narrative that she has been love with him for 8-10 years does not work for me, given she had enough reasons to be not in love with him.

However if what happened with her, 7 years back, did not succeed in taking that love away from her heart, if those 7 years of struggle and loneliness, did not make her come out of love with Virat, now that Virat has claimed he loves her & is miserable without her, there is no way she is falling out of love with him..SHe might deny, Satya, herself but thats how it is.. In all this she will not just emotionally cheat Satya, but break him bit by bit now that he is attached. Virat shall always be her man, always, despite how abusive he is with her..She is fine with the abuse, she has never really raised questions on that after falling in love with him.

Itna logical mat bolo. My 💔.

Guys look at this Ayesha was live 🤣

https://twitter.com/SONA_12_/status/1658489816621932547?t=z5j0CSicVKLdbZCgBRbBTA&s=19

Originally posted by: Nja91

she is not letting the world see any of this. only letting Satya see because she doesnt have to filter anything in front of him. and what Satya is seeing now, he saw even before marriage but he still decided to marry her even when Sai was ok to back off due to Amba being unhappy with the idea. It is Satya who convinced Amba and Sai. no one forced him to marry Sai and get involved in this.

she will take time but I want her to get over V and any residual feelings. thats the hope with which I watch the show and with Satya that process can happen sooner.

Unlike V, Sai does not lie about her feelings or deny it or make false promises to Satya. she has been upfront about everything. but she does not want to be in Vs life as his wife. she cant cut him out , she cares too much- more than she should which she herself acknowledges, but she knows she doesnt want to be his wife or partner. She has not ever led Satya on or promised him anything she cant deliver on , but neither has she put any clauses on their deal marriage like V had done. she wants to fulfil her role as his wife and she wants to move on but she acknowledges it will take time. Satya can back off and just be a friend or walk away entirely if he wants to even now. no one is keeping him tied.

he entered this relationship with sai knowing full well that she wasnt over V entirely but trusting that she will not do wrong by him and so if he still trusts her, he should give her time. if not, he is free to leave.

I don't know what would make her throw Virat out of her system..I don't know when.

I guess only physical abuse is left from his end.

Just because he entered this relationship knowing abt her feelings for Virat does not mean he deserves her running to Virat screaming she can't live without him every other day..

Sai knew he loved someone else and the marriage is not real, yet we fought she did not deserve it when Virat fans defended how she entered it knowing it all, how it was a deal and all of that.. kal ko Virat ko imagine karke Vat Savitri rakhegi , even that would be justified, because Satya entered the marriage knowing abt her feelings and because she can't stop loving Virat..

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

Guys look at this Ayesha was live 🤣

https://twitter.com/SONA_12_/status/1658489816621932547?t=z5j0CSicVKLdbZCgBRbBTA&s=19

Chalo finally she is open about calling out this nonsense..

Originally posted by: LadyD

I liked how Sai doesn't out right deny loving Virat like Virat used to. But at the same time is clear that she wants to live as Sai Joshi & for her children. But then why marry Satya in such haste. I would have preferred if she had gone back to the way she was. Been firm with Virat telling him what she told Satya. Telling him why she thinks they can't be together. The reason she gave last time was not real one or convincing one. They should have had a heart to heart talk about problem with them being couple or mainly problem with Virats behavior. Satya could have been her friend. Virat realizing his mistake trying to change while Satya Sai friendship getting stronger.

Sai living a carefree life without any expectations from any one, burden of pleasing any one. Evem better than one in Kankavali as she won't have that waiting & disappointment of Virat not trying to find her, will have both her kids around her who are secure with both parents loving them. Why put her into another deal & family which she has to cater to.

Our DCP is not as understanding and respectful as Doc guy. V doesn't even give breathing space.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Sai was "separated" from Virat for some 7 years. The reason of separation was Virat chosing his ex who destroyed Sai's life after trying to give her, Sai's son. What happened with her before she left Virat , what triggered her to leave him was enough for her to be not in love with him.What followed after she came back, in his life, the way he behaved, should take away any guilt from her, if at all she felt wrong in not being love with this man.. RIght now the whole narrative that she has been love with him for 8-10 years does not work for me, given she had enough reasons to be not in love with him.

However if what happened with her, 7 years back, did not succeed in taking that love away from her heart, if those 7 years of struggle and loneliness, did not make her come out of love with Virat, now that Virat has claimed he loves her & is miserable without her, there is no way she is falling out of love with him..SHe might deny, Satya, herself but thats how it is.. In all this she will not just emotionally cheat Satya, but break him bit by bit now that he is attached. Virat shall always be her man, always, despite how abusive he is with her..She is fine with the abuse, she has never really raised questions on that after falling in love with him.

Honestly this like this show focus soo much on physical aspect of cheating everyone forget that their is an enotinal aspect to it

And it's much much worst then physical cheating

I'm not saying Sai own Satay any love or etc

But the way she is going about things here is wrong

Sai having feeling for virat ( Satay knows this and is ok woth it )

But does that involve that Satay has to be OK with Sai everyday running behind virat giving vjrat those looks etc etc

Deal husband or not Sai own Satay her loyalty

No matter how hard you try to twist it

Originally posted by: AbjiniRockss

I loved SaiYa's conversation today.Unlike Virat Satya didn't CA Sai when she was worried sick for Virat.They had a heart to heart conversation today regarding their marriage.He asked her nicely does she still have feelings for Virat if she has he is ready to let her go even if he loves her now.He has not blind in his new love since he realised very quickly that Sai still loves Virat.He didn't proposed to Sai after seeing her worried for Virat.He isn't forcing Sai to accept her love.All these makes him 100 times better than PakRat.Those who told Satya is turning into another Pakhi is wrong since he is a mature and sensible guy unlike them.He has proved everyone wrong today that he is turning negative by being understanding and mature today.

I was looking forward for your post

Thanks for sharing

Loved that part of the episode only Satya characters thankfully was intact

Satya have been very very clear understanding on his part

But Sai's behavior isn't clear

She speaks one thing does other

It's sad to see her being used like this to white wash virat

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Chalo finally she is open about calling out this nonsense..

This like they are seeing her giving bts content with Harshad

😆

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

I don't know what would make her throw Virat out of her system..I don't know when.

I guess only physical abuse is left from his end.

Just because he entered this relationship knowing abt her feelings for Virat does not mean he deserves her running to Virat screaming she can't live without him every other day..

Sai knew he loved someone else and the marriage is not real, yet we fought she did not deserve it when Virat fans defended how she entered it knowing it all, how it was a deal and all of that.. kal ko Virat ko imagine karke Vat Savitri rakhegi , even that would be justified, because Satya entered the marriage knowing abt her feelings and because she can't stop loving Virat..

She will get over it at some point. its not easy especially when the abuser is hailed by one and all. but thats the hope with which I watch. If that doesnt happen, theres nothing left in the show.

Its not like Satya who is the objective person is telling Sai the truth that we as audience are saying- that V is toxic. he also told Sai- dekho iss haaalat mein bhi pyaar ka izhaar kar raha hai. and then he himself teared up to see Vs reality which was that he accuses Sai of cheating etc when he is the cheat. He has also seen Vs behavior towards Sai- yet he told Sai- no he is just possessive, but he loves you. Satya himself gives V a long rope despite having no love, no baggage, no reason to do so. so how does a woman who knew no other person in her life after her father and V- how does she snap out of it. she never even had even a friend in all these years- she always lived in what ifs. V is hailed by the samaaj and by all as adarshwaadi. how will she then recognize his abuse and call him out and get him punished for it?

Sai doesnt run to V screaming ILU every other day. she has only lost control in extreme life/death situations and she has immediately course corrected

When we gave V such a long long rope for his soft corner towards P and his dubious behavior with Sai and people sympathized with V when Sai publicly called him out for two timing- then why no patience for Sai to get over V . It took audience many many days and episodes to lose hope with V despite him doing much much worse, yet Sai gets called out over much less.

In Sai V deal case, it was one sided- Sai was just 18, orphaned, vulnerable, and she had no one in life.

In Sai Satya deal case, Sai has kept no conditions of ending marriage. Satya also loved someone else and said he wont love her. Satya has a full family also. hes not an 18 year old with no security in life. so theres no comparison of SaiV deal vs SaiYa deal

V repeatedly denied having feelings for P to Sai and for having feelings for Sai to P.

Sai is not lying, she is saying the truth. she is not leading him on. she is not giving false promises. she is being honest and upfront.

I'm not defending her holding Vs hand but I am saying she is not doing it in public view to embarrass Satya- she has been cognizant to never cross the limit in public, and she is not defending herself to satya or lying either. she is saying what she feels. she has not denied loving V to Satya now or before as well. she is still trying to get over him and she has trouble doing that when things keep happening to make her emotional. you dont have to agree with Sai's behavior, but to shame the victim of abuse as a doormat is frankly unnecessary.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

I don't know what would make her throw Virat out of her system..I don't know when.

I guess only physical abuse is left from his end.

Just because he entered this relationship knowing abt her feelings for Virat does not mean he deserves her running to Virat screaming she can't live without him every other day..

Sai knew he loved someone else and the marriage is not real, yet we fought she did not deserve it when Virat fans defended how she entered it knowing it all, how it was a deal and all of that.. kal ko Virat ko imagine karke Vat Savitri rakhegi , even that would be justified, because Satya entered the marriage knowing abt her feelings and because she can't stop loving Virat..

As fans, some of us fought so hard for Sai and her right to not take shit from Virat and walk away. But now she is determined to prove that she deserves no support from her fans, especially the way she runs back to that cheating piece of crap. Having a soft corner, some residual feelings is different form declaring full on that she cannot live if something happens to him. That's not something you say to person you are trying to move away from, a person who has abused and hurt you from the age of 18.