Sai doesn't want to be Sai Chavan page 6 - Page 20

Ok I have watched today's episode.I have mixed reaction regarding Sai.It seems she still loves Virat maybe Virat did bad with her but she couldn't forget the love she had for him.I know her having feelings for Virat makes her spineless but in love sometimes we forget everything even if the person is wrong we blindly believe him/her to be right.But she clarified in her conversation with Satya right even if there is love SaiRat's relationship have got destroyed so much that there is no future of their relationship.She wants to move on and wanted Virat to move on too.She just wants to live for her children now.I think she feels guilty that becoz of her Virat ka haal aise hoya hai.She has wrong definition of love.She didn't have anyone to say her what she is doing is wrong with herself maybe if her aaba would have been with her he could have make her understand.Even Usha Maushi believes Virat to be right.Also unlike Satya her zakham are still fresh she couldn't move in one day right.She is confused she didn't know what to do.But she really needed to make boundaries with Virat now what she is doing is emotional cheating.Becoz of the love triangle her character is getting destroyed to sail both ships makers are making her pendulum .Her character nowadays changed in alternate days sometimes she forget about Virat is seen being happy with Satya at other times she is getting emotional and concern for Virat.Her character has got complicated in order to sail both the ships.But she is still better than PakRat what PakRat did being married with other people and with each other is much worse.Sai isn't letting Virat talk bad about Satya and her sasural but when SaiRat was married Virat brought Pakhi in their lives gave her freedom to do whatever she want unlike Virat Sai isn't proposing her ex husband when she is married to someone else,unlike Pakhi she isn't trying to break a house so that's make her better than PakRat.

Is there any chance virat listened satya Sai conversation subconsciously ? 😆

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

anyone can become like Pakhi lol it’s just a matter of complications and situations lol🤣🤣🤣 didn’t Virat chase Sai like a crazy psycho stalker lover? I won’t be surprised if Satya turns out to be a negative character with a hidden agenda lol🥴🥴🥴🤣🤣🤣 anything can happen when push comes to shove.

Reason:

not name-calling Virat: he did behave like that. He locked her in a room then proposed her in public. Chased her. Did all sort of nonsense on her wedding day as well.

Agree. The makers make characters behave in surprising way. Virat realizing his mistakes, changing his behavior, clearing things with P would have been more logical but he went on behaving irrationally. He has made many mistakes but this was new.😆

lets see what they make Satya do. But overall this show is getting boring going in circles.

Sai was "separated" from Virat for some 7 years. The reason of separation was Virat chosing his ex who destroyed Sai's life after trying to give her, Sai's son. What happened with her before she left Virat , what triggered her to leave him was enough for her to be not in love with him.What followed after she came back, in his life, the way he behaved, should take away any guilt from her, if at all she felt wrong in not being love with this man.. RIght now the whole narrative that she has been love with him for 8-10 years does not work for me, given she had enough reasons to be not in love with him.

However if what happened with her, 7 years back, did not succeed in taking that love away from her heart, if those 7 years of struggle and loneliness, did not make her come out of love with Virat, now that Virat has claimed he loves her & is miserable without her, there is no way she is falling out of love with him..SHe might deny, Satya, herself but thats how it is.. In all this she will not just emotionally cheat Satya, but break him bit by bit now that he is attached. Virat shall always be her man, always, despite how abusive he is with her..She is fine with the abuse, she has never really raised questions on that after falling in love with him.

I loved SaiYa's conversation today.Unlike Virat Satya didn't CA Sai when she was worried sick for Virat.They had a heart to heart conversation today regarding their marriage.He asked her nicely does she still have feelings for Virat if she has he is ready to let her go even if he loves her now.He has not become blind in his new love since he realised very quickly that Sai still loves Virat.He didn't proposed to Sai after seeing her worried for Virat.He is also not forcing Sai to accept his love.All these makes him 100 times better than PakRat.Those who told Satya is turning into another Pakhi is wrong since he is a mature and sensible guy unlike them.He has proved everyone wrong today that he is turning negative by being understanding and mature today.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sai and Satya both have witnessed what Vs "pyaar" is like. while Sai and Satya love unconditionally and wish well for others, try to see the best in people, give them multiple chances and are cordial, dignified always- V is the type whose emotions change based on situations. he was SO sure that Sai loved him when he saw how she came running to meet him during mission- but it took 2 seconds for him to accuse Sai of being with Satya despite acknowledging that she has remained single all these years. even in his unconscious state he murmurs both ILU and I hate you and calls her a dhokebaaz. what dhoka?! they were not together, he was married to P when he proposed to her and he is the one who insulted her and CAed her and threw her a challenge to move on in a very condescending and disrespectful way and she was clear about her rejecting his proposal. she didnt lead him on and do something behind his back. she was clear she would not be with him, that she will marry another and she did it. Everything Sai does- she is very upfront about it. theres no khichdi cooking separately. she is transparent about her mixed emotions in front of Satya, she is transparent about what her priorities are. she will not lie. if she doesnt have an answer, she will say so. she wont lie or give fake vaadas like V does. and I appreciate that.

yet people are comparing Sai to V and Sai to P. its really sad to read such comparisons. after 850 episodes if people are really equating Sai to the criminals then what can anyone say.

Satya's love for Sai is understandable which was laid on foundation of respect, admiration and trust.

Can someone explain what is Virat's idea of love? Why did he love Sai?

I liked how Sai doesn't out right deny loving Virat like Virat used to. But at the same time is clear that she wants to live as Sai Joshi & for her children. But then why marry Satya in such haste. I would have preferred if she had gone back to the way she was. Been firm with Virat telling him what she told Satya. Telling him why she thinks they can't be together. The reason she gave last time was not real one or convincing one. They should have had a heart to heart talk about problem with them being couple or mainly problem with Virats behavior. Satya could have been her friend. Virat realizing his mistake trying to change while Satya Sai friendship getting stronger.

Sai living a carefree life without any expectations from any one, burden of pleasing any one. Evem better than one in Kankavali as she won't have that waiting & disappointment of Virat not trying to find her, will have both her kids around her who are secure with both parents loving them. Why put her into another deal & family which she has to cater to.

https://twitter.com/pragya07807099/status/1658477931663073290?s=46 har ek mahine yeh zaroori hai

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Yes, love is not everything. Does Sai recognise that? Why did she feel the need to hold Virat's hand after they were out of the highly, emotionally charged situation. Even after changing her clothes and Virat having been examined?

Your stressors, trauma, nothing in the world allow you to play with the mental peace of someone else i.e. Satya. And I don't mean romantically because she doesn't owe him anything in that regard.

But to nurse your ex and hold his hand and make puppy dog eyes at him at your current husband's workplace is plain disrespectful and uncaring. Trauma doesn't allow you to play with other people.

If she has resolved to move on from Virat irrespective of love, then her behaviour should reflect that. Her saying main tumhare bina jee nahi saki Virat every alternate day is pretty pathetic.

Sai doesn't deserve a disgusting PoS as Virat but, at the moment, she doesn't deserve Satya as a lavender husband either. Because even a fake lavender marriage has boundaries that protects both the partners socially.

Does she deserve him as a friend? Yes.

As a partner she can convienently use as a buffer in how and when she indulges with her ex? No.

This , she is at her and her current husband's. workplace, crying for her ex holding his hands, crying when he says he hates her, being emotional when he says he loves her , letting the world see. When it comes to Virat her reputation , her self-respect never mattered to her anyway but then she is also putting the man she calls her husband his respect at stake.

There is no justification, neither her traumas or her sufferings or her love for Virat, for what she did today. Satya is a nice man, but one can't take advantage of it just because he understands her.

Originally posted by: Micheal_Farzi

https://twitter.com/pragya07807099/status/1658477931663073290?s=46 har ek mahine yeh zaroori hai

Extras hire hi hote hai iske liye in the show🤣